I love it when guys say this. It's as though you are telling her "Please be interested in me and me only. If any other guy shows any interest in you, I will freak out because I cannot find another girl to have sex with. You complete me and I love you."So I met this girl two months ago and everything was going well. She's so beautiful, smart, and funny.
Well I'm not sure if I screwed up or not.
I was with her the other night and got pretty drunk. I saw that another guy was calling her and made a joke at first about her having a 'roster and said "oh I see your 'number 1' is calling", "f"ck him. I say that I have a number one as well but then retract it and said that I was just kidding because I dont have a number 1. I tell her that she's number 1 and only 1. Then I asked her if I'm really not her number. So she turns her head away from and that's when he said "seriously? am I not?".She started laughing and said you are but then I said that i thought she was lying (because she was laughing). She said that she wouldn't lie to me. After that I said that I'm going to call her my baby because she's my baby. Also, that whatever she's doing for her birthday (it's coming up) that I want to be there.
After that we were kissing and I stop and pulls us apart and said, "can we just stop playing games it's just you and me okay?" and she said ok.
I know the media and the Powers That Be want all guys and men to have girlfriends and wives so that they can be their servile puppy dog because its good for society, but a guy telling a girl not to "play games" is ridiculous.
You don't handle anything bro, you move on and you sleep with her as much as possible. She is not good for laying on your; emotions, insecurities, failures, or complaints about life. Remember, if you lean on a girl for anything more than having fun and sex, she will use it against you.She then asked if I'm usually this touchy feely and I said no, only when I really like someone and I like you a lot. I don't really remember her saying it back.
1. Did I screw up?
2. Did she seem not that into what I was saying to her?
3. How would you handle this?