corner boy
Don Juan
Hi guys
Well actually my first post here and I'm not quite sure if this topic belongs in here or rather into the high school forum, but since I'm at university I decided to put it in here...anyway, here's my story:
I've met this hot Tunisian girl (tall, long and curly hair; big brown eyes) on a train ride. I was reading a book and when suddenly she started a conversation about the book. Turns out she's attending the same university and the same major as I do (actually I've seen her already a couple of times at the university). We had a good conversation about this and that. Felt a strong hook, good eye connection. Didn't ask her in the end for her number though cuz she was with her sister and I thought that it would be kind of weird/too obvious.
Saw her a couple of days later at the entrance of the canteen. Went to her to say hi. Conversation was a bit awkward that time. Firstly my conversational French is not yet very skilled (I'm German and attending a French University) and secondly I was kind of nervous. Tried to catch her eyes but it didn't hook as much that time. A bit later a guy shows up – turns out she's having a rendez-vous with him for lunch. He looked to me like a typical orbiter, clearly interested in her.
Didn't see her anymore for a couple of days and got uneasy. Looked her up on Facebook and found her. I texted her: "Hey is it you that I've met in the train recently?" her answer: "haha yes, it's indeed me ^^". Well and at this point I think I've mad a big mistake and I think I've screwed up. I've texted her something that goes like "oh my god, sometimes facebook scares me really of 'cuz it showed me your profile in the 'you-also-might-know-list'. How are things going? You had a nice weekend?" and in addition I've sent her a friend-request.
Well, she confirmed the request, but didn't reply to my message anymore. I guess I must have come across as creepy. Or just boring. I understand now that there are enough orbiters and that I acted just like another one of those chumps
Do you think I've screwed up completely? Or is there maybe a way to turn the tide? What would you do in my situation?
Thanks guys!
Well actually my first post here and I'm not quite sure if this topic belongs in here or rather into the high school forum, but since I'm at university I decided to put it in here...anyway, here's my story:
I've met this hot Tunisian girl (tall, long and curly hair; big brown eyes) on a train ride. I was reading a book and when suddenly she started a conversation about the book. Turns out she's attending the same university and the same major as I do (actually I've seen her already a couple of times at the university). We had a good conversation about this and that. Felt a strong hook, good eye connection. Didn't ask her in the end for her number though cuz she was with her sister and I thought that it would be kind of weird/too obvious.
Saw her a couple of days later at the entrance of the canteen. Went to her to say hi. Conversation was a bit awkward that time. Firstly my conversational French is not yet very skilled (I'm German and attending a French University) and secondly I was kind of nervous. Tried to catch her eyes but it didn't hook as much that time. A bit later a guy shows up – turns out she's having a rendez-vous with him for lunch. He looked to me like a typical orbiter, clearly interested in her.
Didn't see her anymore for a couple of days and got uneasy. Looked her up on Facebook and found her. I texted her: "Hey is it you that I've met in the train recently?" her answer: "haha yes, it's indeed me ^^". Well and at this point I think I've mad a big mistake and I think I've screwed up. I've texted her something that goes like "oh my god, sometimes facebook scares me really of 'cuz it showed me your profile in the 'you-also-might-know-list'. How are things going? You had a nice weekend?" and in addition I've sent her a friend-request.
Well, she confirmed the request, but didn't reply to my message anymore. I guess I must have come across as creepy. Or just boring. I understand now that there are enough orbiters and that I acted just like another one of those chumps
Do you think I've screwed up completely? Or is there maybe a way to turn the tide? What would you do in my situation?
Thanks guys!
