Did I Dodge A Bullet?

[New_Journey]

I'm 39. I consider 35y old a dating border of Imperium Romanum, beyond that there is Barbaria - anyone that passes the border is automatically blamed with consequences of trespassing - if my wife will leave me I will never try to date above that age in spite of being older myself. If it means I will be considered too old for women at this age at some point I would pay for play and that's what I can advice anyone that has this terrible idea of crossing this dating border. Unless an easy plate, consequences of paying4fun are for sure less burdensome than dating older women.

Not even sex man? I have a high sex drive and I just love to fvck good looking women regardless of age (exceptions apply). I wonder why many guys just don't enjoy them for what they bring. What is your reason for the cutoff be 35?

 

[justaroundthecorner]

What is your reason for the cutoff be 35?

Like I wrote, aside of easy plate (she is the type that gives no resistance and leads herself to your d*ick and it all happens in 3 weeks tops from first message on dating app to fckng) then it still may or may not be fine. For example I was fcnkng some hot 35y old at some point - later she told me she is actually in LTR with a guy that has constant access to weapons in his job and keeps few sidearm pieces in his house. He also trained martial arts.

So you know, it's great until it may happen to be not so great. These women have stories, a lot of c0cks railed them (possibly dozens if not around hundred) some of these c0cks still rail them, you are most probably in their rotation, not the other way around - you may get mouthwatering thoughts about eating a ***** but that ***** you want to taste was railed by some macho guy with herpes like 18 hours ago - you get to know that after the fact or you never get to know that if you are less lucky and more interested in feeling like ultimate conqueror of pussies.

The concept of plate and rotation is something natural for women since ancient times (that's why we, men, invented religion and tradition of monogamous relationships) we just named it and feasted on this crop of male domination in relationships that lasted since Christianity took over pagan gods - it ended with end of feminism wave in late 70s in western world.

Now experienced females keep rotation, that's why dating them is hard (therefore I only roll my eyes when I read about upgrading plate to GF - only some guys will succeed and the plate needs to be inexperienced/young).

Now, 35+ women are neither inexperienced, neither young, they know the game and they hate that game is starting to work against them due to their fading looks. So it's not getting easier to date them - the easiest females to pick up are probably somewhere between age 23-27 (end of college, first few jobs, new situations for them, feeling uneasy but open for experience with older guys that may upgrade to LTR easily) therefore there is no point to go after 35+ unless you like the thrill of adventure with unexpected consequences.

 

[New_Journey]

she is the type that gives no resistance and leads herself to your d*ick and it all happens in 3 weeks tops from first message on dating app to fckng

Why is that something bad? You want them to be very hard when you were a blue pill b!tch and only getting rejected? I don't understand.

she is actually in LTR with a guy

All woman have some man in their life, women are never alone. If she didn't tell you, you would still fvcking her.

These women have stories, a lot of c0cks railed them (possibly dozens if not around hundred) some of these c0cks still rail them, you are most probably in their rotation, not the other way around

Who gives a fvck. Why are you so concerned of what other men did before you? Are you that insecure? You gotta lot work to do.

you may get mouthwatering thoughts about eating a ***** but that ***** you want to taste was railed by some macho guy with herpes like 18 hours ago

I assume this is your biggest fear in dating.

you get to know that after the fact or you never get to know that if you are less lucky and more interested in feeling like ultimate conqueror of pussies.

Every puzzy I fvck I feel like I'm the conqueror, because in fact I am. You are just whining about other men who came (pun intended) before you like you'll never be better.

The concept of plate and rotation is something natural for women since ancient times (that's why we, men, invented religion and tradition of monogamous relationships) we just named it and feasted on this crop of male domination in relationships that lasted since Christianity took over pagan gods - it ended with end of feminism wave in late 70s in western world.

Who gives a fvck? Why are you crying over this? Keep a plate rotation then, unless no woman wants you.

Now experienced females keep rotation, that's why dating them is hard

For you it is, because your mindset is fvcked up

(therefore I only roll my eyes when I read about upgrading plate to GF

So you won't upgraded a great girl who treats you like a king because of some incel type insecurity that you have because some macho man with herpes came inside of her? There are STDs test you know, unless your worry is about the "macho man"

only some guys will succeed and the plate needs to be inexperienced/young).

Atlas asked for wider shoulders, not for a lighter load. You are weak.

the easiest females to pick up

If it's that easy why were you fvcking a 35 years old woman?

Now, 35+ women are neither inexperienced, neither young, they know the game and they hate that game is starting to work against them due to their fading looks.

Then don't make them your gfs, why are you still crying about women this, women that, women bad.

somewhere between age 23-27 (end of college, first few jobs, new situations for them, feeling uneasy but open for experience with older guys that may upgrade to LTR easily)

Awwwww that's your fantasy? Having a that type of girl? Why do you feel entitled to that? What do you bring to the table? I would assume not much.


So, the TLDR of your reasons to not date women over 35 are that, women date other men when they're dating you, some macho man from her past came in her, and then fantasy of having a young women as an LTR between 23-27 end of college, first few jobs, new situations for them, feeling uneasy but open for experience with older guys that may upgrade to LTR easily.

You are almost 40 and you write like a kid talking about the fantasy of Disney, but of Love like a 15 year old.

 

[justaroundthecorner]

You are almost 40 and you write like a kid talking about the fantasy of Disney, but of Love like a 15 year old.

Lots of aggression dude, I don't know where is it coming from but tbh I am not that interested in this knowledge. I do not need to fantasize about things I already have and I have what I wanted. Live your life and go through used ***** if you wish. XOXO.

 

[New_Journey]

Lots of aggression dude, I don't know where is it coming from but tbh I am not that interested in this knowledge. I do not need to fantasize about things I already have and I have what I wanted. Live your life and go through used ***** if you wish. XOXO.

Out of all the things I wrote, that was this the only thing you cared about? Good luck man.

 

[Skyline]

Hinge has only left over christian women for me on the West Coast. I say you dodged a bullet as the platform is not good if you aren’t apart of any type of religion.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Loloool

 

[Pumax]

Yes, it's crazy. It's like their brains are used to being treated that way and because it's familiar, they consider it normal.

But for some reason those crazy people have such a strong aura of desire that they can't defeat that meat.

So you've heard it too. It's impossible for a man to resist his first encounters with those kind of women.
It takes a lot of experience before you start to understand the games.

As a good man, you feel deeply sorry, and you may become bitter in life, especially those who develop oneitis. But eventually, you start to understand that these women are programmed by their imprinting to have relationships of this type. You think that they can improve, yes, but then, they, themselves, will always feel "broken," and in many ways, they truly are.

Imagine having a child with a woman like that. I would say it's a beautiful experience if you manage to survive it. It probably gives you more strength and insight. But at an extremely high cost.

In such situations, it's easy to doubt yourself and adopt attitudes that aren't genuinely yours but are shaped by the "winner" of these relationships: broken and disturbed men.

But every day you improve through this, to become men of value out there.

 

[New_Journey]

So you've heard it too. It's impossible for a man to resist his first encounters with those kind of women.
It takes a lot of experience before you start to understand the games.

As a good man, you feel deeply sorry, and you may become bitter in life, especially those who develop oneitis. But eventually, you start to understand that these women are programmed by their imprinting to have relationships of this type. You think that they can improve, yes, but then, they, themselves, will always feel "broken," and in many ways, they truly are.

Imagine having a child with a woman like that. I would say it's a beautiful experience if you manage to survive it. It probably gives you more strength and insight. But at an extremely high cost.

In such situations, it's easy to doubt yourself and adopt attitudes that aren't genuinely yours but are shaped by the "winner" of these relationships: broken and disturbed men.

But every day you improve through this, to become men of value out there.

Nailed it. One of my awakenings was seeing those women for what they are, not to hate them, or trash them, they are like that because of life circumstances, and their brains are so used to be like that, that is impossible to change, until something very traumatic happens to them and they look by themselves on how to be better.

Its the same as the nice guy who always puts others first, the mere thinking of putting himself first makes them anxious, scared, because their brains have never experience this, they haven't developed the neuro pathways for it to be normal. You may make fun of them, but its the same as mucking a guy missing one arm, its not his fault he doesn't understand, he just can't.

I was like that years ago, I literally couldn't think of making myself happy first, I didn't know how. Until one day I was thinking why I was feeling so empty inside. I started reading, kicked everyone out of my life including my parents for months.

Everyone shamed me, everyone told me I was an a$$hole. A couple of years later I was in top of my world, proud to be an "a$$hole" and everyone was happier because I knew what was best for me, and the people around me.

Rollo wrote something that struck me "We all have the keys to our own prison, we are just scared to use them" That's why is so cringy seeing men posting their "sufferings" over and over without taking action. When you've been in both sides, you know there is a better way.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Hinge has only left over christian women for me on the West Coast. I say you dodged a bullet as the platform is not good if you aren’t apart of any type of religion.

In what world are only Christian women left on hinge. Is this a joke post? If not, you’re not correct. Hinge is tinder with a facelift.

 

[Glassguy]

My response to this woman's text would be :

Ok cool. Thanks for letting me know. I'll make other plans.

That's it. You dodged a bullet