Did you surprise yourself when you first starting DJing?

[iCatch]

i was shocked when i started using kino for the first time. the reactions were great. every girl i used kino on felt comfortable with it and are comfortable with touching me back. i had no idea how much potential i had! i wish i was more confident a couple of years ago because i had so much going for me. i was just too hesitant to ever do anything

 

[Jaggs]

Yeah I was kinda shocked also.

I was always good at conversation/humour and getting people to like me, so I was really half way there. I had also just come out of a pretty AFC 18 month relationship. So luckily like most the guys here I didn't have to start my climb ALL the way down from the bottom, learning social dynamics with literally zero experience. Once I started applying some basic foundations of attraction I found EVERY single person I communicated with (Chicks/guys/co workers/managers/random people) responded to me a lot better.

I have changed my state of mind and people around me have changed their view on me. It's wonderful.

 

[Maxwell]

I was worried they'd get offended or wierded out when I started doing it, so I made sure to gesture with my hands while conversing first, so it didn't seem too "out of the blue," but more a natural extension of my established manner.

On the upside, they all seemed comfortable with it, to my surprise. Unfortunately, "comfortable" was as good as it got. I must not have been sexual enough with it because their response was always pretty bland. I go for the shoulder or arm first, then move to the hands; haven't got further than that yet.

 

[DJ Shaka]

No, I was a nervous ****, I tapped them on the shoulder like I was punching them. They jumped out of their skin, I was like "sorry for scaring you" then I just froze up and asked if they went there often (we was at a one off event, no worse time to say that huh?) Stuttering the whole way through, then I walked away whilst they were still talking because I was embarassed. Lmao.

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