Did I move too fast and mess it up? Please help

[Agness1623]

Well she messaged me back and I explained my intentions weren't to move fast and that I made a mistake jumping the gun. I just sent a straight forward text and that just about did it. I just want to know If she's interested or not. If she is, well hell yeh. If not, I got others no biggie. I've gotten to the point lately where I say f*** it

Have you made out? Held hands? Kissed? Fu_***? if any of these are yes then she's into you. Now a days most women would at least the kissing part on the first date which is a pretty clear sign of her being into you. If you didn't do any of the above she probably thinks your a ***** and has lost interest.

 

[jdmslimid]

Little by little I'm starting to say f*** it. Since I texted her today and was straight forward, she actually text back like twice. Then I basically said lemme know what you want, friends or a slow relationship. Kinda getting fed up. So we'll see. I'll give it about a week or 2.

 

[jdmslimid]

Have you made out? Held hands? Kissed? Fu_***? if any of these are yes then she's into you. Now a days most women would at least the kissing part on the first date which is a pretty clear sign of her being into you. If you didn't do any of the above she probably thinks your a ***** and has lost interest.

Yes we made out and held hands. Pretty much the whole night. But I jumped the gun with putting a title on it and she even said it scared her. Basically she said she wants someone to want her not need her. I told her my intentions weren't to move fast and scare her or put her a$$ on a pedestal. Time will tell

 

[Agness1623]

Yes we made out and held hands. Pretty much the whole night. But I jumped the gun with putting a title on it and she even said it scared her. Basically she said she wants someone to want her not need her. I told her my intentions weren't to move fast and scare her or put her a$$ on a pedestal. Time will tell

She' already made her decision, trust me you'll be wasting your time. Since she said that she already has made a decision that your clingy and even if you back off now she won't forget that you asked. Just move on.

 

[GS750]

Dude. Try and go a full 2 weeks...14 days...without calling, texting, tweeting, whatever. Control the urge to contact her. If you haven't heard from her by the end of 2 weeks you likely won't. But by then you'll be over it. Maybe disappearing will bring her interest back up a bit, but I wouldn't count on it.

 

[christoff522]

Little by little I'm starting to say f*** it. Since I texted her today and was straight forward, she actually text back like twice. Then I basically said lemme know what you want, friends or a slow relationship. Kinda getting fed up. So we'll see. I'll give it about a week or 2.

But sir, why da fooq you asking her if she wants a slow relationship?! Just leave it, you've gotta be dominant not giving her all the power. ITS NEEDY!! Neediness makes a girl close her legs quicker than a nuke destroying a city.

You've basically ruined it now. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but its the truth.

Learn from this. get your wallet out and buy:

-No more Mr Nice Guy
-How to Be an Alpha Male

 

[jdmslimid]

Fack it I just caught feelings and got facked with. She initiated the whole calling me baby bs. So in reality, it's her fault. Oh wait females are never wrong -_- I got two dates lined up with different girls anywho. Yet I can't seem to get her off my mind. Only time will tell. Not saying it's hopeless yet I'm not saying I'm giving up. As of now, I'm in a neutral zone about it. I'll keep updated

 

[Tictac]

It's her fault?

Hilarious!

You were the one that all but proposed to her on the first date.

Pretty pathetic attempt at blame shifting you got there Buckaroo.

 

[asa_don]

I smell a troll. There are just WAAAY too many mistakes that were listed here...

give this man a cigar!

harry wilmington nailed right from the start.

these trolls are getting old, they act super afc, ask for your help, but seem to know where they went wrong, then they change their story to keep it going, just like here.

I'll keep updated

yes, keep posting your troll story to yourself, maybe she will fall in love with you again.

 

[jdmslimid]

Troll? Really? Are you an idiot? I just realized what the f*** and where I messed up. Go be useless somewhere else. Thanks

 

[Thatdude8708]

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