Demonpenz approach blog.

[Demonpenz]

My goal is just to get out there and mix it up. Not to get wrapped up in closes or what I did, but I am want to have more fun. Went out with my buddy and started to run hot right away. I asked the first girl straight up at the bar "Is anyone cool texting? Probably not, because I'm not in there" she laughed. I then asked how she thinks everyone is going to be dressed tonight? She said I don't know probably casual. I then I explained that I just say what is on my mind, it can be very random. Rachel was her name, she was talking to her bf later.

Next girl was turned around from me, I said to my friend "I am going to ask her if her name is Josh..." I said hi is your name Jamie? She was like lol no it is Shannon. We talked and I think this girl was into me a bit, she came back a second time and moved up by touching her but she didn't seem to dig that a whole bunch, but she hung around told me where she was working I tugged on her scarf. I wanted her number but I didn't get another chance. I will try to ask earlier.

I teasingly asked the next girl that her purse doesn't match her outfit, she didn't get I was playing and she didn't give me any positive reaction, her boyfriends around here mean mugged me for walking right into the hornets next. Really have use game tools to MOVE FORWARD and not get caught up in getting angry with the guys. Move forward clear your head next approach.


I approached some girls that were on their phone and they were talking about their periods, they kind of made fun of turtleneck but I played it off. It was fun

Next girl I wanked up and just started talking to her, and she said "I AM MARRIED" and I played it off and I was like Ohhh sorry it must be this bad ass jacket I am wearing, it's my gettin sex jacket so sorry it gives me the vibe that I want to make out with you. I will take this off so we can have a normal conversation.

So I could do better in the night going for the number, but I had fun and I am writing right now to try to reflect on how to be a better Man, Try to have more fun, and of course have more fun people in my life.

 

[Demonpenz]

So I talked to a girl off of PlentyoffFish.com I thought she was going to be aweful looking, her pictures weren't very flattering and she said she was a model. Oh well worth a shot? I pick her up in my new Jeep and she was cute. She was a bit crazy I played it cool. Letting her talk, I was my funny self, she about pissed her pants laughing so hard at times. We had a good time and I kissed closed at the end. I had fun, I held hands, we were arm and arm and I was confortable with myself the entire night. I have grown so much the last couple years. Good day in my life.

 

[macallik]

congrats on the success with the PoF date

 

[Demonpenz]

I did make an approach when I was out with a group of people on friday. I was nervous as hell which I took as a good sign that there was a girl I wanted to approach that was attractive. It didn't go well because I didn't speak slow or clear, but it happens. Just got to keep doig my thing.

 

[iwanttofight]

Great job, having fun is the most important thing bro, sometimes its really fun to intentionally make a girl get mad or really shy, or embarassed, as long as your having fun is what matters. Just wondering how old are you?

 

[Demonpenz]

I get girls really upset, the ones that really take themselves too seriously because of this line

Girl:Yeah I moved here for work
Demonpenz: Where do you work at Hooters?
Girl: Anger face
Demonpenz:What? They have a good management program

 

[Demonpenz]

I recommend going to grocery stores/WalMart/Malls by yourself...setting aside 30 minutes or an hour everyday to do this. Even if you don't approach you will eventually. Once you get confident in approaching - start a 30 day challenge (it takes 30 days to make or break any habit). Everyday go out and approach at least 1 girl - the interaction can last 10 seconds but try to challenge yourself to have some semblance of an interaction and ALSO very important - make your intent known. Goodluck - if you want tips on how to daygame you can listen to my audio approaches in the link below - some of them are chodey but some exhibit the way I flow when I'm on.

I did that a couple years ago and I got asked to leave a mall. So I def pushed my approaches to the limit. I just have my own game now which is be funny, have high status values, ask for their number no matter what.

 

[Demonpenz]

I am 30, so I have been in the game awhile. I just need to have fun, make sure I am comfortable, I pushed the limits for so long getting drinks thrown me and everything I am just trying to approach get numbers without constantly trying to escalate.

 

[Vice]

A quick glance at the feedback your getting from girls and your reliance of using sites like POF leads me to believe that you are socially miscalibrated.

 

[Demonpenz]

A quick glance at the feedback your getting from girls and your reliance of using sites like POF leads me to believe that you are socially miscalibrated.

Yep, trying to get a better mix of outgoing vs. crazy. My calibration is to go in with way too much crazy, I give myself credit for going in, but yeah I need to calibrate down a notch to more smooth less madman. Thank You for the feedback.

 

[Demonpenz]

I texted the model chick I had a date with. She responded quickly but short answers. I find myself just entertaining myself with texting. I will call next timw I want to contact. I know everyone knows setting frames but I think one funny way of putting it is that you share an ex-a-sketch and you have to erase what she has drawn on there and you draw your own picture. So after texting today should I call tonight or give space. I would like a saturday date ideally.

 

[Demonpenz]

I dressed well 2 days in a row and I know the game is day to day. I also used slow alpha body language today and I had some single girls on my facebook that I sen just fun messages. I plan on getting out to approach during christmas. I also explained a bit to my friennd how to get past an initial rejection.

 

[Demonpenz]

I have dressed well three days in a row. I called the model chick yesterday didn't leave a voice message. I would say the ball is in her court now. I struggle because I want to send her a text or call her tonight. I am trying to be less needy. Everything else is good.

 

[Demonpenz]

Went ti the bank chatted up the teller, got denied by her because she was married. She talked to me after that for awhile. I made decent eye contact.

 

[Demonpenz]

Went to Dollar General, cute girl working asked her number and was denied. Whew that one was nerve racking because it is the end of the night. I am grabbing a bunch of cheap towels and I went for the number. Fun Game tho

 

[Demonpenz]

I went to the KU game yesterday and my friends and I went out to eat after.the game. I approached some girls that were out to eat. I wasn't feeling confident but I talked anyway. Sometimes I am a badass, sometimes I am not. I can approach I just can't connect unless it is a one and twenty approaching. I hope it gets easier as I get into better shape because most girls jdon't seem interested. My stong points are that I am funny without being a clow. I did more approaches awhile back but I dont remember alot. Most were ones that didnt float my boat. I like girls that are fun and they maybe a ten but when they are not witty it is a turn off.

 

[Demonpenz]

I have some girls on the line right now. A red head I got by approaching her friend at a bar back in Aug. We dance and make out sometimes. A weird older girl and a fashion model who is a aw

 

[Demonpenz]

I am dedicated to playing the game right and that means not texting this girl from yesterday. I went out yesterday with a woman and as the night went on she drank more and paid less attention to me. I excused myself and left when I wasn't having fun. There was another guy around me that was clowning it up and I tried to be as classy as possible. I am going out tonight to get my beast mode on. Having a bruised ego is like a real bruise. You just have to deal with it until it heals.

 

[Demonpenz]

Last week I asked a girl out at a local bar while picking up my buddy. I just followed up with her right now. She has boyfriend. I felt very strong and confident even though I was rejected. I told her that I know what I like and I am confident to go after it. Plutoman and I are due to go out tonight.

 

[Demonpenz]

Sidney and Megan. I got this.meeeow hot girls # at a sports bar. No chinks in the armor.tonight for that # close awesome eye contact let her know I am here to.do 2 things hook and up.