Different cities for the summer

[Nobody]

Sup fellas. Went out with this girl once. Never escalated to anything. Was only able to take her out once before our summer classes ended. She lives 4 hours away (school is 8 hours away). I'm well aware I got oneitis if I'm asking this. I have full intentions of playing the field (already got two other girls lined up), but I'm definitely interested in her come fall as well. How much attention do I show her without ruining my chances? The other thing is that we're in this iphone group called beluga. beluga is just an app where it's one big chat room via text messages. She'll chime in and I'll chime in every now and then, but we rarely acknowledge each other in it. Mainly just our friends going back and forth. Should I just drop out of beluga and disappear only texting her directly till fall comes back? How often should I text her without going too hard or going not often enough and losing interest?

 

[thevilittletroll]

my advice would be to use facebook instead. she can see what you post on your wall, and its not just about her, everbody sees it. then just send her texts randomly. 1 one week, skip a week, 2 the next week, skip a week ect...no more than two initiations in a week. all you are trying to do is to keep her thinking about you all summer, i wouldnt really try to "game" her until school starts again.

 

[Nobody]

my advice would be to use facebook instead. she can see what you post on your wall, and its not just about her, everbody sees it. then just send her texts randomly. 1 one week, skip a week, 2 the next week, skip a week ect...no more than two initiations in a week. all you are trying to do is to keep her thinking about you all summer, i wouldnt really try to "game" her until school starts again.

Everyone else agree?