Decided I may as well go for broke. No luck yet. But at least I tried.

[MrJibbles]

Just came back from a party with some family. My family actually doesn't really give a sh** that much. I was upbeat and positive and everyone responded really well. I fell off the wagon unfortunately and had a few drinks, but oh well. At least I realized it, and I won't go there again.

On another note, there are still plenty of fish in the sea. Yes, I haven't got around to cold approaching in malls yet, so I still have that to do. That's completely different than messaging girls on facebook and much more difficult, I understand. I've just been too busy so far to get around to it.

On another note, I will mention something else. I know I will get a lot of flack for this but f*** it. When I saw my cousin who I mentioned in this thread, she was really intimidated by me and couldn't even look me in the eye. Months before, she had "friendzoned" me and called me a "good guy" and that "I shouldn't be afraid to get a girlfriend." Now she knows my true colours. I'm not saying I'm going to hook up with her, but now that at least one chick is mad for me, that's make me feel a little bit better.

To be honest, only a few girls that I know now think I'm a "creep." Most people don't give a sh**. And now that I've made amends and apologized to a few people, I'm on better terms with people now.

Overall, I'm actually glad I did what I did. I killed my ego temporarily and actually DISPLAYED sexual interest in a girl aggressively, something that I've never done. This experience has helped me grow as a person and helped define myself and potential in a different light, and I've learned from both the mistakes I made and goals I achieved.

 

[Groovy]

We are witnessing self destruction right now folks...

 

[MrJibbles]

We are witnessing self destruction right now folks...

As Tyler Durden said, "Self-improvement is masturbation. Now self-destruction....". I think self-destruction can be good. Especially if one destroys negative thought patterns and preconceived notions that prevent one from going for what is wanted in life. Instead of learning new things, unlearn old ones, and eliminate them. With great change, comes great sacrifice. Especially if the change is brought about in a bold way.

 

[SharinganUser]

As Tyler Durden said, "Self-improvement is masturbation. Now self-destruction...."

Stop listening to **** wit self help guru's and start getting out and living your life. If you really need help then get a therapist that can see you one on one.

 

[Trump]

So I sent about 50 or 60 different girls on Facebook the same (type of) message: "You're beautiful and I want to ravish you." Also "You're beautiful and I want to ravish you. Let's have sex and never stop." Or some sort of variation of those messages depending on how well I know the girl.

If all of these endeavors fail, I'll make a POF and OKCupid profile and do the same as I did with facebook to as many girls as possible. Online dating usually fails, but it can't hurt to at least try.

Hollywood and the media have built up sex so much that people lose their way.

Girls are one thing out of a whole bunch of things. Even if you get to have sex with the hottest girl on a Friday night, what are you going to do on Saturday and Sunday, and next Friday? She will leave you in 2 seconds if you're just about getting hammered and smoking weed and getting laid.

Aspire to be something, improve yourself, improve society, give back to people, get social value, act like your 5 year old son is watching you and learning from you, and you'll get the attraction you're dying for.

 

[floydb25]

Yea... This stuff doesn't work. I tried being super aggressive, ultra sexual, and full on jerk-style before, and failed big time. There's too much stereotyping and delusional believing going on that causes this. And, like you said, simply not giving a **** anymore. The internet does not help at all in this regard, either.

It all goes back to finding that delicate balance, and not going to extremes. Too many people emphasize extremes, and believe its all black and white. It really isn't. Nor is it super complicated. Instead of trying so hard - chill out. Don't not care at all. Instead of avoiding sex completely - add some sexual tension. Don't push for sex sex sex. So on and so forth. Not that hard.

Bitterness and other negative thoughts completely cloud your mind with irrational bull****, and lead you down a disastrous path, so eliminate that as best as possible. Don't believe everything you hear, either, because a lot of people complaining and giving advice are also bitter over their own failures and rejections, and only believe that being x or y is effective - without first-hand experience. They only assume that, because their way doesn't work, the opposite extreme does. Like, being nice doesn't work for THEM, so all women want jerks.

 

[corrector]

This was just totally retarded. You don't play with your own social circle for some egotistical experiment and send out a bunch of emails. What did you prove? It would have been better to just go on a sex site since that type of approach would mean nothing since everyone on here are slvts and the worst (or best case in avoiding STD risk depending on how you see it) is nobody would reply to you and you are expected to make that approach there because of what such sites represent.

You don't go to a normal girl you know and do this. This is stuff done to strangers that way if it fouls up, guess what, you never cross them again in your life-time. If you are that hard-up then you should just go with a pro as it's always easier to lose some money under the rug then reputation. You can't even buy your reptuation back.

 

[Poonani Maker]

I will definitely get under their skin from the get-go...like if one of her requirements is a lift Truck Ford, I'll tell her that I don't have a lift truck, and not only that, but that she'd have to come down and visit me in my town cause I don't like going to her city because of [blank]. I'm real pushy even though I don't own the cards, she's got the hair, the eyes, the body etc that attracts, but I'll tell her that this is how it's gonna be take it or leave it and it angers them like a hornets nest, then when she responds I'll back off and see about getting together. Nothing always works with women. It's always 50/50, 40/60, 30/70, 10/90, 1/99. Regarding facebook, I have multiple women friends on there and hardly any guy friends kinda makes me look bad idk, but some guys will post stuff on her wall and it's, in a sense, a face-c0ck-block. Not cool, but I wonder if girls get messages about me, why I'm friends with her (by her younger guy friends) like, "he's twice your age" or "why the old guy?" or what's up with being friends with him. I will not lie, I put up a pic of me in front of a semi-mansion (about 4-5 million dollar home), This may get their pearls figure-8ing churning for the lotto, in me, that's not really there, but I don't really give a fvck cause if they're that much of a wh0re to only want me for my perceived money, then I'll just fvck em and leave em. They deserve it.

 

[corrector]

I will not lie, I put up a pic of me in front of a semi-mansion (about 4-5 million dollar home), This may get their pearls figure-8ing churning for the lotto, in me, that's not really there, but I don't really give a fvck cause if they're that much of a wh0re to only want me for my perceived money, then I'll just fvck em and leave em. They deserve it.

So how does that game work? That sounds like easy game if you pull it out. The women are so stupid that they don't bother proofing you to see if that photo is legit? (i.e. meet you at that mansion house, see what kind of car you drive, see your bank account statement, etc...).

If it were that easy, EVERY guy would be doing that and just be getting laid. Unless you actually look like a celibrity that has money I don't see HOW you can pull that off without being caught.