Dilemma with older woman

[DJCorleone]

So here it is guys. I been 'seeing' a much older woman for about 2 months now. She's old enough to be my mother, not that it bothers me though, as her mindset seems much younger.
Anyway, my main concern is that we haven't done anything highly sexual, except for handjobs etc. As much as it could be my fault, everytime I escalate this far, she either stops me or starts lightly crying, which leaves me quite frankly confused.
We see each other a fair amount, every other day, and there is much kino between the both of us, and shes telling me shes crazy about me.
Can anyone decipher whats happening? Im not breaking it off because shes quite cool, however I feel like a chump playing around with absolutely no sex.
Advice anyone, please? If I can answer any questions that would make it easier to give advice, please ask!

 

[Rounder]

This should be nothing but sex. Period. If you are having feelings for her then get out now.

Had a friend at age 21 marry a woman who was 38. Complete and total dumpster fire from start to finish.

If you want to nail a cougar then do it, but do NOT develop feelings, who cares what any of this means. And a woman her age should already be having sex with you.

 

[COD]

Std

Odds Are She May Be Relunctant Due To An Std Or Some Other Physical Issue. Embarassment.

Did U Ever Try The Obvious And Just Ask Her What It Is?

 

[Create Reality]

Has she told you yet what the nature of the relationship is? She needs to be straight with you.

DonCorleone, give up the handjobs. You have to put your penis on hold. Don't let your dingdong get in the way of your brain.

 

[nismo-4]

Something's fishy. All you're getting is handjobs? Get out of this.

 

[KontrollerX]

"Im not breaking it off"

Well then...

This topic is settled guys.

He's made his decision and is happy with having this woman as a friend who occassionally jacks him off.

Now if he actually did want to get in her pvssy he'd have to do a take away and break off his contact with her for a while and see how she responds to that but he's unwilling to do that because of how cool she is (code for having no other options) and how much he values her friendship so...uh...yeah.

Our work here is done.

Enjoy your friendship dude.

"she either stops me or starts lightly crying"

A DJ would run so far and so fast away from this woman after she did that the DJ in question could quite possibly be drafted to represent the US in the next Olympic games for track and field.

 

[Joe Stud]

Keep goin... she will relent eventually. Turn her into your Mrs Robinson. This is in lieu of nexting her because you said you wont do that.

 

[playerone]

"she either stops me or starts lightly crying"

A DJ would run so far and so fast away from this woman after she did that the DJ in question could quite possibly be drafted to represent the US in the next Olympic games for track and field.

Hahaha. :crackup:

Corleone, you've got to learn abundance. Letting go of this woman will probably get you leaps further than what you can achieve by holding on.