Dealing with *******s

[Viper]

Yeah, there are a group of ******* seniors who like to threaten and harass me alot. For instance, at lunch, even when they knew I was going to sit at a certain table and they saw my backpack there, they just threw it like it was nothing and then when I come back with my food they say, "Man, what are you talking about?" Like they know nothing. These kids are what you would call 'gangsters', they wear baggy pants, usually white Ts, work out alot, act tough, most of them are black(Not being racist, just saying it like it is) and a few of them even smoke pot. One of these so called "Gangsters" I had a problem with this year and now that he's a senior, he has even more people backing him up. I know this post seems kind of rushed, but what should I do in this situation?(If you need more information I can post it.)

 

[greensabre]

well what did you actually do for them to **** with you. Are you a loser or somehting?

 

[Smooth Player 056]

Some might say to confront him, some might say to tell teachers, some might say to fight him.......I say start working out get on creatine...I think you have trouble dealing with them becfause of your self confidence. I think once your bigger and stronger people will respect you. That kid only picks on you cuz he knows he can kick your ass. If u wanna do something now about it...when he verbally attacks you in public....im sure ur wittier than him...make him look like a fool and he will try to resort to fighting you and be like..."are u that stupid man, once your pea brain runs out of things to say you gotta fight?"

- Smooth Player 056 -
Founder and Creator of the HSDJBC/ Contest
Founder of Ultimate HSDJ Technique

 

[AustinG]

i used to get ****ed with alot. i was 5"6 165 lbs all fat...

now im 6"0 175 at 15 and preatty well built id consider myself. im very ****y and confident becuase ive been boxing for 2 years and know grappling and some hopkido so i have no problem when it comes to fighting. i also fight dirty when im not fighting in the ring. ill hit somone with a bat,bottle,anything i can find. ill low blow,poke eye's. i dont fight for looks, i fight to win. but i suggest lifting weights and look for some kick boxing/boxing place to train at.

 

[danrizzy]

I often find this problem. I usually just walk away; they're not worth the effort. I sometimes use quick one liners if i'm feeling ****y (Don't enter the battle of the wits unarmed / sorry i don't fight girls). Only once have I got into a fight and i used a neutralising move to avaoid it getting messy. It's thanks to my tae kwon do lessons. Speaking of which, martial arts are a great way to get strong, confident and in shape.

 

[B-Lemond]

Why is everyone telling him to lift so he can fight this guy? First of all there is no point of fighting and second this guy's friends are all going to help him out even if you do by any change give him a beating. The best advice you could get is this.


READ 48 LAWS OF POWER.

After all you fighting this guy was only meant to give you power over him so he wouldn't pick on you, right?

Read this book to achieve power over him without getting hurt. Plus if you like history and psycology, you'll LOVE this book. IF not then, o well, what other choice do you have?

 

[OUTCRY]

Ummm, if this guy is truly a "gangster" dont mess wit em. Here in Tampa theres "gangsters" in our school and they dont mess round. Theyll jump your azz after school and youll be fkd up. I would really just try to get on their good side somehow. You dont gotta prove to yourself or anyone else that you can beat them up. 15 years from now when their livin in some shack addicted to drugs, youll have a great job.......and of course HOT CHICKS!!!
Of course, you should start workin out, read the Health And Fitness forum.

 

[08aisaac]

Well like I knew some real dumba$$es like that, and basically I just stopped caring what they did. They got bored.

 

[danrizzy]

Thats the way to do it. Don't give them any satisfaction.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Originally posted by OUTCRY
Ummm, if this guy is truly a "gangster" dont mess wit em. Here in Tampa theres "gangsters" in our school and they dont mess round. Theyll jump your azz after school and youll be fkd up. I would really just try to get on their good side somehow. You dont gotta prove to yourself or anyone else that you can beat them up. 15 years from now when their livin in some shack addicted to drugs, youll have a great job.......and of course HOT CHICKS!!!
Of course, you should start workin out, read the Health And Fitness forum.

Thankfully someone here has common sense. If you have a death wish start lifiting weights so you can fight this gangster who will beat the sh*t outta you along with his friends. Lifting to fight is gay anyway, i cant believe you people told him to lift just to fight. Come on now, dont be retarded.

 

[sinner]

ignoring those guys will be too wimpy & it won't stop them completely. i think confronting them is the best option for now. but tell me why are they picking on you? you should really work on your personality cause loners / losers / geeks are the ones who usually get picked.

 

[BMW]

Originally posted by Viper
Yeah, there are a group of ******* seniors who like to threaten and harass me alot. For instance, at lunch, even when they knew I was going to sit at a certain table and they saw my backpack there, they just threw it like it was nothing and then when I come back with my food they say, "Man, what are you talking about?" Like they know nothing. These kids are what you would call 'gangsters', they wear baggy pants, usually white Ts, work out alot, act tough, most of them are black(Not being racist, just saying it like it is) and a few of them even smoke pot. One of these so called "Gangsters" I had a problem with this year and now that he's a senior, he has even more people backing him up. I know this post seems kind of rushed, but what should I do in this situation?(If you need more information I can post it.)

take it from someone who is 15 years older than you....I been in the situation. These guys who are bothering you now will be either dead or in jail or working for minimum wage 5 years from now. You on the other hand can simply walk away from the situation for now. Take up Muay Thai and Brazilian Ju Jitsu. This is what I did in my life. I look at those same losers now that I can now easily beat up, but I don't even bother because life itself has taken revenge on them. While you will have a high paying job, nice car, and other such things.

 

[08aisaac]

Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Thankfully someone here has common sense. If you have a death wish start lifiting weights so you can fight this gangster who will beat the sh*t outta you along with his friends. Lifting to fight is gay anyway, i cant believe you people told him to lift just to fight. Come on now, dont be retarded.

Damn. Well yeah, that sounds just like a movie plot. lol.

Like Ricky was a young boy, he had a heart of stone.

You know the song. lol.

Yeah don't do that gay movie crap.

 

[Void]

If you can't hold your own I'd rag on you too. If you have a weakness, don't let anyone exploit it. I can fight most but when I know I can't I don't get them angry. I also use to box though...

 

[Jay-X]

Originally posted by Void
If you can't hold your own I'd rag on you too. If you have a weakness, don't let anyone exploit it. I can fight most but when I know I can't I don't get them angry. I also use to box though...

you must be a loser

 

[ohiofutballa]

I understand you guys arent encouraging him to get shot or jumped, BUT...If he just "ignores" this stuff he will become a doormat to other people...either become friends with them or become friends with alot more people...If your not going to make yourself stronger physically, at least make your self stronger socially.

 

[Fitch]

Re: Re: Dealing with *******s

Originally posted by BMW
take it from someone who is 15 years older than you....I been in the situation. These guys who are bothering you now will be either dead or in jail or working for minimum wage 5 years from now. You on the other hand can simply walk away from the situation for now. Take up Muay Thai and Brazilian Ju Jitsu. This is what I did in my life. I look at those same losers now that I can now easily beat up, but I don't even bother because life itself has taken revenge on them. While you will have a high paying job, nice car, and other such things.

Excellent advice. I've been there, too, Viper. I used BMW's method. They ended up failing a grade, and I moved up. I never saw them again.

Viper, things will get better. Hold your head up high. They are the losers, not you. You are so much better than them, and they envy you for it...

I wish you the best.

P.S. You do NOT have a bad voice. Find your confidence, you deserve it.

 

[Jay-X]

i was never been bullied in my life until some months ago. actually, i wasn't bullied for being a loser (i was of the most well-known guys in my school and i had lots of friends), but because we were on a trip with a senior class (i was a junior) and i was the only one they knew (some of them played basketball with me, some other soccer and some other were just people i had met at school formerly). my classmates wanted to sit in the back of the bus and i managed to take all the seats for them. then, at the half of the trip, the seniors asked me to exchange seats, because it wasn't right to let them stay near the teachers for all the trip long. actually, they were right, but i wanted to act cool and i refused. they got a bit angry, but got back to their seats. some hours later, they were making fun of everyone in the bus, while i was chatting with my classmates. they surrounded me and started singing a song to me and then giving heavy pats on my neck. i laughed it away, since it didn't hurt. so, they went on for all the trip, day after day. then, i realized it was really humiliating.

when the trip ended, 3 days after, i thought it was all over and i said 'well, who cares, i looked like a loser, but it's all over, nevermind'. i was wrong: a couple of days later, at school i noticed they were all around me, in front of the main gate and started singing. as soon as i felt a hand on my neck, i started reacting: one of these guys had his crotch kicked, another one had it grabbed, another one got smashed on the face and another was heavy hit in the throat.
they weren't hurt seriously, but they never tried to do it again. ok, i lost their friendship, but at least when we meet, they greet me with respect and would never do that again.
notice that these guys were all older, taller (they were all over 6', while i'm 5'9) and far heavier (i was skinny back then)...

 

[Ouzo]

Dude.

Make yourself something. Get into the gym. Work hard. Eat hard. Sleep hard. Start boxing and get built. Get large.

Back yourself up and use your frustration of these guys to motivate yourself.

 

[dannowillbookem]

just walk around like u have a pringles can for a penis and your not afraid to **** with anyone.

honestly these situations are more of who can walk around with their chest puffed up the biggest...just hold ur head high and when they insult u say **** you