Dealing with my ex...I'd appreciate some help!

[MMorgan21]

So I was dating a girl for a few months, it was awesome. Then she had to go travelling for 4 months. We broke it off before she left because she didnt want a man at home to worry about and wanted to see how it went when she came back. Unfortunately just before she left we had a big fall out.
While she was away we didnt have much contact but she told me she didn't want to have anything to do with me again.

She came home about a month ago and had missed me so ended up wanting to see me again. She said she doesnt want to get back together but when we meet up she always acts like we are and obviously still likes me! But in between each time she goes back to telling me she doesnt like me and wants me to leave her alone. She said I'm nice but too clingy (when I know I'm really ****ing not!) She's too stubborn to tell me why shes doing it, why she can't just forget about an argument that happened months ago or what I'm supposed to have done wrong. Its totally confusing and I'm always wondering if its over or if I'll see her again. I want to be with her! Advice on this one would be great...!

 

[LuisGarcia10]

Personally I would just move on, this will not end well. I seriously doubt shea going to wake up one day and decode to commit, shell just keep doing this, keep messing with your head, and in the mean time it will probably prevent you from meeting anyone else.
Plus, to be honest, why would you want to be with her anyway? She doesn't know what she wants, she's disrespecting you, and is messing you around, move on and find someone go does want to be with you and doesn't need to decide, I speak from experience here, even if you do get her back, shell end up dumping you again probably.
No contact is the solution here, delete her number, delete her Facebook and make it clear that you want nothing to do with her. See if she thinks you're too clingy then!

 

[Aaron B]

she's running game on you

she might be willing to have a relationship with you, but it will be on her terms, not yours

start over with another girl

 

[Sparky]

How old is she? If she's young then she's just mucking you around - move on.

If she's older then - she's still mucking you around, it's just the reasons might be more complicated. Move on.