I'll spare you the background other than this girl I've been seeing on and off for about two months, in which we've slept together two times, but who's been "busy" for the past 3 weeks or so when I ask if she wants to get together which has been only once or twice a week each week (She has some drama which I'll spare as well). I've never asked her if she's seeing other guys and she's hinted indirectly to me whether I've been seeing other girls, but I've never "admitted" anything or denied it for that matter.
I told her in a "nice" way a few days ago that I think I'm wasting my time because she has no time for me anymore, basically stating I'm not afraid to walk away if you're not up to my standards.
Texts me after not hearing from her after about 2 days at 1 in the morn (paraphrased):
Her- Sex is like pizza
Me- Dine in or delivery?
Her- Every kind
Me-I dont know I had (local pizza joint) tonight and it was better than the generic stuff from the freezer which I can't even eat anymore ;-)
Me- Do you think bad sex and great pizza makes the sex better just by having them together?
Her- Sex is sex the same as pizza is pizza. Could be cold not your favorite but its still pizza
Me- I disagree, bad pizza will just have you longing for the really good stuff youve tasted before and wont be quite the same
Her- Not me Im selective with pizza, I wont eat old pizza
Her (1 min later)- I am heading to sleep
Me- Good night ;-)
So, maybe I'm just reading into this too much, I'm thinking she was fishing for a reaction implying that she had sex tonight. I basically threw a bunch of curve balls at her, keeping the innuendo in place of course while infusing some nonsensical stuff, both knowing what we're really talking about (it's not pizza!). I wasn't playing her game, and I think she quickly realized she wasn't having the desired effect on me so gave up.
Yeah looks are relative, but she's an 8, and we all know hot girls can choose to have sex any time they want, so that doesn't phase me.
If I haven't already lost her, than I'm hoping this will raise her interest level again (or might not being that she can't manipulate me, unless she sees me as a challenge again).
Either way I'm already spinning two other plates.
I told her in a "nice" way a few days ago that I think I'm wasting my time because she has no time for me anymore, basically stating I'm not afraid to walk away if you're not up to my standards.
Texts me after not hearing from her after about 2 days at 1 in the morn (paraphrased):
Her- Sex is like pizza
Me- Dine in or delivery?
Her- Every kind
Me-I dont know I had (local pizza joint) tonight and it was better than the generic stuff from the freezer which I can't even eat anymore ;-)
Me- Do you think bad sex and great pizza makes the sex better just by having them together?
Her- Sex is sex the same as pizza is pizza. Could be cold not your favorite but its still pizza
Me- I disagree, bad pizza will just have you longing for the really good stuff youve tasted before and wont be quite the same
Her- Not me Im selective with pizza, I wont eat old pizza
Her (1 min later)- I am heading to sleep
Me- Good night ;-)
So, maybe I'm just reading into this too much, I'm thinking she was fishing for a reaction implying that she had sex tonight. I basically threw a bunch of curve balls at her, keeping the innuendo in place of course while infusing some nonsensical stuff, both knowing what we're really talking about (it's not pizza!). I wasn't playing her game, and I think she quickly realized she wasn't having the desired effect on me so gave up.
Yeah looks are relative, but she's an 8, and we all know hot girls can choose to have sex any time they want, so that doesn't phase me.
If I haven't already lost her, than I'm hoping this will raise her interest level again (or might not being that she can't manipulate me, unless she sees me as a challenge again).
Either way I'm already spinning two other plates.