Did i spend too much?

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I been seeing a girl about 2 months and for v-day i got her:

All 5 season of saved by the bell the box set - it only cost 40 bucks (its her fav show,and we joke about it all the time)
2 boxes of those little candy hearts with the sayings on them, and packaged rainbow cookies just as a joke cuz she loves them and we have a little inside joke about them.
I'm just gonna throw those 3 things in a gift bag with a card, and get her a dozen roses. Is that too much? Were also going to dinner. She flat out told me she doesnt spend alot on her bfs for v-day, cuz she thinks its a girls holiday anyway, and that she got me a bunch of little things, and made me soemthing herself (god knows wat it is).
 

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The dozen roses thing sounds a little too TRY-Hard to me. I'd have bought her some sex-toys personally, those are more fun for BOTH of you.
 

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onyx said:
i would say so, yes

should i get just 1 rose then? How can i make this smaller. I obvioulsty wasnt gonna get her jewerly after 2 months, but at the same time i thought it would be stupid to get her a little stuffed animal and chocalate.

40 bucks, and flowers is too much? Of course theres dinner too, i dunno, wat should i do?
 

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kdnash82 said:
prepare to be very disappointed at the present she got you.

Well i could care less what she got me, not like im looking forward to it or anything, im sure its just candy and little sentimental type little crap. Plus watever the "really cute" thing is that she said she made me. i totally could care less. I just hope i didnt spend too much. i thought the saved by the bell thing was perfect. But i dunno u think i should save that for a later holiday, and get her just flowers, candy and dinner.

I guess it is alot cuz in total ill be spending at least 100 bucks.

prob 50 for dinner if we each get a drink and with the tip
40 for saved by the bell
10-15 on flowers
5 dollars on candy
3 on card.

sh*t its over 100. What should i do? is 1 rose a good idea? it would save me lots.
 

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I would ditch the flowers and buy a bottle of wine instead with that money. Then you can BOTH enjoy the wine together which will then lead to you getting some p00n.
 

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DJinTraining06 said:
I been seeing a girl about 2 months and for v-day i got her:

All 5 season of saved by the bell the box set - it only cost 40 bucks (its her fav show,and we joke about it all the time)
2 boxes of those little candy hearts with the sayings on them, and packaged rainbow cookies just as a joke cuz she loves them and we have a little inside joke about them.
I'm just gonna throw those 3 things in a gift bag with a card, and get her a dozen roses. Is that too much? Were also going to dinner. She flat out told me she doesnt spend alot on her bfs for v-day, cuz she thinks its a girls holiday anyway, and that she got me a bunch of little things, and made me soemthing herself (god knows wat it is).
hell yea playa, u spent way to damn much on that b1tch. u shouldnt buy no b1tch nothing like until she is yo wife, or yo girl of longterm. when she dumps yo ass for me, me and here can sit down and watch that saved by the bell sh1t together while she give me head and i give her a pimp hand.
 

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word, i'd just buy some wine or something, at least then you can share it
 

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You're fine DJ. As long as this chick is in to you then you really can't spend too much or too little.

Unless you're straight up broke or just plain cheap then there is nothing wrong with dropping some cash on Valentines.


You already got the girl and I assume you get the poon so it's not like buying her something too excessive will make her think your supplicating or buying something too cheap will make her close her legs.

Don't worry about what she gives you. Don't even expect anything in return Valentines is a girls day. Treat her on that day like the sum of the way she treats you the rest of the year.
 

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I didnt even bother reading what you wrote, all I read was your Title. Yes how arrogant, ignorant and naive of me to than put forward my view. But what does this tell us, it tells us that your topic is an IMMEDIATE giveaway, this message isnt just to you its to all those people out there on V-DAY.

"Did i spend too much" Thats your problem already, you not even sure yourself if you spent too much, so clearly you have spent too much if you asking that question in all honesty and just like you stated "I dont care what she got me."--->

SHE IS SAYING THE SAME THING MATE! A rose or a flower or a card isnt going to WIN your girl over, your THOUGHTS will. Making her feel special EVERYDAY is all you have to do.
 

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Your fine but I would prob just go with the single rose. Don't sweat this
 

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$31 + gas money here, for 4 females:

mom
sister
2x girls

4x teddy bears (1 for each)
3x bags of gummy bears (1 for each except mom)
1x pot of roses (mom)
1x balloon (mom)

I hope she does somethin dirty for ya DJ ...
 
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Bigfatasspimp said:
hell yea playa, u spent way to damn much on that b1tch. u shouldnt buy no b1tch nothing like until she is yo wife, or yo girl of longterm. when she dumps yo ass for me, me and here can sit down and watch that saved by the bell sh1t together while she give me head and i give her a pimp hand.
yeah thats how you do it, you give her a lot of cash to that hoe so then she can spend all that money on true macks like us
 
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Give her ice cream - "Girls like ice cream"... "Scarface"
 

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DJinTraining06 said:
I been seeing a girl about 2 months and for v-day i got her:

All 5 season of saved by the bell the box set - it only cost 40 bucks (its her fav show,and we joke about it all the time)
2 boxes of those little candy hearts with the sayings on them, and packaged rainbow cookies just as a joke cuz she loves them and we have a little inside joke about them.
I'm just gonna throw those 3 things in a gift bag with a card, and get her a dozen roses. Is that too much? Were also going to dinner. She flat out told me she doesnt spend alot on her bfs for v-day, cuz she thinks its a girls holiday anyway, and that she got me a bunch of little things, and made me soemthing herself (god knows wat it is).

you are a captain save a hoe, you probably spent like 100 bucks and ****...
and on top of that you only have been going out for 2 months....

just give her a card and thats it

you are trying to spend a lot on this ***** because you lack of game


like the true mack king flex said...

"you have to come out of your mouth with game before you come out of your pocket with change"
 

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I think you went a bit overboard, but as long as things are good between you two and she's into you, then it doesn't really matter as long as your not spending a lot of money on her on a regular basis. I think Valentine's day is a feminist inspired holiday, and I'll always hate it every year regardless of whether I'm in a relationship or single.


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Kev07 said:
you could have saved that DVD set for her birthday, and used the money to get better flowers, 10-15 bucks for flowers sounds like some really cheap flowers.
Well actually now im thinking bout gettin her just one red rose. I didnt wanna spend so much, but i saw the saved by the bell set in the store for 42 bucks. Anywhere else it would be alot more, it was a great deal. She told me her gift for me is great and all that (she admitted she spent very little). SO i responded that my gift was great too. So if i save the dvd for her bday, i have no clue wat to get hernow that fits the billing of "great" that i tolld her.

I havent bought her anything yet, aside from paying for dinner occassionally(sometimes i let her pay half). and i burned her 3 cds. Other than that nothin, no flowers or anything like that. So i figured it was aight to give her all this. what do u think?
 

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I have no clue wat to get her now that fits the billing of "great" that i tolld her.
How about just spending the night with you? Isn't that "great" enough for Her Majesty? You can also admit that you kept the other gift for her birthday.
 

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