Dear Black Women...

[backbreaker]

This is backbreaker talking to you. Look, we need to have a talk.

What the **** man lol? you are pissing me off. I'm a black guy and yeah I'm married to a white woman. But I still root for black women to get their **** together because I like black women. But right now you are dropping the ball as a whole.

I'm not even talking about **** like, picking thugs over guys who are trying to do right then getting pissy when the thug goes thug and can't take care of you/ cheats on you. I will spare you that. I will even spare you the drama and unrelaistic expectations you put on your men.


YOu want to know why we need to have a talk and what is pissing me off so much? you aren't even ****ing trying anymore. at all. There is a better chance of a Dodo bird walking into my gym than a 25-30 year old black woman who is just trying to stay in shape and I live in LA. I'm sick and ****ing tired of you sitting around with your "big asses" (fat) and shaming men who aren't attracted to them. Even worse I'm sick and tired of you just being desexualized in general.

This chick came over my house for my BBQ i had today and she was actually not ugly. a not ugly black woman. but she had a bald head. she wasn't what.. 28-29 years old. freaking bald. you want to know why? " I got tired of doing my hair so I just cut it off"

that's black women. my sister, has dreadlocks because my mom is to ****ing lazy to do her hair every morning. so we are going to put these ugly ass dreadloccks on you so i can save time.

This is what women do. you doll up and get pretty. you walk around with a freaking bald head and your 5 dollar flip flops and wonder why no man worth a **** wants anything to do with you **** that i want a sexy feminine woman. I want a woman, white, black, green, purple, who likes wearing heels and **** me pumps and likes spending 1 hour in the mirror doing her make up and hair.

why do you give black men such a hard time? no other race of men have to deal with like half of their women just too damn lazy to be women lol who don't give a **** about being sexy. there are a lot of black woman walking around that have a **** load of potentical that are just too lazy to be sexy. they would rather wear dread locks then comb their hair every morning. they refuse to spend time putting on make up


Get it to ****ing gether black women. ****. Put the ****ing neck bone down lol. I like em too lol. I know.

Put on a freaking dress. that fits lol. Wear some pumps. Get your hair done. Better yet, grow your own damn hair lol. Learn how to be a freaking lazy. It's okay to be sexy.

Until you do, you can't complain about black men not wanting to settle down with you.

 

[deedel]

they aint worried, they'd rather have white men, and a lot of white dudes don't care about at least some of that stuff. the heels, and hair, at least. I certainly don't want one who's always in the mirror.

 

[visions]

it goes deeper than that. this issue is black american culture. once it straightens itself out, many issues will be fixed.

 

[Eph]

they aint worried, they'd rather have white men, and a lot of white dudes don't care about at least some of that stuff. the heels, and hair, at least. I certainly don't want one who's always in the mirror.

Ha. Other than maybe celebrities, I've never seen it go that way. I know it happens, but it's not as common as other interracial relationships. Too much pride in a lot of nonwhite women.
With that said backbreaker I never would have expected you to be black going by the way you talk. Probably because where I live every black is expected to speak slang. Its nice to know I'm not the only one who doesn't (or at least less commonly does).

 

[Hustlaz Ambition]

It's getting worse for black women lol, 70% are single yet the interracial marriage percentage for black men rises every year. Hispanic women are have LITERALLY taken their spot. Just look at some of the rap and R&B videos from the 80s and 90s, then look at the current ones? The difference? It's all Latinas and mixed women now! Yariz Sanchez, Vanessa Bryant, Rosa Acosta, Jennifer Lopez, Vida Guerra, Draya, Rhinna. None of these girls are BLACK women.

As a black man you can't lose with a Puerto Rican, Mexican, Dominican, Cuban, or Colombian girl. It's like a black girl except with real hair, but the attitude thing still exist. Me personally that's all I **** with. Why even care about a rude ass black b!tch when there's these type of girls around . Black women have to step their game up now that girls that look like this have become the staple look for women in urban/black/hip-hop culturehttp://3.bp.blogspot.com/-UMJ1nLZGE4A/TnoJkfTIRPI/AAAAAAAAESc/jUxDj2RPtWo/s1600/Astrid BaronaB20.JPG

I know alot of Asian girls who feel the same way about Asian men, the way us black men feel about black women. Which is why both groups do so horrible in the dating scene(black women&asian men) compared to their counterparts(black men and Asian women). It's obviously a big issue numbers don't lie

Gender patterns in intermarriage vary widely. Some 22% of all black male newlyweds in 2008 married outside their race, compared with just 9% of black female newlyweds. Among Asians, the gender pattern runs the other way. Some 40% of Asian female newlyweds married outside their race in 2008, compared with just 20% of Asian male newlyweds. Among whites and Hispanics, by contrast, there are no gender differences in intermarriage rates.

The White and Hispanic race doesn't have that large gap.

 

[Smok1nAce]

agree with OP, black women are very selfish and lazy. plus if there ugly as sin to begin with and they have a nice ass they even more lazy.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

I also know a lot of asian women who exclusively date asian men. The result? You will see pretty cute asian girls with asian men who are ugly as sin because they have less competition. But often in those types of relationships, the ugly as sin man also drives a high end car haha.

 

[zinc4]

Looks wise and the way they act, Asian and Latina women are the most attractive to me by a long shot.....most white women and especially black women just aren't feminine acting enough....not sure why Asian men in the states like white women so much....guess it's that old thing of wanting what you can't have which i can completely understand.....

Here in Taiwan and in Korea, i can honestly tell you that most of the men would never have a white woman for a relationship simply because they are way too traditional thinking and not accepting of other races to start a family or LTR with. Plus they think a normal sized girl is fat and an overly skinny girl is normal...weird obsession with being thin over here...and last but not least they are more racist and less tolerate of such things than in the US when it comes to dating outside your race.....

My list of most to least attractive goes like this...

1. Asian
2. Latina
3. European whites (more feminime in general than western ones)
4. US and Canadian Whites
5. Blacks in the states and other parts of the world
6. Blacks in Africa (truth is the truth)

 

[moon goddess]

@ backbreaker, maybe she cut off her hair to go natural.

 

[moon goddess]

nvm

 

[JoeMarron]

All kinds of truth in this post. This site says that 4 out of 5 African American women are overweight http://minorityhealth.hhs.gov/templates/content.aspx?ID=6456. 4 out of goddamn 5! Its a shame because black women have some of the best figures when they get in shape imo. Plus the fake hair chit needs to stop lol. Black women's hair is a unique feature and they need to embrace it instead of jumping on the straight hair bandwagon.

 

[Darkwolf32]

race thread

TROLL

 

[Bokanovsky]

Self-hating minorities are amusing.

 

[TheStig]

This is backbreaker talking to you. Look, we need to have a talk.

What the **** man lol? you are pissing me off. I'm a black guy and yeah I'm married to a white woman. But I still root for black women to get their **** together because I like black women. But right now you are dropping the ball as a whole.

I'm not even talking about **** like, picking thugs over guys who are trying to do right then getting pissy when the thug goes thug and can't take care of you/ cheats on you. I will spare you that. I will even spare you the drama and unrelaistic expectations you put on your men.


YOu want to know why we need to have a talk and what is pissing me off so much? you aren't even ****ing trying anymore. at all. There is a better chance of a Dodo bird walking into my gym than a 25-30 year old black woman who is just trying to stay in shape and I live in LA. I'm sick and ****ing tired of you sitting around with your "big asses" (fat) and shaming men who aren't attracted to them. Even worse I'm sick and tired of you just being desexualized in general.

This chick came over my house for my BBQ i had today and she was actually not ugly. a not ugly black woman. but she had a bald head. she wasn't what.. 28-29 years old. freaking bald. you want to know why? " I got tired of doing my hair so I just cut it off"

that's black women. my sister, has dreadlocks because my mom is to ****ing lazy to do her hair every morning. so we are going to put these ugly ass dreadloccks on you so i can save time.

This is what women do. you doll up and get pretty. you walk around with a freaking bald head and your 5 dollar flip flops and wonder why no man worth a **** wants anything to do with you **** that i want a sexy feminine woman. I want a woman, white, black, green, purple, who likes wearing heels and **** me pumps and likes spending 1 hour in the mirror doing her make up and hair.

why do you give black men such a hard time? no other race of men have to deal with like half of their women just too damn lazy to be women lol who don't give a **** about being sexy. there are a lot of black woman walking around that have a **** load of potentical that are just too lazy to be sexy. they would rather wear dread locks then comb their hair every morning. they refuse to spend time putting on make up


Get it to ****ing gether black women. ****. Put the ****ing neck bone down lol. I like em too lol. I know.

Put on a freaking dress. that fits lol. Wear some pumps. Get your hair done. Better yet, grow your own damn hair lol. Learn how to be a freaking lazy. It's okay to be sexy.

Until you do, you can't complain about black men not wanting to settle down with you.

repped

 

[Hustlaz Ambition]

Self-hating minorities are amusing.

Lol you don't know about self hate . Explain to me how getting pu$$y is self hate? Just cause someone is of the same race don't mean I have to get in the bed with them. My favorite one black women like to throw at us is "You came from a black women's stomach and raised around black women, how could you disrespect them?" When that logic doesn't even apply to "blacks" like Tiger Woods(mother is Asian), Dwayne Johnson(mother is Samoan), and me(mother is half white/half Native American/25%black), and my sister is half Hispanic. So me, I feel justified in disliking black women, cause I never been around them.

Self hate is skin lightening treatment, perms, Japanese manga, Asian eye surgery, etc. Getting laid has nothing to do with self hate.

 

[yyc12]

Self-hating minorities are amusing.

how is that self hate?

 

[Fatal Jay]

This is coming from a black man myself, I love my race I love other races, but black women problem these days is they want to be white women, notice you will never see a black woman in public without a weave in her head, they want to be European so bad, and they get mad at us black men because we embrace our hair our everything, and that's why other race of women find us attractive.

I hate to say it, I really do especially with other races reading this, but black women are at the lowest of the totem pole because of this "independent" a man cant do $hit for me attitude, and wonder why they end up alone, they wonder why it never works out with the thugs smh. When they start loving themselves maybe others will love them back.

 

[Burroughs]

all I want to know is why the propensity of grossly overweight black females trying to slip into a pair of leopard print tights and heels acting like they are cute?

biyach you are never going to be sexy stop trying :crackup:

 

[Fatal Jay]

They think having a fat a$$ and showing it off to the world, will get them husbands, lol. I'm not even lying, they think taking pics of their overweight bodies on facebook and other social sites will land them the best the world has to offer.

 

[Hustlaz Ambition]

This is coming from a black man myself, I love my race I love other races, but black women problem these days is they want to be white women, notice you will never see a black woman in public without a weave in her head, they want to be European so bad, and they get mad at us black men because we embrace our hair our everything, and that's why other race of women find us attractive.

I hate to say it, I really do especially with other races reading this, but black women are at the lowest of the totem pole because of this "independent" a man cant do $hit for me attitude, and wonder why they end up alone, they wonder why it never works out with the thugs smh. When they start loving themselves maybe others will love them back.

And to quit being so ****ing rude in public. Whenever I go shopping or get something to eat black women are rude as **** to customers. I know I can't be the only one that noticed this?

When I went to the mall to buy a $98 dollar jacket this black women was being a straight up biatch!! The fact I had my Mexican gf with me had her visibly bothered.

BW:SIR DO YOU NEED TO CHECK THE PRICE!(obvisously trying to say all nigg@s are too cheap to spend $100+ on a jacket)
Me:No buy it
BW:BUY IT?!
Me:Yea I said buy it
*white guy visibly embarrassed interrupts, and turns on a register*
White Male: Sir, I'll go ahead and ring you up
GF:That b!tch was about to get slapped

This is why these *****es get no respect her bad attitude lost her a sale :crackup: not enough Michelle Obamas or Beyonces out there. They actually carry themselves with respect and stay in shape.