I'm still a virgin but I have the itching suspision that it doesn't change you.
Success with girls opens your mind to what's possible and gives you some bragging rights (like yay I can finaly join in when the convo is about sex) but approach anxiety won't go away.
That's what all my friends who aren't virgins anymore have told me and it makes perfect sence to me: It's like the first time you get drunk, high, or make out. I remember the first time I got a girl down to her undies and sucked her titties. As cool as it was it wasn't a revolution or anything.
Better to work on who you are etc. than trying to get into some draws by any means nescesary.