Did you create a vision for yourself ?

[ChalengeGuyFan]

If you've been on the MANLY dating / motivational / self-help sites for some time now, then you already know enough to make it in life.

But do you apply it ?
If you do, then what's your direction ? Do you apply the advice randomly, or do you have a vision where you want to be ?

For example: did you sketch an idea how your best Saturday would go ?

Maybe wake up in your clean and cosy apartment. How exactly does this apartment look like ? Minimalist, flooded with sunlight ?
A hottie you picked up last night is by your side and mirin your athletic physique.
How does this chick look like? Cutie ? Hot ? Slim ? Classy ?
What do you do next? (Sex, of course.)
How does the interaction go ?
Do you have a light and healthy breakfast ?
What next ? Dress in stylish but comfortable clothes and go out to meet some friends ?
What do you do with these friends ?
etc. etc.
How do you end the day ?

Myself, I find it hard to advance in anything without "seeing" the end result. Having a vision gives me a direction, prevents me from putting effort into non-sense, gives me the necessary willpower / courage to do something and helps me avoid side-tracks.

What about you ? What's your vision ?

 

[JohnChops]

Indeed.

For awhile I applied this information here but then fell off the wagon but now im starting to apply it again.

I have an end goal in mind for any task I do. However, I find it easy to have an end goal for pickup but hard to implement the "b" part, aka how to actually follow through.

 

[MAYALL]

I think having a clear vision of what you want to accomplish gives you a strong healthy mindset. You're focused on your goal and you have a plan to achieve it. Too many people get too lazy, are afraid, or have no idea how they can reach their goal. Mapping out a plan or having small check points or bench marks until you reach it will help you get there faster. I've done it on different occasions and the end results are satisfying. It not only can be applied towards women but life in general.

 

[ChalengeGuyFan]

Indeed.

For awhile I applied this information here but then fell off the wagon but now im starting to apply it again.

I have an end goal in mind for any task I do. However, I find it easy to have an end goal for pickup but hard to implement the "b" part, aka how to actually follow through.

How does that end goal look like ?
Define it up to the smallest detail and you'll find out how to follow through it.

eg: End goal is to spin 3 plates.

Where did you meet them ?
Met one in a hiking group --> join one such group

What were you doing at the time ?
Climbing up a mountain, feeling strong and in touch with my masculinity --> hit the gym or get good at some sport in order to feel strong. Eat like a man. Drop your pvssy friends and hang around manly men. Strive for performance in your physical activities. Go to the countryside and splinter some firewood, i.e. do stuff that makes you feel manly.

Why did you approach them ?
The chick was hot and seemed interesting --> define what you *really* want in a girl (looks, interests, attitude, etc.). Where do you find such girls ?

Where did you invite them out ?
Minigolf, because I never went to minigolf and I like the idea --> find the avenues in your area that you find interesting. Go out with friends or even alone and find those places !

How did you look like at the date ?
****y jeans + t-shirt --> define your style. Get a better haircut. Have a professional help you.

And so on. The more details, the clearer your next steps.

I find it *very* hard to create a proper vision. It takes quite an effort [ and reading SoSuave becomes a crutch. It gives me the impression that I'm doing something to better myself, while I actually don't. :nervous: ]