Decissions,decissions...

[Rookie64]

Hi everybody, I am a newbee here so before I proceed I would like to send my respects to the rest of the forum. Now to cut it short, lately I' ve been confused with the way most of the women react, at first nice,friendly and anxious to meet you.So far so good but why when you try to make the 1st step, they are like put in a difficult possition try to excuse themselves etc,etc,.
And i can ensure you I am not doing anything stupid, because I get a lot of advise from this site. Anyway, I recently asked a girl her cellphone to go out for a coffee and have a chit-chat and she seemed awkward so I did not want to push her and then replied that we could talk while we were at the gym.now we are still talking and anything but the thing is I REALLY like her and like to give another shot. So any ideas are welcome.

PS. It would be interesting if there was a section about body language in the site.

 

[Rookie64]

Now what?

Hi, everyone I already posted a thread, but for some reason I have not got any feedback yet. I guess this is because its typical or perhaps there is lack of information from my part?

Well, there is this girl I talked about, we met at a gym and we are still talking u know like friendly conversation, the thing is that I already tried to get her number and she refused claiming that we could talk over in person(?) I know it sounds weird but anyway. I was troubled but never letting her know neither i change my attitude towards her, in your opinion what should be the next step, should i make another go, or is just another lost case? You see we get very well with her and i really like can you guys give me a hint?

 

[LostDon]

Women are a type that want to be chased, and hunted after. But, at the sametime they don't want anyone that wants them. To be honest you need to read about the ladder. It will explain a lot to you.

Take well, I shall let you know. You have been placed on the friends ladder. Face it, and you hit the abyss when you asked for her number.

Leave it as friends.

If you are still set on getting her. Here is what you do.

Forget her, act as if she doesn't matter. (Because, really does she? What makes her so special. You are the catch. Not her. *Self rioghtous stuff I know, but true*) So forget about her, when she trys to talk at the gym, or wherever. Just BS talk to her. Don't be rude, but at the same time. Don't really seem to care. You must have better things to do, than be her lapdog and listen to her every word, and whim.

My friend, hope the info helps.

One more thing. Remember there are billions of females on this planet. If you don't get one, what's the problem. There are plenty more out there.

 

[diablo]

Re: Now what?

Originally posted by Rookie64
Hi, everyone I already posted a thread, but for some reason I have not got any feedback yet.

Do not post multiple threads saying the same thing. If you want to bump your thread back up to the top by replying to it after a day, feel free - making numerous topics about the same issue just clutters up the forum and gives mods a headache. If you continue to do so, the duplicate threads (regardless of if they have replies or not) will be deleted and only the original will be left alone.

Threads merged, have a nice flight.