Define : Girlfriend...

[happyhappy]

Would the term girlfriend be used to define a long-lasting relationship (over 6 months), or is girlfriend more defined on your personal relationship. Shouldnt a guy worry on developing his confidence and not his game. I am very confident nad comfortable around women, but i scoff at the notion of a girlfriend because of the liabilities associated with it. If your not soliciting sexual interventions (ie: kissing and beyond...) then what is the true purpose of a girlfriend. It may be the fact that i take ADD meds that effect my libido but if your determined to involve yourself with girls arnt you better off being a flirt over initiating yourself into a relationship? If you need company, thats what friends are for, but the whole "girlfriend" notion, could it be over rated?

Try to remain civil if you think im wrong, but please clarify!

 

[Sachiel]

Different strokes for different folks, I say. Some people want a longer relationship than others, while others simply want to get laid. Personally, I want to experiment with different gals. Not sexually, persay, but in a more social sense. At first, at least. I'm a Catholic, and I don't believe in sex before marriage, but I'm not here to impose my values on you. As I said, some people like to be promiscuous, while others prefer to be in a fun, sexually charged relationship that lasts a while. I'm the latter. I say it depends on your preference. If you don't feel it's necessary, then skip that part of the process. Best of luck to ye.

-Sachiel, DJ in Training

 

[The Shocker]

I think you'll know if you have a girlfriend. The emotional connection should be pretty strong. What I don't like is guys tossing around the term gf for a girl they've seen once or twice, or just go out with, or hook up with a couple of times. "Girlfriend", IMO, is more based on emotional connection than physical/sexual connection (although that is important too).

 

[Deviant_DeWilde]

You wanted a definition?

girlfriend
noun
1. Any female friend; "Mary and her girlfriend organized the party"
2. A girl or young woman with whom a man is romantically involved; "his girlfriend kicked him out"

 

[Docs]

2. A girl or young woman with whom a man is romantically involved; "his girlfriend kicked him out"

Who else sees the irony in this! :crackup:

 

[The Shocker]

LOL...great sentence example there