harrison9876
Don Juan
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This situation went on for a few months...and ended about 3 months ago...just wanted another take on it
Met a hot girl (slightly older) when looking for a townhouse. She was actually one of the owners selling, planning on moving out in May 2020 (this was back in October)
I ended up not buying her place, but rather a place down the street.
She was cute...so after I moved in, I left a note on her door, with my number, thanking her for letting me see her place.
She called me same day and we chatted on the phone..and she seemed like a bit of a know it all...so I was not that into her. HOT though...so I kept her in mind.
There were a few phone calls back and forth over the course of a couple of weeks...even one where I asked her where all the good places are to meet people in the area...
In this convo, I was feeling a cool vibe, so I said, "we should go for a drink sometime"...which ended up with NO response from her. She sorta blew passed it, and did not acknowledge. 15 minutes later in the convo, I said, "you know...I was serious about that drink..." She replies with an "I know..."
I left it at that, considered it a rejection.
For about 2 weeks, we would chat every few days...and then one day she asked if I wanted to go for a hike with her.
I did, and it was pretty cool...and the more time I spent with her, it became really casual and friendly...NO kino, NO flirting, NADA...just 2 "buds" hanging out.
She would also stop by my place occasionally when she was going out. She lived "sorta" near me...but had to detour to come to my place. I always keep my door open, and she would stop by outside...and yell at me to come out. Again, just a "hey wassup! how is it going, etc."...5-10 minute chats.
She seemed into me...and she came over for a drink once...but again, FRIENDS and no flirting...just casual talk.
Keep in mind...I KNEW she was moving to another State in May...
I think we did 3 hikes over the course of 3 weeks...and she came over to my place a couple times to hang out..and she ALWAYS would make off-hand comments about how I am her "neighbor" and "friend"..
At the end of one of the hikes, she says this:
HB - "...so...what are you up to tonight?".
ME - I don't know...you?
HB - I don't know either...probably not much.
ME - "...you want to go for a drink?"
HB - "mmmmmm.....nah...I think I am just going to sit at home and have a glass of wine".
Me - "okay".
So...that was strike #3...
1 week later (around November), she starts insulting me in a phone call. She starting talking about how she knows everything about fitness, and how I need to gain 20 lbs. I am 5'10" lean and athletic, with around 10% body fat...but according to her, "guys are more attractive when they are heavier...you need to gain weight".
I politely ended the conversation right there...but she followed up with text after text...telling me that I have a weight problem. It felt she was attempting some sort of "intervention"...followed by her giving me "her opinion" about me. I told her to stop, and I turned of my phone and went to bed.
I tossed her number and never called or texted her again.
first week of January, she messages me...and says,
HB - "I know you are mad at me. I am sorry. Hope you had a good Christmas and New Year."
ME - "Thanks. You too".
8 weeks go by.
HB shows up at my place...and apologizes again, in person. She was nervous and upset...but told me that was not how she ever wanted to act, or who she wants to be.
My dog had died a few weeks before, and to be quite honest, I was feeling crappy, and did not mind the company...or the hug.
We reconnect and talk on the phone a couple of times.
A week or two goes by...and she is under stress as she is prepping for her move in May...and...being a"friend/neighbor" (as she calls me)...I listened and tried to make her feel better.
The next week, I am feeling a bit crappy (dog related), and she invited herself over, with a glass of wine in hand.
We chat, have a drink, things are friendly...and then BAM...she makes a move on me.
Yup...leaned right in and planted one on me. We ended up making out for about 1.5 hours, shirts come off, but she did not want to go further.
I said to her, "you are confusing as hell...what was with you rejecting me every time I asked you out?"
I don;t remember her reply...but she said something followed by, "I KNEW I was going to make a move on you"...
At this point, I am confused as fvck. Always called me a friend neighbor...never wanted to go for drinks....never flirted with each other...no physical touching apart from hugs. I never bothered making a move on her since I've known her...simply because not only was she rejecting me going out...but also because we both knew she was moving.
So this girl makes a move on me, basically 8 weeks before she is moving for good.
My impression - she wants to have some fun before she goes. Nothing more, nothing less.
Sooooo...all my actions going forward were based on that.
Phone calls the next days are massively sexual, "you sooooooooo wanted to stick you c0ck in my tight pu$$y..."..."how badly do you want to get inside me...?"...etc. She then started bragging about how good she is at head. I mean at this point, I want to fvck her badly...especially with the way she was talking on the phone. I was busy for a few days, but the conversations were basically along the same lines...and I am thinking SHE WANTS TO HAVE FUN BEFORE SHE MOVES - so I act accordingly.
All phone calls were sexual...and every time she talks like that, all i can think about is fvcking her. At one point, she said she was tired of guys treating her like a piece of meat.
I invite her over a couple days later, and she comes over for a drink...we make out again..and again, she does not want to go further...
The next day, she asks me why I invited her over. Straight up...I told her I really wanted to fvck her. her response, "yeah...I could tell...you sooooooooooo wanted to get inside me.".
Convo was the same friendly, but sexual type of convo we had previously.
The next day she texts me at 8:30am...and I am at the gym. I tell her I'll reach back to her after I get home.
I get home and about to take my new pup out...and she texts me again. She wants to know what I am doing...so I tell her I am about to head out with the dog, but will call her back as soon as I get back.
I get back a couple hours later, and she calls me before I even get a CHANCE to call her.
This ended up being a "why is it that I am the only one who calls?" convo.
I am thinking..."uuummmmmmmmm...because you never give me a CHANCE to call you back?"
She started get mad with stuff like: "I have 3 dogs and have NO problem calling people back or even talking to them while I am out with my dogs."
I had to get back to work, so it was a short convo.
Later that evening she tells me via text:
"this isn't going to work out...the age difference is a problem...I am moving....keep the alcohol I left there...just bring me back my bottle opener....you are way too self-centered...all you care about is making it as an actor...I have met so many people like you...you are ungrateful and not thankful of people...
She went on and on about how much of an ******* I am...so I did not argue...simply wrote, "please stop".
She continued, and answered with, "why is it that whenever I give you my opinion of you...you tell me to please stop?"
I did not reply.
So...as it turns out, she was looking at me as RELATIONSHIP material (long distance?)...while I thought she just wanted to fool around...
Does any of this make sense??
Met a hot girl (slightly older) when looking for a townhouse. She was actually one of the owners selling, planning on moving out in May 2020 (this was back in October)
I ended up not buying her place, but rather a place down the street.
She was cute...so after I moved in, I left a note on her door, with my number, thanking her for letting me see her place.
She called me same day and we chatted on the phone..and she seemed like a bit of a know it all...so I was not that into her. HOT though...so I kept her in mind.
There were a few phone calls back and forth over the course of a couple of weeks...even one where I asked her where all the good places are to meet people in the area...
In this convo, I was feeling a cool vibe, so I said, "we should go for a drink sometime"...which ended up with NO response from her. She sorta blew passed it, and did not acknowledge. 15 minutes later in the convo, I said, "you know...I was serious about that drink..." She replies with an "I know..."
I left it at that, considered it a rejection.
For about 2 weeks, we would chat every few days...and then one day she asked if I wanted to go for a hike with her.
I did, and it was pretty cool...and the more time I spent with her, it became really casual and friendly...NO kino, NO flirting, NADA...just 2 "buds" hanging out.
She would also stop by my place occasionally when she was going out. She lived "sorta" near me...but had to detour to come to my place. I always keep my door open, and she would stop by outside...and yell at me to come out. Again, just a "hey wassup! how is it going, etc."...5-10 minute chats.
She seemed into me...and she came over for a drink once...but again, FRIENDS and no flirting...just casual talk.
Keep in mind...I KNEW she was moving to another State in May...
I think we did 3 hikes over the course of 3 weeks...and she came over to my place a couple times to hang out..and she ALWAYS would make off-hand comments about how I am her "neighbor" and "friend"..
At the end of one of the hikes, she says this:
HB - "...so...what are you up to tonight?".
ME - I don't know...you?
HB - I don't know either...probably not much.
ME - "...you want to go for a drink?"
HB - "mmmmmm.....nah...I think I am just going to sit at home and have a glass of wine".
Me - "okay".
So...that was strike #3...
1 week later (around November), she starts insulting me in a phone call. She starting talking about how she knows everything about fitness, and how I need to gain 20 lbs. I am 5'10" lean and athletic, with around 10% body fat...but according to her, "guys are more attractive when they are heavier...you need to gain weight".
I politely ended the conversation right there...but she followed up with text after text...telling me that I have a weight problem. It felt she was attempting some sort of "intervention"...followed by her giving me "her opinion" about me. I told her to stop, and I turned of my phone and went to bed.
I tossed her number and never called or texted her again.
first week of January, she messages me...and says,
HB - "I know you are mad at me. I am sorry. Hope you had a good Christmas and New Year."
ME - "Thanks. You too".
8 weeks go by.
HB shows up at my place...and apologizes again, in person. She was nervous and upset...but told me that was not how she ever wanted to act, or who she wants to be.
My dog had died a few weeks before, and to be quite honest, I was feeling crappy, and did not mind the company...or the hug.
We reconnect and talk on the phone a couple of times.
A week or two goes by...and she is under stress as she is prepping for her move in May...and...being a"friend/neighbor" (as she calls me)...I listened and tried to make her feel better.
The next week, I am feeling a bit crappy (dog related), and she invited herself over, with a glass of wine in hand.
We chat, have a drink, things are friendly...and then BAM...she makes a move on me.
Yup...leaned right in and planted one on me. We ended up making out for about 1.5 hours, shirts come off, but she did not want to go further.
I said to her, "you are confusing as hell...what was with you rejecting me every time I asked you out?"
I don;t remember her reply...but she said something followed by, "I KNEW I was going to make a move on you"...
At this point, I am confused as fvck. Always called me a friend neighbor...never wanted to go for drinks....never flirted with each other...no physical touching apart from hugs. I never bothered making a move on her since I've known her...simply because not only was she rejecting me going out...but also because we both knew she was moving.
So this girl makes a move on me, basically 8 weeks before she is moving for good.
My impression - she wants to have some fun before she goes. Nothing more, nothing less.
Sooooo...all my actions going forward were based on that.
Phone calls the next days are massively sexual, "you sooooooooo wanted to stick you c0ck in my tight pu$$y..."..."how badly do you want to get inside me...?"...etc. She then started bragging about how good she is at head. I mean at this point, I want to fvck her badly...especially with the way she was talking on the phone. I was busy for a few days, but the conversations were basically along the same lines...and I am thinking SHE WANTS TO HAVE FUN BEFORE SHE MOVES - so I act accordingly.
All phone calls were sexual...and every time she talks like that, all i can think about is fvcking her. At one point, she said she was tired of guys treating her like a piece of meat.
I invite her over a couple days later, and she comes over for a drink...we make out again..and again, she does not want to go further...
The next day, she asks me why I invited her over. Straight up...I told her I really wanted to fvck her. her response, "yeah...I could tell...you sooooooooooo wanted to get inside me.".
Convo was the same friendly, but sexual type of convo we had previously.
The next day she texts me at 8:30am...and I am at the gym. I tell her I'll reach back to her after I get home.
I get home and about to take my new pup out...and she texts me again. She wants to know what I am doing...so I tell her I am about to head out with the dog, but will call her back as soon as I get back.
I get back a couple hours later, and she calls me before I even get a CHANCE to call her.
This ended up being a "why is it that I am the only one who calls?" convo.
I am thinking..."uuummmmmmmmm...because you never give me a CHANCE to call you back?"
She started get mad with stuff like: "I have 3 dogs and have NO problem calling people back or even talking to them while I am out with my dogs."
I had to get back to work, so it was a short convo.
Later that evening she tells me via text:
"this isn't going to work out...the age difference is a problem...I am moving....keep the alcohol I left there...just bring me back my bottle opener....you are way too self-centered...all you care about is making it as an actor...I have met so many people like you...you are ungrateful and not thankful of people...
She went on and on about how much of an ******* I am...so I did not argue...simply wrote, "please stop".
She continued, and answered with, "why is it that whenever I give you my opinion of you...you tell me to please stop?"
I did not reply.
So...as it turns out, she was looking at me as RELATIONSHIP material (long distance?)...while I thought she just wanted to fool around...
Does any of this make sense??