Demonpenz approach blog.

[zinc4]

From what i have seen from your approaches, you are busting balls a little too much and going overboard on the whole ****y thing...almost comes off as jerk or trying too hard....example..when you made the joke about the woman's career of being a chiropractor by saying when are you going to become a real doctor...i can see the logic, but it's a little over the top insulting someone's career and more times than not will alienate someone, especially a woman.......would have been more fruitful for you to just ask questions about what led her to become a chiropractor...i mean to me, that's a very interesting career choice for a woman, i have never met a chiropractor out and about..plus they know massage as well...you could have mentioned/asked about that while giving her the look. I mean, there were all sorts of questions topics to ask/talk about that...i have always felt my back was out of alignment. IMO any girl who knows massage or something like being a chiropractor gets her hotness meter bumped up by 2 points automatically, just because of her skills that you would have access to at any time if you were dating/boning her. A good massage is better than sex...a good massage followed by sex is bliss.

I would be interested in seeing results from you just having a normal conversation with a chick and not so much ball busting...there is a fine line when you do the ****y funny stuff...i have done it both ways big time jerk mode vs just a hint of ****iness. The latter one usually wields much more success. When you start focusing too much on the whole ****y funny stuff, it's easy to get lost in it and become a robot and not have any genuine conversations.

I know all the PUA stuff raves about ****y funny and small doses of it do in fact go a long way...but so many people get lost in it and carry it too far at times.

And how many of your number closes are resulting in lays or dates?

 

[Demonpenz]

I get a date probably 1 out of 10 times lay probably 1/25? Thanks for the input. I am probably not try hard enough as I straight up just troll at this point to see what they do. The game is all just a big circle jerk when you get real far into it. I won't make excuses though. I need to play better to do better, but for right now it is more fun just to do the most random stuff possible.

 

[Demonpenz]

Back to work. Got an approach in today with trying to do a normal conversation and less random crap. Went ok just getting more mindful of having better productive conversations.

 

[Demonpenz]

Ok yes better results being nice. Got a girl to sit at the coffee house. Working on being normal for entire night.

 

[Demonpenz]

Ok got a number being nicer. So maybe I can focus back in on being nice.

 

[Demonpenz]

Been working out. Eating better, and talking normal. Constant actions towards my goals each day. I have been feeling good and can't wait to see what kinds of crazy things happen in the future.

 

[visions]

I recommend going to grocery stores/WalMart/Malls by yourself...setting aside 30 minutes or an hour everyday to do this. Even if you don't approach you will eventually. Once you get confident in approaching - start a 30 day challenge (it takes 30 days to make or break any habit). Everyday go out and approach at least 1 girl - the interaction can last 10 seconds but try to challenge yourself to have some semblance of an interaction and ALSO very important - make your intent known. Goodluck - if you want tips on how to daygame you can listen to my audio approaches in the link below - some of them are chodey but some exhibit the way I flow when I'm on.

stores are my spot. lots of women in one place

 

[Demonpenz]

Pluto and I went out this weekend. Opened with some girls. Worked on being nicer and normal. this woman catered food and instead of saying " do you cater plates of pop tarts. I just acted interested and sat down buy them. Working on having normal conversation and less trolling hot girls by saying mean or weird stuff.

 

[Demonpenz]

I approached a girl named Cori today..went to Kstate...really cute. Just trying to keep approaching girls. She seemed nice but not really interested. If I was to do it again I would ask her to meet a different day and see what that reaction would be. Push forward.

 

[Demonpenz]

Last week Pluto's girlfriends friends thought that I was funny. Which was an improvement from being "Such an ******* people don't want to talk to me" So that was good. I approached Cori this week and I need to work on getting a number and moving a relationship from opening/number/date/sex/whatever I went to a Pinback concert which was awesome. Took a girl there which I am friendzoned, I am working on not being negative about the situation, positive outlook is that I had a girl with me at a concert, and that I will keep putting effort day in and day out to improve my game. I worked out Saturday and the rest of the week. I am mindfully giving up some candy so I can get down to around 180 pounds for a leaner look, and like I said. I will put in the time/money/effort/go through pain...to grow each day and to become the price.

 

[Demonpenz]

Plutoman, R-Man, and I went out yesterday. My goal was to enjoy the nice weather and just have fun. My focus is enjoying guy time. I also want to acknowledge the fact that in January Plutoman and I went out for hours and hours and talked to a bunch of women. I have sense now my job is just to go ou out and enjoy the night and not be such a nerd about everything. I talked to some girls and touched lots of them bla bla bla. The point of the night for me was to make sure and enjoy being healthy, enjoy the fruits that I am able to approach without fear, and I have some freedom from what people think.

 

[Demonpenz]

I went out yesterday. In my choice to be openmindedness and alittle bit more Indiana Jones. I just threw out the idea to my buddy to go out. He talked to a bunch of chicks. I did as well. There was a girl named Emily that I was very attracted to. Cool sets of ladies and I had fun. I didn't get the number, but I felt good putting eggs in the basket and getting out and doing activities and being social. Especially on a night that it would have been easy to do nothing.

 

[Demonpenz]

It is funny how you can learn from guys who are just barking at girls all night.

 

[Demonpenz]

I went out yesterday and approached lots of girls. I had one girl that I made good eye contact with then tried to move up physically and she said she had a boyfriend. I stuck with it but nothing else happened. Going out is atleast fun and I am comfortable with myself and most people around me. Good eye contact..let them know you mean business and the boss is here with body language.

 

[Purefilth]

I get a date probably 1 out of 10 times lay probably 1/25? Thanks for the input. I am probably not try hard enough as I straight up just troll at this point to see what they do. The game is all just a big circle jerk when you get real far into it. I won't make excuses though. I need to play better to do better, but for right now it is more fun just to do the most random stuff possible.

1/25 approach = lay?

I like those odds! Youre miles ahead of me if that's real figures.

 

[Demonpenz]

1/25 approach = lay?

I like those odds! Youre miles ahead of me if that's real figures.

That is not the real numbers. There is something bigger than shoving my **** into a mound of goo going on though. All and all I am happy with my journey. I put massive amounts of work into it and it has kept me busy and atleast with a mindset of "get better"