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Originally posted by jakethasnake
Jake,
What are you depressed about? Is it because you feel that you can't get women? It's baffling to me, because I saw your picture in the picture thread, and you're WELL ABOVE average, in fact you're fast approaching 'good looking'. You're that dark-blond haired guy, right? You also have a strong jaw, and pretty angular features - something that many women find appealing. And as many senior poster have said, looks matter quite a bit. Your looks alone should get your foot in the door for you many times. So why the depression with women?
Or is your depression about some other aspect of your life?
You need to elaborate these things a little bit for us to better understand what you're depressed about.
- Jake.
am definitely gonna use this.Talk to youself in your head, whenever you start going round and round with neg thoughts just say 'stop' Immediatley replace the thought with the 10 reasons to be gratful you got from the exercise. It seems too simple but it does help, it takes a bit of personal discipline though and constant vigilence.
ok, you need to stop thinking that way. Why do you feel the need to get a wink from a chick? that is what women do! men don't do that.Originally posted by jakeyboy
, but what's a guy to do when he's all alone trying to get a few winks after mugging hard for an exam and these thoughts just flood him to death?
Originally posted by 00Kevin
ok, you need to stop thinking that way. Why do you feel the need to get a wink from a chick? that is what women do! men don't do that.
wow. thats how i feel at times too. yeah, we shouldn't judge ourselves...Where I start getting p*ssed off is when I start compairing myself to others. Of course it's always the ones who are Taller, bigger, better looking than me. When I catch myself, I remember just not to judge myself is the answer.
Originally posted by Alpine
wow, I thought that might ring a bell.
Jakeyboy,
now you're feeling a bit better (presupposition), tell me, what are the things you have gratitude for?
Examples 'may' include: you live in a country where you have free speech and no one can hold you back if you want to get on, you are able bodied, you can read and write etc.
But what's important to you? go on list them NOW, ten of them.
Also make a list of the 3 things you are going to do today to move you slightly closer to solving your problems.
Do it now and post it here. Then I'll tell you what's just happened.