ian1988
Don Juan
Hey guys
I had no intentions of looking for a girlfriend at all this year. That however didnt stop me from socializing with them. I however got to know this girl from my classes. Lets call her....Laura
So Laura and I got to know each other this year due to being in the same classes. shes one of the year level comittee leaders and is a rather bright spark. We get alot fine and hardly run out of things to say. Ive given her a few rides back home and exchanged the occasional hug at school when we crossed paths etc etc and shes trusted me with a few secrets.
More and more I found myself talking to her and I subconciously started to liek her. For me, being around her made me feel happy. It wasnt all about the looks, although having said that shes not bad at all.
I still played it cool. Teasing her, picking her brain. flirting a lil. shoing a lil interest
I automatically took this as a sign she liked me. So last week at her party, I turned up after work, with about an hour left on the party and I was totally knackerd...Wasnnt really into the dancing and stuff so I wasnt all to energetic and I ddint really know anybody there.
When everyone left. I told her that I was starting to like her and wondered if she would like to go out with me. She said it was APPEALING but was confused and didnt know, and told me to give her some time. I agreed
I got a txt later that night from her. She said the reason was becasue she liked someone else. and after a few txt messages, she wondered if we could take it slow. I Agreed again....Feeling all happy
Fast Forward to the morning, she sends me a txt saying how she had second thoughts and didnt know how liking the other guy would affect us and decided that we shoulnt commit ourselves AND REASSES the situation later in the future...
OK so ive told my chix mates about this and they say that I still stand a decent chance seeing she contemplated taking it slow and did say that my proposal was appealing.
My questions now is should I:
A)Turn up the charm by flirting
B) Slowly pull back until she has lost feelings for the other guy the go in for the kill
C) Cut my losses
D) Continue acting normally
I REALLY NEED HELP....SO PLEASE HELP ME
I had no intentions of looking for a girlfriend at all this year. That however didnt stop me from socializing with them. I however got to know this girl from my classes. Lets call her....Laura
So Laura and I got to know each other this year due to being in the same classes. shes one of the year level comittee leaders and is a rather bright spark. We get alot fine and hardly run out of things to say. Ive given her a few rides back home and exchanged the occasional hug at school when we crossed paths etc etc and shes trusted me with a few secrets.
More and more I found myself talking to her and I subconciously started to liek her. For me, being around her made me feel happy. It wasnt all about the looks, although having said that shes not bad at all.
I still played it cool. Teasing her, picking her brain. flirting a lil. shoing a lil interest
I automatically took this as a sign she liked me. So last week at her party, I turned up after work, with about an hour left on the party and I was totally knackerd...Wasnnt really into the dancing and stuff so I wasnt all to energetic and I ddint really know anybody there.
When everyone left. I told her that I was starting to like her and wondered if she would like to go out with me. She said it was APPEALING but was confused and didnt know, and told me to give her some time. I agreed
I got a txt later that night from her. She said the reason was becasue she liked someone else. and after a few txt messages, she wondered if we could take it slow. I Agreed again....Feeling all happy
Fast Forward to the morning, she sends me a txt saying how she had second thoughts and didnt know how liking the other guy would affect us and decided that we shoulnt commit ourselves AND REASSES the situation later in the future...
OK so ive told my chix mates about this and they say that I still stand a decent chance seeing she contemplated taking it slow and did say that my proposal was appealing.
My questions now is should I:
A)Turn up the charm by flirting
B) Slowly pull back until she has lost feelings for the other guy the go in for the kill
C) Cut my losses
D) Continue acting normally
I REALLY NEED HELP....SO PLEASE HELP ME
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