Okay guys update. A girl whose number I deleted 5 days ago just hit me up, wishing me a happy belated thanksgiving (lol). And then she followed up sending a novel about how we should hang out when I get back to campus. I recognized the area code so I knew who it was.
Long story short this sh*t works. I've already deleted her number 3 times and she's reached out every one. But if she didn't I'd be fine. It just makes me stronger and more confident, no matter what the outcome. And it's this mindset which gives you the most abundance anyway (as captain and stevo pointed out). That's just how it works.