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I am a 1/2 aruban (black) 1/2 colombian (mestizo) and i grew up around hispanics and blacks, but now i go to college with both black/hispanics and white people.
If you want to talk to Black women, your pants have to be a little baggier, not falling off your ass, but not tight. You cant say anything corny, and you have to be more than just cordial and sweet because she will probably not help you in convo. technique is simple, you ask about her (what she did today) then bust on her alittle bit about it.
Ok look, because African descent people are oppressed to a certain extent in alot of societies, people tend to be more aggressive. Black guys and hispanics, including myself, know how to be funny, its very easy for us, and its the norm, even among friends. Ok so this is what you: hit her off with some funny ****, then do something to violate her space and kind of offensive. For me, i scale it back when i talk to white girls, and it works like a charm.
example: in the lunchroom i say something funny, then i take something like a couple of fries off her tray and eat it. She will get mad and probably hit you and/or yell at you. this is good, u want this. If it was a white girl, i would just take something off her plate and say, 'wow is that for me, thanks' but then give it back. Thats enough for white girls. Black girls, be funny, bust on them alot.
Oh yeah black girls' job to try to get the man on his knees and doing whatever she wants, then go tell her friends about how much of a pushover. Ok so look, dont let any form of disrespect go unchecked. if you give her an inch she will take a mile (a mile is sending your ass to Rite Aid to buy her feminine products) so trust me, dont even give them a fraction of an inch. But you have to know how to thoroughly put a woman in check. You do this having something to crack on her about.
example, she is wearing a fitted (hat) that doesnt match, call her on that, she will know to never come at you out of pocket like that and keep minding her Ps and Qs. Another thing is you simply say that you dont like these actions (interacting with an ex or something like that) and you dont know if you want her on your team anymore (because you r a man with options, but you dont say that, you imply it, when you question what shes doing and whether you want her on your team) When I talk to White girls, I dont have to check them at all, i can just have a straight interesting convo, with some funny thrown in. Watch the average black guy, he will know how to handle them. But basically, if you feel a vibe like she is an urban, hood black/hispanic chick then do more like what i said, if shes from the suburbs, scale back and concentrate more on getting her to talk about herself, and sharing interesting convos and a little funny.
