Demographics, race/ethnicity, and knowing what kinds of girls are open to you.

[Good Gao]

We can all admit that to some degree race matters but I don't think that a guy of any race will fail to get laid at all. I think guys of ALL races can get laid if they work hard enough and get laid a lot on top of that. The issue comes in with demographics and the kinds of girls you chase.

I think that what your race does is closes off your opportunities to date and hook up with certain kinds of girls.

As an Asian guy, I find that it is becoming more and more common to see Asian men with white women. I have also had some success with white girls but looking at it, I notice that certain kinds of white girls will not go for Asian guys.

Like you'll see the dorky brunette with Asian dudes and guys of other minority groups but you will rarely see a hot blonde, especially not the All American type, with Asian guys.

The answer is simple, because those girls value how they are perceived, how they are seen, and how the guys they date make them look in front of others. Dating certain minority groups is simply a major setback on how they are perceived which is why they will avoid men who are outside of what they think will be considered "acceptable".

Now this might change based on where you are. I find that a hot blonde from somewhere in Europe might not be as against dating an Asian guy as her counterpart from Arizona will be.

 

[Good Gao]

I think in recent years, the victim mentality in white guys has gone way way up, but that isn't even what this thread was about. It isn't about mindset, game, or anything; if you know what kinds of girls hate your kind, you can spend more time in the game spending time going after ones that are more open to you and make things easier for yourself while also occasionally trying your luck with girls that initially hate you for your background.

Hot American blondes hate Asian men, they see them as a stereotype. These women are obsessed with status so they avoid men who don't help them get that status. American blondes that look good hate Asian men.

 

[Trainwreck]

Another race thread, yawn.

Listen, politics is simple.

Feminists hate men. Black live matter hate white people.

The two come cogether, and they target white men.

If any "man of colour" has any sort of opportunistic mindset, found useful in these ideologies, they will ultimately fail in this game.

The only "male-feminist" that I've ever seen using it in real life and doing very very well was using it as a complete con. He was self-aware.

Like I said: feminists hate men. Black lives matter hate white people.

Sooner or later black men will realise that their gender supersedes their race.

Once you understand that, and become game-aware, you can't go back in to a feminist frame "willy-nilly" when it suits you as a sad-act opportunist.

Stop being so damn weak minded. The game tenets that are there for me as a whitey are there for you as a black. They don't need special "pronouns", or any other princess treatment.

Op didn't even mention black men and you threw every wild hay-maker out there. Dude, you clearly do not know what the fvck you are talking about and just used OP's topic to bash black men.

 

[Trainwreck]

I think in recent years, the victim mentality in white guys has gone way way up, but that isn't even what this thread was about. It isn't about mindset, game, or anything; if you know what kinds of girls hate your kind, you can spend more time in the game spending time going after ones that are more open to you and make things easier for yourself while also occasionally trying your luck with girls that initially hate you for your background.

Hot American blondes hate Asian men, they see them as a stereotype. These women are obsessed with status so they avoid men who don't help them get that status. American blondes that look good hate Asian men.

You are right, the victim mentality in white guys has gone way way up. Deesade didn't say anything relevant to your post, he just used your topic to bash black men. White men are clearly insecure af over their women lol.

 

[Good Gao]

I disagree with the premise. And don't find that there is any particular game that is special for a so-called "person of colour" to emulate.

Some of the best guys in this game who are coloured (such as Bojangles) add nothing to this game based on race other than basic inner-game stuff that boils down to "don't worry about race'.

And if you want to play this stupid fvcking victim Olympics feminist crap with me, I am Romany Gypysy - arsehole. The most victimized race in the west.

Don't keep on with your weak crap to me.

You're also British, it isn't nearly as bad there as it is in the good ol US of A. You have no idea and I mean no idea how big of a deal race is in dating in the USA.

 

[Good Gao]

smh

doesn't live in the US but is going to give me a lecture on how things are with interracial dating here

f-ck off m8

 

[Good Gao]

and he assumes I've had no success

seriously mate, I understand your frustrations with today's victim complex but race matters, which is why the location you're at and the kinds of girls you go after make a difference

 

[HoneyHitter]

Stop complaining. Change it or else deal with it best way you can. By now everyone knows how to improve your odds if you've been dealt a bad "race" card. And no, I'm not caucasian.

 

[Trainwreck]

It's funny how deesade chimps when other races talk about their experience in the dating game, but it's okay to play victim when it comes to feminists, liberals, and etc.

 

[BlueAlpha1]

I know it makes a difference.

I even had a female worker last year tell me (in hushed terms) that the guy she is engaged to is Romani Gypsy. Then I started to speak some of the language for a laugh, and she was shocked

The point is that nothing in this game changes based on race. And accepting a feminist frame is a complete regression - based on weak minded opportunism.

You won't hear me talking about my race, because there is no point. Compare that to a sad-act like @Trainwreck, who's every other post is about skin-colour and patriarchy, and I imagine that he has the charisma around the ladies of a broomstick.

The man is a clown whose been banned from this forum before. He's the former Dhoulmagus, and he's simply here to be an agitator. In his past life his posts were notorious for being whiny, and he virtually admitted to being terrible with women but played the race card to explain it.

@Trainwreck is an anti-white racist who feels solace in blaming white males for his failures in life.

 

[Tenacity]

We can all admit that to some degree race matters but I don't think that a guy of any race will fail to get laid at all. I think guys of ALL races can get laid if they work hard enough and get laid a lot on top of that. The issue comes in with demographics and the kinds of girls you chase.

As most people on this board know, I'm black and lean "right" in most political topics. I am what you would call a Moderate Republican or a Very Conservative Democrat, or hell, just a solid Independent.

For the most part, middle America has moved beyond "a Race War" to a "Class War" in my opinion, which has the top 1% - 5% of individuals (those who make $100k a year and above) technically being granted access to the best networks, best capital, best credit, best partnerships, and best relationships, to where the "rich get richer" and the bottom 95% continue to struggle with a lack of job stability, high debt, paycheck-to-paycheck living, etc.

When it comes to this topic though, I DO STILL BELIEVE that most women will pick someone of their Race before branching out to other Races. Most black girls want black guys, most white girls want white guys, most Asian girls want Asian guys, and so on.

I don't know if that's RACIST, I think it has more to do with Class/Cultural dynamics. I don't think a white girl looks at Tenacity in 2017 and says, "He's black! I can't date a black guy!" But she MIGHT look at Tenacity in 2017 and say, "Hmmm, he's kinda cool, kind of a goof ball lol, but he's kinda cute. But damn, I wonder how (X, Y, and Z) will feel with me dating a black guy haha! Hell, I wonder how Tenacity's family will feel about my country white girl a.ss dating Tenacity haha!"

 

[El Payaso]

Unproductive.