Alright, I'm just bearly breaking through this (the whole reason I even come to this site).
Beginning a cold interaction with a straight up hotty always leads me to severe anxiety and I puss out.
It's been my greatest (and only real concernable) sticking point.
However, within the past 7 days I've done two CA style interactions on HOT women. Both were extremely succesful and I know exactly why........FRAME CONTROL and STATE CONTROL.
I've been putting alot of work on building a solid state of mind to work hot chicks and then actually keeping it (which is key) for the duration.
I'm not going to say anything new right here but I will testify as to the power.
I build my state around 3 major themes.
1.
I AM the prize. I'm
giving the
opportunity to
her.
2.The outcome of the interaction is irrelevant to my concerns. I don't give a crap what happens. She holds no power and no meaning for me, nor do her actions.
3.I have no idea of what physical type she goes for. I don't care. I'll assume I'm it but if I'm not, who cares. That's one fish down out of millions.
For years (Since I first found this site) I've been trying to internalize these concepts. We all know them, but to make them a tangible part of your mind and root them in your very being is extremely difficult.
To know them on the surface is USELESS. I'll repeat them as I ready myself for the kill. I'll be hyped up and ready to go. But once I cross that last covered position and move in, they float away like the meaningless WORDS they are. To know them is useless, to live them is key.
I found a new way to do it which I plan to share after I become consitantly succesful with CAing HB 9's and know for a fact my state is not temporary (I've had streaks of solid inner game before, although they've been random as opposed to created, like now.)
What do you do? Let me know what you say, what your body language is, etc, etc..
Here is where the beauty is. When you're in the correct state you won't even think about it. It's just like interacting with a girl you have no interest in with the exception that you'll naturaly have an implicit attitude of sexual interest. This will manifest in a very flirty, sexual tonality of your character. Then at that point you can start working on your game (or atleast calibration as game should come natural, assuming you're not 100% inept.)
The scenario you describe, Unorthodox, is not a matter of having good game. I have good game (well, typically not with CAs) and still can't answer your question with an articulate answer. And in reality it wouldn't matter.
Somebody could give a guy like me or you (or 99% of the people on this board) the best opener, the best routine, the best PU material in existence and it will sit there in the back of your mind as the HB walks out of the gas station and you stand there feeling the lonely sting of regret and think, "next time I'll do it, I promise...."
Anyway, good luck.
