Did Too Much Too Early.... And Paying the Price

[Chris Dash]

What's Kino?

I'm guessing from what I read, it's showing more sexual interests to the girl?

 

[Hollowpoint]

LOL Tails, you got 300 posts, registered since March, and you don't know what C+F means! Heh, to be honest, I found out last week.





"I am not a believer in C&F because I believe that if you are not naturally C&F you can't "cut it on" or else it will be fake. If "

That is so true, I don't know this guy, but C+F was ALREADY part of my personality, so it is something I already am, and I am natural at it. Can't speak for all.



Glad you're moving on, you're getting a thicker skin as it is.



Chris Dash - http://sucs.org/~nicholas/djb/index.php

 

[Chris Dash]

Originally posted by PizDoff
Chris Dash - http://sucs.org/~nicholas/djb/index.php

Thanks

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Only pursue a girl romantically and not as a bike riding partner or dinner mate. By the second date and every date thereafter the activity should always lead to determine her romantic interest in you.

Always go for the kiss by the second date - if she continues to shun you after the third/fouth date then you know she is not interested. This will save you much time and money! Do not spend a lot of money on the 1st, 2nd or 3rd dates - check for interest level first by going for the kiss!

 

[Tails]

Originally posted by PizDoff
"I am not a believer in C&F because I believe that if you are not naturally C&F you can't "cut it on" or else it will be fake. If "

That is so true, I don't know this guy, but C+F was ALREADY part of my personality, so it is something I already am, and I am natural at it. Can't speak for all.

yup. it only works if you're born with it (C+F). and boy am i glad i was born with it. if i didn't have the C+F thing in me, i'd be a goner. it mixes perfect with my charm. it comes out so naturally, hehe. i have a friend who tries to be funny, and that really is funny, lol. he says the stupidest things that don't even make sense. haha

 

[dietzcoi]

Ah, yes, a perfect example of the AFC approach to dating! Been there, done that.

Nickster, you approached this woman as if you wanted to be her FRIEND, not love interest!

What's with the friendly dinners, fixing things, bringing over a care package, no kissing, etc, etc?????

Everything you did shouted (gay) friend instead of boyfriend!

Even you comments here make you sound weak, like a woman as one poster remarked.

In the future, use what you learn here, be a man, and go for the kill! Stop dancing around in a tutu and attack!

Dietzcoi

 

[dietzcoi]

PS Going to a MUSICAL??

Season tickets to the theater????

Why do you suppose she thinks you are GAY?

God save us!

Dietzcoi

 

[Dirtheart]

It's okay if she wants to move on, I just want some measure of respect. Next time I'll be a little more careful to ensure that a girl doesn't just take me for granted.

Sadly this is a lesson many of us learn the hard way. It's very annoying/upsetting when you show a girl respect and get none in return.

A hard lesson I learned was in my AFC days when I spent a fortune on a girl I was dating, did anything for her when she asked and I even tutored her for exams (which she passed with her highest ever grade). The b*tch turned it against me: "I'd rather be friends because you're so nice and I don't want to risk losing you". It turns out that when she said she wanted to be friends, it meant ignoring my calls completely from that point onwards.

Dietzcoi is absolutely right! It might not feel natural to you, but DO NOT treat a girl you are interested in as a friend because that's how she'll see you.

Never hold back physically because you want to show respect. If she doesn't want you that way, she'll let you know, but that's better than leaving you guessing or giving you the cold treatment for no reason.