Im curious. Ive been on this board for 6+ months and have been seeing a repetitive pattern of posts.
Most posts involve:
Is she playing hard to get?
is her Anti-slvt defense up?
is she just too scared?
can a girl that finds you attractive ignore you?
Mixed signals?
I notice many of these posts never have a follow-up. Which to me translates as guys sweating over an encounter with a woman, that didnt work out in the end.
Maybe its just me, and my experiences, but isnt it CLEAR when a girl shows little/moderate interest?
We waste so much time trying to figure out if a girl is interested in us and try to twist disinterest in so many ways to a point where we cannot accept disinterest and keep twisting it until we are satisfied being confused rather than rejected?
I have met many women that have given me migraines thinking : does she like me? why was she so flirty - then doesnt return phone calls? Why did the date go so well - but flakes on a 2nd date?
After meeting and dating so many women, Ive come to the conclusion that it is a WASTE of time trying to FIX a relationship or see what went wrong
For me, the reality check was pursuing false hopes and explantions - Is she too scared to commit? Has she been hurt in the past? Is she just playing games ?
I would twist reality, to form ANY kind of explanation, ANYTHING besides rejection and disinterest
when it all boils down to what I dont want to hear or accept
DISINTEREST
Every girl I have ever encountered that I had to wrack my brain to figure out if she had interest in me or whatever, has died in the past
The girls I HAVE hooked up with in the past have expressed IL way beyond doubt
So what I want to ask you guys is have ANY of you really succeeded in hooking up with a girl that boggled your mind as far as IL, and was it worth it?
I no longer want to deal with ********, mixed signals, or trying to figure out IL (I urge you folks to do the same)
if a girl doesnt take the initiative to show you she likes you ,SHE is pretty much expressing she doesnt like you, Accept the Rejection and MOVE on
Most posts involve:
Is she playing hard to get?
is her Anti-slvt defense up?
is she just too scared?
can a girl that finds you attractive ignore you?
Mixed signals?
I notice many of these posts never have a follow-up. Which to me translates as guys sweating over an encounter with a woman, that didnt work out in the end.
Maybe its just me, and my experiences, but isnt it CLEAR when a girl shows little/moderate interest?
We waste so much time trying to figure out if a girl is interested in us and try to twist disinterest in so many ways to a point where we cannot accept disinterest and keep twisting it until we are satisfied being confused rather than rejected?
I have met many women that have given me migraines thinking : does she like me? why was she so flirty - then doesnt return phone calls? Why did the date go so well - but flakes on a 2nd date?
After meeting and dating so many women, Ive come to the conclusion that it is a WASTE of time trying to FIX a relationship or see what went wrong
For me, the reality check was pursuing false hopes and explantions - Is she too scared to commit? Has she been hurt in the past? Is she just playing games ?
I would twist reality, to form ANY kind of explanation, ANYTHING besides rejection and disinterest
when it all boils down to what I dont want to hear or accept
DISINTEREST
Every girl I have ever encountered that I had to wrack my brain to figure out if she had interest in me or whatever, has died in the past
The girls I HAVE hooked up with in the past have expressed IL way beyond doubt
So what I want to ask you guys is have ANY of you really succeeded in hooking up with a girl that boggled your mind as far as IL, and was it worth it?
I no longer want to deal with ********, mixed signals, or trying to figure out IL (I urge you folks to do the same)
if a girl doesnt take the initiative to show you she likes you ,SHE is pretty much expressing she doesnt like you, Accept the Rejection and MOVE on