I listed all my problems out on a sheet of paper, and this one seems to be my biggest one. Being ****y and funny is something that comes natural to me when i'm talking to my guy friends, and I don't have a problem with that, but with girls, I seem to struggle because I go overboard. I can't differentiate the difference and it makes me come off as a douche bag. Sometimes, especially on a bad day, like today, I come off as a huge *******.
For example, this AFC told this girl that EVERYONE in the class is interested in, including me, even though I try to resist. That she was sexy. And I was right next to both of them and I said, "Why are you lying to her?"........ *Facepalm.*
I've been practicing with this girl because It's someone everyone likes, so I feel like I have to put her down. I don't know why I'm like that, I just am. So she told me that, "She use to think I was a nice guy, and that now I'm an *******." I KNOW that I crossed the line about what i said, but sometimes i say things just to see how people will react. It's like I'm sadistic...
I need to learn how to handle this. Any advice
For example, this AFC told this girl that EVERYONE in the class is interested in, including me, even though I try to resist. That she was sexy. And I was right next to both of them and I said, "Why are you lying to her?"........ *Facepalm.*
I've been practicing with this girl because It's someone everyone likes, so I feel like I have to put her down. I don't know why I'm like that, I just am. So she told me that, "She use to think I was a nice guy, and that now I'm an *******." I KNOW that I crossed the line about what i said, but sometimes i say things just to see how people will react. It's like I'm sadistic...
I need to learn how to handle this. Any advice