I used to believe that God hated me and would never let me get a girl and to make sure that I can never get a girl he gave me a less than ideal body and personality.
But then I realized that I'll probably live till my 80's or something and that is a very long time. Would I want to be alone all that time and never have women? Of course not. So I have decided to look at the reasons that may keep me away from women and improve upon them. In a way I am challenging God or destiny, fate, what ever you want to call it.
For the little effort I've put in, I've had some very minor success. That tells me that if I put in a lot of effort, I'll get sweet rewards.