did i screw up with this?

[wherealltheladyz]

I think I really mess up on this one. I was about to go to third base with the girl that I like. Things escalated while we watching tv. We went to my room. We kiss, then I proceeded to finger her. She was so turn on. I knew because she was really wet down there. Then she told me she wanted to have sex. Well I ejaculated early. It was so emberrassing. She ask me is there something she needs to know. I made up an excuse. It wasn't like I didn't want to have sex with her. I ask her was she mad at me. She told me she was a little frustrated and confuse. She had to leave a little later. Did I really f*** up?

 

[DonJuanabe]

What was your excuse?

I think you played this weak. Something like: You're so damn sexy I've been holding it back for an hour, I just couldn't take it anymore... would have been better.

 

[alxrose04]

I'd say that the f**k up was in the way you handled it, not the ejaculating early part. It happens to the best of us. When she asked is there something that she needs to know, perhaps you could have said something like "No, it just that you and you body got me so excited" (and saved it with) "Let me finish the job" and proceed to go down on her and finish her off.

You have to say all of this as if it was no big deal which is the key to handling f**k ups. You treat it like it was no big deal, then she wont. And as long as you take action to fix it (going down on her), then she'll forget everything when you have her eyes in the back of her head. Stay positive.

 

[wherealltheladyz]

Well I went down on her before that. That what got her all horny. THen she say she wanted to f--k. This just the first time it happen.

 

[seethehoop]

Could you not just give it ten mins them get it up again.

Ive never had this problem but I think id nip to the toilet then wash up and return fresh ready for it. If ya not ready at that moment do more foreplay then go to it. She ain't gonna complain if you concede another round in her favour before hand.