Did I play it right ?

[aWolf]

this girl is a friend of mine, HB9.5 and she's in a falling marriage
she doesnt love him anymore and she already had a boyfriend but broke up with him 2 weeks ago. She's filing for divorce

she's 24 and I'm 22, I'll admit I had a crush on her until she told me that she's married and has a boyfriend which he treats her badly, they were not in a committed relationship, because he already had a girlfriend and she's a wife.

No kids, she cant get pregnant with him.

So 5 days ago she slept at my house ( she usually sleeps on the sofa and I sleep in my bed ). But this time, she slept with me in the same bed. I didnt mind.

Then I woke up in the middle of the night because I found her in my arms touching me and stuff, I thought she was just a sleep, but when I tried to move away from her she caught my arm and pulled me back started kissing my neck and lips. I started to do the same. She then touched my abs and crossed her legs with mine and made sounds of satisfaction

I didnt go any further and just held her and slept because I was too tired for secks or anything else ( had a successful business meeting that I waited for so long to win the account )

So in the morning, woke up and did my usual rituals and talked like nothing happened, didnt mention what happened at all

Our friends came to the my house ( mix women and men ) and I just talking and laughing with them ignoring her and just responded when she talked to me.

The girls were dancing in front of us, she started to shake her a** in front of me,I fixed my eyes on her and on the other girls as well. enjoying my time.

They all left in the afternoon and I had a date that night. Didnt text her at all for 3 days now, and today she texted me that she booked a movie for us to watch tomorrow, and she asks several times ( are you sure you're coming ? ) and I said " yes "

what happened that night I didnt mention it at all nor she did, when she intiated contact I did what I usually do when I text her, send funny pictures or commenting on something happened in the world or anything.

I only asked her " did the girls have fun that day ? " she never responded to the question but told me to listen to a song she really liked, I didnt asked again.

I like her, she's fun and stuff but when I found out that she's married I backed off and forgot about her and just hang out for shet and giggles.

I'm currently spinning plates and enjoying my time with women. she had a football jockey boyfriend and a husband that she really hates right now. from her stories, the husband isnt alpha. But the boyfriend is super-beta or lesser-alpha girls wanna date him but she broke up with him because " he was a jerk" and now he's running after her texting, calling, commenting on her instagram pictures and stuff.

Did I handle it right ?
What should I do next ?
I wanna date her, and dont want to fall in the Beta provider shet so what should I do specially with the ex-bf and soon to be ex-husband

 

[thunder_god]

I would just treat her as a **** buddy. It seems she lacks integrity. Once a cheater, always a cheater. I'd be careful.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

In short, you should've banged her because that's all she's good for…. there's a pattern here with all her past relationships & I assure you a big part is her.

Why do you want to date someone who has already shown you she does and will cheat?

Surprise, your not that special bro & she will do it to you as well as soon as she gets her hooks into you good.

Right now your aloof attitude has her intrigued and she wants to watch a movie so you two can bang.

Your already half way hooked and she will use and discard you as well.

Now if you see her for what she is and treat her accordingly, while continuing to meet other girls you will be in a win-win.

Nice phuvk buddy on the side, but don't get emotionally invested.







PIMP

 

[devilkingx2]

when did she get the boyfriend? after it was already over and the divorce was in progress or while the marriage was still going on?

one of those makes her a cheater, the other... not so much.

 

[Nothing2lose]

Its very simple, if that's what you wanted to do and you are satisfied then you handled it well.

 

[gravityeyelids]

You're good as gravy. The only thing i would criticize is that you shouldve at least fingered her or something when she was in your bed, but as far as i'm concerned that's excusable, could just play it off as you were tired, blah, blah.

The most important thing now is to start becoming sexual with her, both physically and verbally. You've successfully transitioned out of the friend zone, now you need to make it clear to her that you see her as more than a friend (through your actions, not your words).

Fun texts are all good and nice, but you need to start being more flirty without being needy. I really like how cool you played it, being both discrete and non-needy. THESE ARE THE BEST TWO CHARACTERISTICS YOU CAN HAVE in her eyes if she is to start seeing you as a fvckbuddy while she is cheating. It's imperative that you maintain this discretion

DISCLAIMER: As wise men have already noted above: This is a low quality woman. Not trying to diss her, just be aware that she is not relationship material but she could very well be f-buddy material (especially if she's as hot as you say she is). DO not fall in love with her. It will be hard because you're already friends so you probably have some type of emotional connection, and when you start to have a physical one, these feelings will compound and it will fvck with your rational manly brain.

You said "I wanna date her". No you absolutely do not want to date this girl. You want to bang her. If she's done it to other men, she WILL cheat on you. If you choose to pursue her, be aware of this. It's imperative that you keep spinning plates as you are already doing, as well as limiting you're exposure. I would say once a week TOPS. Any more and you risk falling for her.

Another point to mention: she is gaming pretty hard for you and being much more forward than most girls would be (initiating the makeout/touching, setting up a date for you, etc.). She's making it very easy for you, which can be a good thing. However, dont make it too easy for her. Give her a little resistance, some disinterest, dont call her back right away...etc. If you're too accepting she could lose interest

Godspeed and may the force be with you DJ

 

[Bingo-Player]

i had a smiliar situation to yours a few weeks ago & it didn’t end up pretty

Chicks with BF’s are with theyre BF’s for a reason and although they may want to sit on a new d*ck now and then for a bit of fun now and then it just shows that her moral integrity is f*cked up

Play with fire enough and eventually you will get burned ....this chick is fire