Dealing with this 'Maybe' BS

[NSX-R]

"I'll be in this **place** on **day** and you are free to join. ''
If she's positive respond with ''ok, I'll pick you up at **time**. Be ready''

Every negative response from her = Abandon ship.

 

[icantgetlaid]

A rule of thumb: if a girl is interested she will NEVER be confusing. She will show overt interest. She will accept your date/clear her schedule to meet you. She will be super accessible to you. Anytime I've been in a situation where a girl has played hard to get, or given mixed vibes, or was lukewarm about getting together, it resulted in more time/anxiety/effort then it was worth -- and I came out feeling like a fool at the end of it.

State a date and time, if she rejects or maybes, or comes up with bull**** excuse then ghost and move on to another one. If she reaches back out to you at a later time after ghosting .. state a date and time to get together again. And repeat the same process.

 

[Atom Smasher]

You need to get "let me know" out of your vocabulary.

"I'm doing "xyz" this Tuesday. I'd like you to join me. I can pick you up at "x time"".

 

[JohnChops]

Have a damn backbone. Maybe is wishy washy bull**** that you do not have time for. Delete the number call it a day. If she saus maybe, say no thanks, bye. Easy. **** all that bullceap****

 

[stevo]

You did good with your final message.
Leave it at that and move on.
When she initiates, plan a date with more body contact.
Whatever you do, don't chase.

I stopped running into the issue of kiss close and escalation on first dates when I changed my approach.
Now I take them bowling. Does wonders.
You see her in a competitive state
She's drinking, high fiving you
You're staring at her ass, grabbing her when you/she makes a strike
Too easy.
I haven't had a bowling first date and not kiss close.

So check what you're doing, if it's not working for you, change it and do something else.

Always remember:
If you want to see a woman again, kiss her on the first date.