Did my ex just insult me or am I overthinking things

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She texts me randomly that she’s nearby with her friend and wants to come visit. Note, she knows what area I live in, but not the address. I’m already booked for the rest of the day, so I tell her that I cannot and maybe next time.

Deep down, I find it insulting because it sees me as a plan B and doesn’t value my time. If she really respected me, I feel like a simple morning text of “Hey, I’m going to be nearby later today, will you be available?” would’ve been sufficient.

Am I just being extra or is this insulting?
Maybe she wants to poke around your home, whilst using her friend as a KOKblocker
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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