Difference between building rapport and being an Emotional Tampon?

[fedagent]

I'm just wondering if anyone out there can help filter the difference here?

The only reason I ask is that chics live in their drama, so everything they talk about has feelings in it.....How does one draw the line between building rapport and trust.......without becoming an emotional tampon (ET)?

I know some of the obvious crap, like if they talk about a guy, then that's ET material.....

Anyone have any definitions they use to help them make this clear and identify one from the other?

Fed

 

[Serialized3]

You can draw the line between building an emotional connection and being "one of the girls" by expressing your sexuality to her. It's pretty much that simple.

I would definitely express my sexual intentions with her from the beginning in order to let her know that you're attracted, and not just interested in being a friend. Be sexual, hold her, give her bedroom eyes, and try to kiss her early on. If you don't, she'll probably assume you're either gay, a wuss, or only interested in friendship.

 

[Jon55]

lol, I beat you by about a day.


http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=119570

 

[fedagent]

Guess you're one step ahead of me on the girl I'm gaming, lol!