Dealing with women's sh*t

[MackJr]

I searched through the DJ bible posts for something about dealing with stupid, flakey, or lying women (or all of the above), but I didn't see anything specific.

It seems that the advice on the daily boards is to just take sh!t and just go after other women to compensate. Is that really part of the DJ attitude?

How is a DJ different from an AFC then, as far as dealing with bull* from women? AFCs grovel at every cruel thing a woman does to them and I don't see continuing to do so as a step up. Perhaps I have it wrong, so please enlighten me.

 

[The Dominated1]

Very Simply and AFC lets this stuff annoy him and gets angry etc.

A DJ just doesn't care because he has control of his emotions.

He also realises that all this crap from women is the result of two things either she doesn't really like you or she is playing too many games and you don't want that messing with your head and damaging your ego.

Therefore do not bother spending time with these girls.

Also it can be a result that she subconsciously doesn't respect you for some reason. Women can pick up on things without you knowing it.

She can probably tell from your body language that you cannot control your emotions - a negative trait.

Therefore self improvement is the key.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Originally posted by The Dominated1
Very Simply and AFC lets this stuff annoy him and gets angry etc.

A DJ just doesn't care because he has control of his emotions.

He also realises that all this crap from women is the result of two things either she doesn't really like you or she is playing too many games and you don't want that messing with your head and damaging your ego.

Therefore do not bother spending time with these girls.

Also it can be a result that she subconsciously doesn't respect you for some reason. Women can pick up on things without you knowing it.

She can probably tell from your body language that you cannot control your emotions - a negative trait.

Therefore self improvement is the key.

There you have the answer!

Big Mac - dj's go after other women because they 'don't' take shyt from a woman! (this is the opposite of what you stated in your post). It is only the chumps that stay around to make things 'work out'.

 

[JustDoItAlways]

Sh1t Test

ALL women will try messing with you to see if you are a real man. They want to see how much sh1t you will put with before you stand your ground and put her in her place. This is called the "sh1t test" and almost all women (usually subconciously but sometimes on purpose) will use this testing method to see if you're a real man. It is the most common test women throw at men.

Your answer to the sh1t test is always "I do not put up with any amount of sh1t missy. I expect you to ... (insert what you expect, what she should stop doing) ..."

Chicks actually want you to do this. They might act pissy afterward (a normal reaction) but secretly they will be thrilled by it. After all you passed the test. You are a real man.

They do this because they don't really know the real you yet. You might have been dating for a month or have known her for years. But she doesn't know you for sure, hence the test (which can happen more than once and take different MOs.)

But there is a difference between a chick who is actually a nice girl who is just sh1t testing you and a chick who is just naturally a b1tch.

A b1tch isn't testing you. You don't get a pass or fail. You just get more sh1t because she likes dishing it out. Not just to you but to everyone else as well.

The same applies for chicks who are just playing you and have no real interest in you. They are always doing sh1t, not doing what you expect.

A nice girl who actually has interest in you and who is sh1t testing will stop it once you pass (the various versions of) the test. She will also reward you handsomely when you pass with a hot night of sex and lots of other favors.

The b1tch just keeps handing it out. Move on from these chicks because they do not change. You will always be taking sh1t from her even after you have been divorced from her for 10 years.

So pass those sh1t tests. The nice girl will stop it and be one hell of a girlfriend to you afterward. Move on when the sh1t keeps coming because she is just a b1tch and not worth your time. Afterall, there's a nice girl just around the corner.

 

[NatureGuy]

JustDoIT has a great reply here. And let
me reinforce what he said: most women don't do this with spite. Only a few
"b1tches" (actually, troubled angry women) intend any negative effect.

 

[Player_Supreme]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
There you have the answer!

Big Mac - dj's go after other women because they 'don't' take shyt from a woman! (this is the opposite of what you stated in your post). It is only the chumps that stay around to make things 'work out'.

I agree.

Here is also a copy of an earlier post of mine from the pn:

Dealing with Ho’s Tests!

Remember that episode of Bevis & Buthead were they went to the pound looking for the right dog? They went to the most masculine of dogs and would stick their arm in and if the dog licked it they went to the next dog. When a dog bit the **** out of them they chose up that dog.

Bi.tches are like those too fools, they are looking for a real mutha ****a who can handle them. They use “The Test” to select out the weak candidates.

When they test your credentials as a pimp they will do something that will determine if you are worthy or not to wear the crown, and to see how much you will put up with by :
1. Calling yo ass at the last minute to break a date.
2. B.itch will be vague when accepting to spend time with you. Ho might say some **** like “I might have to drop by my parents but I might be open, why don’t you call me to confirm. And if you symp yo ass out and do call her she will be busy.
3. Show up to meet you over coffee & bring a friend or a relative with some **** like “I hope you don’t mind” batting her eye lashes at you. “I hope you don’t mind while I walk the **** out of here then”
4. Yo ass is expecting to tap that ass and she suddenly remembers she gots to stop over at her parents or some weak ass ****. “Ho you gotta do better than that if you wanna hang with me’
5. Or I’m not going to be here this weekend, I’m going away with my ex-oh just to talk.
6. And the ho test lists just goes on and on and on.

I collected these variations of the test from a reliable source on Dating. A symp will accept what ever crumbs a ***** throws his way. This is like saying your boss just cut your pay by 70% and if you stay then it’s a sure bet that you aren’t in demand at any other companies around.

Putting up with some sh,it like this will show her that you don’t have options. Ho’s are like a Bank Of America loan officer. If you look like you need it your sho’ nuff not going to get it.

These trifling ass ho’s will not respect you if you don’t respect yourself. Cha’Ching you’ve just been demoted to the friend zone boy….

So what the fu.ck do you do? You stand yo pimp ass up to the b.itch. That doesn’t mean you gotta “cut her head back to the white meat” . Jail is full of gorillia pimps.

Here is what I’ve learned to say. “Ok I understand that you wanna test a nigga, to see if I’ll put up with some **** that women try to put over on a fella. The answer is NO! Using my shaolin icy eye technique (for this you gotta have a black mom to learn this one), that’s your freebie, try some sh.it like this again and your outta here. Do you understand_______then I use her name. This cuts off resistance.

The main thing is that you do not go along with whatever nonsense this bi.tch is trying to pull on a nigga or dude for my white brothers up in here. **** we are all in this game together. It’s us against them and they have been kicking our asses for sometime. It’s time to even out the score as MillineumBrotha said in a private email to me“AJ 25 Her 0.

 

[DJ_Dork]

Re: Sh1t Test

Originally posted by JustDoItAlways
ALL women will try messing with you to see if you are a real man. They want to see how much sh1t you will put with before you stand your ground and put her in her place. This is called the "sh1t test" and almost all women (usually subconciously but sometimes on purpose) will use this testing method to see if you're a real man. It is the most common test women throw at men.


Believe this dude's talk - He knows his material! *****es = FOREVER is going to test your loyalty, interest, how far she can get away ALL THE TIME. It's easy to pick one out - she will be the type that puts you on a emotional roller coaster all the time (ie. Hot/Cold girl) - A nice girl who wants to be your girlfriend will play the same games BUT.. she will do it occasionally and not use it as a shield.