She texts me randomly that she’s nearby with her friend and wants to come visit. Note, she knows what area I live in, but not the address. I’m already booked for the rest of the day, so I tell her that I cannot and maybe next time.
Deep down, I find it insulting because it sees me as a plan B and doesn’t value my time. If she really respected me, I feel like a simple morning text of “Hey, I’m going to be nearby later today, will you be available?” would’ve been sufficient.
Am I just being extra or is this insulting?
