defending the precious flowers.

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I realise its mainly new guys who are guilty of this but whats the deal with all these posts whining about how this board is full of women haters, this place is pretty well behaved considering the amount of AFCs who wake up to themselves after realising that they've basically been living a lie.

women hater this, misogynist that, thats so disrespectful towards women blah blah blah, its become ridiculous , and to be honest i highly doubt that there would be more than 1 or 2 (if that) true women haters here.

if you think about it a true misogynist would be an AFC for obvious reasons, a real man or DJ whatever you want to call it would have absolutely no reason to hate women, it makes no sense otherwise.

all these drama queens overracting because someone called a girl a b!tch or for whatever reason need to start putting down the sword to defend the weaker sexes honour, time to wake up mates youve been the knight in shining armour since you were born, let it go.

 

[TDK4]

Well said! I totally agree because if you keep up this mentality that women are gentle flowers who arent capable of defending themselves, then you will get played and burned for they will see the true pushover that you are.

When in doubt use the smell test -Maurice Chavez, Grand Theft Auto: Vice City

 

[BobbDobbs]

No no no. The reason to avoid slipping into the darkside of misogyny is because it'll affect your game. Some guys get all bitter at rejection, start hating women, and then wonder why they keep getting rejected.

Misogyny is the wrong attitude to be successful. It shouldn't be encouraged. It should be redirected.

It works both ways. Look at how we notice man-hating behavior in women. You can detect it a mile away. Think that makes them attractive? Not!

And it is a matter of degree, not absolutes. We can all be bitter over past slights. That can creep into our behaviors, for the worse.

The goal of this forum is to get into girl's panties and have them thank you for it. Acting bitter is probably not the way to do it.

 

[drZaius09]

Originally posted by BobbDobbs
Look at how we notice man-hating behavior in women. You can detect it a mile away. Think that makes them attractive? Not!

What makes them attractive is their a$$ and t1tties. Neither behavior (man-hating or otherwise), nor attitude, nor personality foibles ever enter into the equation. Not for a second. So stop lying to yourselves.

 

[princelydeeds]

Originally posted by BobbDobbs
No no no. The reason to avoid slipping into the darkside of misogyny is because it'll affect your game. Some guys get all bitter at rejection, start hating women, and then wonder why they keep getting rejected.

Misogyny is the wrong attitude to be successful. It shouldn't be encouraged. It should be redirected.

Actually the guys who don't give a sh!t about the women are the most successful. I don't hate women, but I don't love them in general either. I treat them as individuals. I probably am somewhat sexist, I do believe that there are basic differences in men and women. I love women for the things that make them different. I hate the things that make them ugly (inside), b!tchy, selfish and self centered. I also hate femiinism, mostly the kind practiced by dykes and men.

Mostly I don't give a sh!t about women. I can take them or leave them. None is more special than others until they prove themselves above and different from the rest.

I don't care if people call women b!tches, hoes, sluts or any other word they come up with. If it doesn't apply to the woman than she shoudlnt get offended. Why any man is so sensitive that the word b!tch bothers him, then in my opinion that is just what he is, a b!tch.

 

[b's nuts]

I have two problems with women, they drive like sh*t, one. Two, womens sports that they actually broadcast on TV, they suck. oh yeah, and when they start acting up, just choke a hoe, they will stop.

 

[Sexy_Malibu]

Princelydeeds: Word. I don't get offended when people " so many women are this or that " because usually it doesn't apply to me. I only get a little miffy when they say "ALL women are this or that " but even then I can usually understand where the generalization comes from. I mean I hate a lot of women... but I try to differ from those types of women that I hate.

B's nuts: Yeah, why do most of women's sports suck? I mean, most of the women are totally f*cking talented... what is it that makes it so lame? I really want to support it but there is something missing... not sure what it is. I remember hearing a long time ago (not sure if it was true) that the ball they use for women's basketball is smaller or something, so it makes for a less exciting game because it changes the technique or something..... does that make any sense because I don't get it?

 

[don_juan_20]

Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu

B's nuts: Yeah, why do most of women's sports suck? I mean, most of the women are totally f*cking talented... what is it that makes it so lame? I really want to support it but there is something missing... not sure what it is. I remember hearing a long time ago (not sure if it was true) that the ball they use for women's basketball is smaller or something, so it makes for a less exciting game because it changes the technique or something..... does that make any sense because I don't get it?

I think it has to do with the fact that men are generally bigger and stronger than women.

We can compare this to boxing. Which fights do you think get the most viewers and are the most talked about? Mostly Title fights or heavyweight bouts, featherweight and lightweight fighters are usually good fighters but somehow I find the fights less exciting.

I believe that this can be related to any other sport.

 

[Sexy_Malibu]

Originally posted by don_juan_20
I think it has to do with the fact that men are generally bigger and stronger than women.

We can compare this to boxing. Which fights do you think get the most viewers and are the most talked about? Mostly Title fights or heavyweight bouts, featherweight and lightweight fighters are usually good fighters but somehow I find the fights less exciting.

I believe that this can be related to any other sport.

I guess you have a point... but I don't really think it would matter. I mean if you had men playing AGAINST women... the bigger/stronger thing might apply... but as long as they are equal to their opponents it shouldn't really matter. I mean I am not an athlete by any means, but just for arguments sake let's say I was... as long as I was up against someone of equal size and strength wouldn't it just be a small-scale version of the men's sports? I have to look up where I heard about that ball-thing... I dont understand why it would make a difference.

 

[MetalFortress]

Originally posted by drZaius09
What makes them attractive is their a$$ and t1tties. Neither behavior (man-hating or otherwise), nor attitude, nor personality foibles ever enter into the equation. Not for a second. So stop lying to yourselves.

Actually, I'm sure NO self respecting DJ wants a complete feminazi, no matter how hot she is, unless it's for a ONS (which is kind of an ironic situation in the first place).

 

[WestCoaster]

I don't think that many people are ...

... saying there's a lot of women hating and mysogyny going on on this board. I SAID IT and that doesn't represent everyone on this board. I guess the reason I said it was that when some of these dudes get rejected, dumped, or whatever on this board, everyone is a wh-re, biatch, or whatever, like the guy on this board who has made sweeping generalizations about women. That's as bad as the sweeping generalizations women make about men.

I really haven't read that many people outside of me who said there's a lot of women hating going on here. I think there is, but I could be wrong.

What really baffles me is the inability of more than 50 percent of this board to understand the true concepts of the entire DJ theory and that is being in control of your emotions, not letting women run your life, when you get angry you don't seek revenge you go out and upgrade in the female dept., you work on yourself, and be the best person you can be.

Whether it's AFC or non-AFC is not the issue. Most people here have not read the articles on the front page by Allen Thompson or the boot camp and don't understand the dynamics of DJism. A lot of women hating comes up and when women sense this, they can smell it a mile away. And what that is folks is totally anti-DJism and mostly AFC. You're not in control of who your are enough to be able to move on.

So (..)(..) or whatever your handle is -- I think your issue is with me not most of the DJ's here.

 

[Emerging DJ]

I pretty much agree with ( . )( . ) on this. Me, I used to be that guy that felt all women wanted to be treated like flowers and gold and all that romantic crap that I used to do (before even knowing a girl), and blah blah blah. I don't think like that anymore (thank goodness) and aim to have DJism in my thoughts at all times (I'm getting better at that). Women's reactions towards me have improved immensely and it's only a matter of time before I finally get laid.

I don't see any women hating involved in the DJ Bible or on this site at all. What I see is a treatise on becoming more assertive, confident, and standing up for yourself when women pull their little games. Some individuals have become so misguided and "politically correct" that it's difficult to change the attitude that has been in place since the day they were raised. They feel that the DJ attitude is "misleading" or "manipulative to women. I remember a David DeAngleo newsletter where he summed it up perfectly (don't have the exact quote off the top of my head; sorry):

Nice guy: "But I don't want to use this stuff. It sounds too manipulative."

David: "Manipulative? Puh-LEEZE! Get your head outta your ass and look at what you're doing now. You don't think buying women flowers, getting them dinner, and being a kiss-ass towards them isn't manipulative?"

While granted, his retort wasn't exactly as mean-spirited but I felt it should be conveyed as such due to the ridiculousness of the nice guy statement.

There is no women hating in the DJ Bible -- it's all about being assertive and aggressive when it comes to women and dating. For without assertiveness, aggressiveness (not the kind that leads to violence or controlling behavior), and most of all, CONFIDENCE, you are going to lose in the dating game. I guarantee it. I had been that "nice guy" for 22 years. And I am damn well not going to be the "nice guy" ever again. For I'll be a DJ! And a damn good one.

 

[Sexy_Malibu]

Re: I don't think that many people are ...

Originally posted by WestCoaster
(..)(..) or whatever your handle is -- I think your issue is with me not most of the DJ's here.

ha ha! Damn WestCoaster... I don't know about the girls you date, but do they usually have two nipples on each tit? ha ha ha SOOOOOORRRRRRRY... Back to the topic. Just ignore the attention wh*re...

 

[WestCoaster]

Little slow on the uptake

OK, I get it now. Duh! I used to not know what :>) was -- so, yeah, I'm a computer dork.

I agree with the above post about being a nice guy forever -- I still kind of am -- and the DJ skills allow a person to take more control of their lives.

What gets me is all this neg hit, nexting, etc., that goes on here. What about just being calm, cool, and collected and not letting things rattle you?

But I TOTALLY agree with the nice guy crap. Women DO NOT want this so I wish they'd just be up front about it and say, "I want an assh-le, who talks down to me and reaffirms my already low self-esteem, " instead of, "I want a nice guy who treats me right, etc." I just want honesty. Be true.

This one gal I'm hot on fell for this guy because she says he opened doors for her (never mind that I opened a ton for her) and made her feel great (never mind that he's pulling pu-sy like crazy on the side). She gravitates towards jerks, wish she'd just admit it. I appreciate being honest.

Another gal I'm more hot for is more honest and won't put up with being treated like sh-t. When she got sh-t on by an ex-boyfriend she said she didn't deserve that. Now THAT'S what I like! Be true to yourself.

 

[BobbDobbs]

(o)(o)

 

[( . )( . )]

Re: I don't think that many people are ...

Originally posted by WestCoaster

So (..)(..) or whatever your handle is -- I think your issue is with me not most of the DJ's here.

actually no your not the only one ive seen spouting this bullsh!t lately.
hell 99% of the male population seem to have this ingrained brainwashed bollocks and more importantly false view that you share, which women should be regarded as sacred objects placed high on a pedestal and not a harsh word should be spoken about them spare us this sickening sh!t, read the bible, open your eyes and wake up to yourself.

Oh and on a side note i noticed you didnt give me an example of all of these so called "women hating" views around here you keep talking about.

 

[WestCoaster]

Way to fabricate and exaggerate

Is your brain down under, too? Oh it's FALSE because you said so. Where did I say one iota of what you posted.

What the hell is your problem? If you can't post something correct, that is accurate and factual, then why post? I said none of that stuff that you posted. Lighten up, or go catch a wave dude.

Your anger proves one thing: You've got a long ways to go. Keep your cool DJ in training, you're looking too uptight.

 

[( . )( . )]

anger? hardly, try tired of wannabee misinformed knights in shining armour bringing these boards one step closer to a dating issues column.

and where did you say one iota of my post?

Originally posted by WestCoaster
The articles are highly contradictory to a lot of the anti-women posts here.
There's a lot of women hating and borderline rap-- type stuff here on this board, it's almost scary.

i bet you feel stupid now eh?
just swallow your pride mate and realise harsh words DO NOT make a women hater
hate is a very strong word, has no place here.

 

[Kwah]

Sexy, the thing with womens sports is they are almost always less exciting to watch. Save the Oil Wrestling and wet T-shirt contests of course.

Seriously though, who would you rather watch do the X-games ****? The guys doing the huge ass jumps or the girls doing small little board grabs and whatnot. I get bored out of my mind watching womens sports usually.