edger said:Thanks for the replies so far guys. To all who are wondering why I went for the number exchange with her, I'll be totally honest, I did so as a defense shielding mechanism, just in case I were to get blown out if I suggested going back to my place..so instead I suggested hanging out, and then later, the number exchange. Then after she gave me the "moving back to London in 2 weeks" line twice, it especially made me reluctant to try and escalate the situation to the bedroom. By that point, I was thrown off. Every single one night stand I've had(I'm only at 6 thus far), the woman had always made it easy for me, by bluntly telling me she wanted to go home with me. Unfortunately though, this womans cue/hint that she wanted to f*ck that night, was a rather poor one in my opinion...what she could have done, was suggest that I come up to her apartment for some drinks or something, or whatever. Her "I'm moving to London in 2 weeks" didn't register with me whatsoever. My buddy mentioned the same thing that you guys are mentioning, that her line was a translation to "I want to ride you tonight". Like I said, I never caught on to it at all, it went right over my head. It's too vague to be understood in my opinion. Not for anything, but women really need to start communicating better if they wanna get laid and make their cues/hints a little more obvious. I'm not saying they necessarily need to come out and say, "I want to have sex with you tonight", but for f*cks sake, at least say something along the lines of, "come in, have a drink" or whatever. In the end we both got the shaft, due to poor, vague communcation on her part. She could have gotten laid, but blew it, all because she'd rather have been vague. Dumbass twit.
She was vague because she didnt want to make it really obvious shes a ho. I gotta be honest a had probably 30 or 40 one night stands and I think that maybe like 1 or 2 came out and said they wanna ****.