dealing with parents?

[Cloudtopsun2100]

I am picking up this HB8 chick from her house for our 2nd date and I was wondering since her parents are kinda protective and will want to see me.... how should I treat them? They are conservative. Also is there one I should talk to more? Just need some input. thanks- I did pick her up for the first date and I could see they saw me as sort of a threat...its always the moms that dislike me....

 

[Dukester]

getting in good w/ the parents is a key factor. even if you fall apart w/ the chick, the impression you leave on the parents lasts awhile- esp w/ the mom. cuz the mom will be like- he was such a nice boy, why did you break up w/ him- to her daughter.

acting mature and capable of taking care of their daughter is good. you wanna bs w/ the dad, and "suck-up" to the mom. dont make it obvious tho, and just be yourself

 

[Cloudtopsun2100]

thanks for the advice man- I'll be sure to use it

 

[wcknightjr]

The key is SMILING when you're talking to the mom, and, I know it sounds strange, but ACT a little submissive towards the dad. This will make both of them see you as less of a threat, and will thus make them less suspicious of you. The last thing a dad wants is to send his daughter out with some ****y punk (in his eyes anyway). You have to use your DJ skills ON the date, but definitely leave them in the car when you go inside to talk to the folks.