here's a different scenario.. i arranged to meet a different HB tonight, she said she couldn't cos she has a dance class that finishes at the same time as i specified to meet, she didn't suggest another time so i came back with the suggestion to meet an hour later.
She came back with meeting her outside her class when it finished.. i said ok but stupidly made a joke about how she wouldn't be looking her best after the class, then she came back with that she couldn't meet today and it would be next time (but no suggestion of when next time)
i came back with that it was ok and i'll turn up.. but she insisted on not meeting, so i suggested the weekend as previously promised by her (tonight was more spur of the moment rather than set in stone. but she promised me this weekend previously)
surprise surprise she goes back on her word and said she has classes everyday and she'll decide later..
i countered with jokingly that she's going back on her promise and that she's losing points with me and suggested meet me tonight regardless. she didn't get back to me even when i tried calling an hour later, no answer.
big AFC rookie mistakes i know.. but it seems from the period when i said she wasn't looking her best after her class to the final msg the opportunity has gone and i'm not going to meet her ever.. how/why?
i don't understand the thinking behind this.. i made a joke about it now suddenly i go from definitely meeting her tonight to the point where it's a BS excuse of a 'maybe' where she has the power and control and decision where to meet.. that sincerely F's me off the tone these HBs seem to take with their self imposed pedestal positions
how should one counter these notions?
She came back with meeting her outside her class when it finished.. i said ok but stupidly made a joke about how she wouldn't be looking her best after the class, then she came back with that she couldn't meet today and it would be next time (but no suggestion of when next time)
i came back with that it was ok and i'll turn up.. but she insisted on not meeting, so i suggested the weekend as previously promised by her (tonight was more spur of the moment rather than set in stone. but she promised me this weekend previously)
surprise surprise she goes back on her word and said she has classes everyday and she'll decide later..
i countered with jokingly that she's going back on her promise and that she's losing points with me and suggested meet me tonight regardless. she didn't get back to me even when i tried calling an hour later, no answer.
big AFC rookie mistakes i know.. but it seems from the period when i said she wasn't looking her best after her class to the final msg the opportunity has gone and i'm not going to meet her ever.. how/why?
i don't understand the thinking behind this.. i made a joke about it now suddenly i go from definitely meeting her tonight to the point where it's a BS excuse of a 'maybe' where she has the power and control and decision where to meet.. that sincerely F's me off the tone these HBs seem to take with their self imposed pedestal positions
how should one counter these notions?