Dealing with haters

[Blackdragon5095]

Seems like since I been putting my game up is bringing some haters along. Alot of these young guys are just stupid and immature. I'm in this career school with some little brat ( a guy ) trying to start stuff with me with his 2 friends. Lucky for me I have a nice big ring that will bust his skull wide open if he dares to fight me.
So since haters are part of the game how dose a DJ deal with them, I ketp reading this proverb trying to figure out how to do it or make it happen.

" A clever person turns great troubles into little ones and little ones into none at all "
Chinese Proverb

Any Help ??

 

[Smooth Player 056]

Basically means: when big troubling circumstances arise, dont fret, take it easy and figure out a way to make the situation less destructive. When small troubling circumstances arise, let them slide, forget about them....they are nothing in comparrison to other situations.

Personally I LOVE when AMOGS (Alpha Male of Group) trys to take me down verbally. I have spent so long reading up on Tyler Durdens AMOG tactics...I basically know what to say and do, in every situation to make them look like a fool.

Smooth Player 056

 

[Socialreject]

Easy, dominate them like everyone else ^^

Most of the time it pays off just to let things slide. Unless they openly insult you up to a point where you can no longer ignore it, or insult the women you are with.

Stay in your center, play it cool, relaxed, stay on top and show them you're not going anywhere, you're not impressed and they are basically not worth your time (you have better things to do remember?)

Btw: getting into fights is ungentlemen like behavior. If you MUST get physical, resolve the issue quickly and without making alot of noise or a big scene/mess.

 

[Neoscarecrue]

become alpha and he'll just bow down to your supreme social standing

 

[biker_gixxer]

Easy, dominate them like everyone else

Exactly.

Question for you...What do you mean by 'trying to start stuff with his 2 friends'?

Are they getting in your face and trying to start a fight, or saying stuff behind your back like a bunch of little school girls?

 

[Blackdragon5095]

Today I faced those a$$holes. Went like this. I told him how he was saying crap about me and needs to grow up and he gose on about he was just playing. His friends say they were too and acting like they want to be cool. But Carlos ( the real hater ) still giving me those I don't like you looks or I'm a jealous little girl look. l'll see what he dose.

Another question ?? why I'm thinking about this Carlos guy so much ?? I'm slowly trying to let it go. He just a immature wanna be thug.

And no they aren't in my face only Carlos is the 1 talking crap. Been talking crap since the first day he saw me.

 

[biker_gixxer]

So you faced them and all they said was 'we were just kidding'? Little children, that's all you are dealing with. If they see that they are getting under your skin, they will keep at it bro. Want to piss them off or bother the crap out of them like they are doing to you? Ignore them, nothing they say can bother you, they are beneath you, treat them as such.

 

[Bradshaw]

Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Personally I LOVE when AMOGS (Alpha Male of Group) trys to take me down verbally. I have spent so long reading up on Tyler Durdens AMOG tactics...I basically know what to say and do, in every situation to make them look like a fool.

This is true. Once you get the skill to deal with AMOG's, you will actually look forward to tooling them in front of a crowd. Here is a primer on the best stuff TylerDurden has come up with.

http://www.bristollair.com/outergame/techniques/tactics/amogtactics/

 

[Iamnotacrook]

Originally posted by Blackdragon5095
why I'm thinking about this Carlos guy so much ?? I'm slowly trying to let it go. He just a immature wanna be thug.

Sometimes, a wannabe thug(like myself) will come into contact with a player who's dating a girl he cares about. Regardless of how thugged out he is, he still might grow to care about a girl. This is the substance for turning your life around. Before I was a player-hater, I was a wanna-be player. It was the hate for that particular player that I realized... hey dude, you're a piece of trash who deserves to be killed.

Well, I've toned it down a bit, but I will never lie to a girl about exclusivity and use her, lest my throat be cut by the just.

and yes, I will still break bones and just generally beat the **** out of you for being a player. I will make you ****ing suffer.

hate at it's purest form.

mark my words, players deserve to be hated... just like killers, rapists, child molestors, and anyone else who hurts another person.

if you get maimed or killed, you have only yourself to blame.

not the people on this site who taught you how to be an even better user, liar, and manipulator.

that is all.

 

[Bradshaw]

Originally posted by Iamnotacrook
Sometimes, a wannabe thug(like myself) will come into contact with a player who's dating a girl he cares about. Regardless of how thugged out he is, he still might grow to care about a girl. This is the substance for turning your life around. Before I was a player-hater, I was a wanna-be player. It was the hate for that particular player that I realized... hey dude, you're a piece of trash who deserves to be killed.

Well, I've toned it down a bit, but I will never lie to a girl about exclusivity and use her, lest my throat be cut by the just.

and yes, I will still break bones and just generally beat the **** out of you for being a player. I will make you ****ing suffer.

hate at it's purest form.

mark my words, players deserve to be hated... just like killers, rapists, child molestors, and anyone else who hurts another person.

if you get maimed or killed, you have only yourself to blame.

not the people on this site who taught you how to be an even better user, liar, and manipulator.

that is all.

^^^^^
Captain-save-a-ho to the rescue! :cheer:

 

[Iamnotacrook]

You're mother****ing right. Wanna test some **** like that? I wouldn't advise it. Justice inspires people to do some crazy ****. I'll slip something into your drink and when you wake up with your nuts stapled to a bench and some Jesus freaks beating your genitals with the claw of a hammer, you'll wish you hadn't pissed me off.

 

[Bradshaw]

Originally posted by Iamnotacrook
You're mother****ing right. Wanna test some **** like that? I wouldn't advise it. Justice inspires people to do some crazy ****. I'll slip something into your drink and when you wake up with your nuts stapled to a bench and some Jesus freaks beating your genitals with the claw of a hammer, you'll wish you hadn't pissed me off.

Captain save a ho

 

[Iamnotacrook]

^^^ Yeah, go on with that lying sexist ****, any girl who gives herself to you is a stupid slut. So there you have it.

 

[Bradshaw]

Originally posted by Iamnotacrook
^^^ Yeah, go on with that lying sexist ****, any girl who gives herself to you is a stupid slut. So there you have it.

You just assume that the 'player' lied to her... and she didn't like it. The reality of the situation is that the girl that you tried to save probably was only attracted to this 'player' because he was unattainable and treated her poorly. She would cry on your shoulder and say "oh, he was so mean to me..." and your 'I-must-save-this-girl' instincts kicked in.

What are you really saving her from?

She is just going to be attracted to the next 'player' who treats her poorly. Why do you need to rescue damaged girls? I'll bet that if you look into your past, you have tried to 'save' many girls. You are only attracted to girls who push you away and go for the abusive guy. (I am not trying to be mean, but I know SOOOO many guys like this) This isn't a problem with the 'players' of the world, but with you.

 

[qweretyuiopas]

This whole thread :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

 

[Iamnotacrook]

Originally posted by Bradshaw
You just assume that the 'player' lied to her... and she didn't like it. The reality of the situation is that the girl that you tried to save probably was only attracted to this 'player' because he was unattainable and treated her poorly. She would cry on your shoulder and say "oh, he was so mean to me..." and your 'I-must-save-this-girl' instincts kicked in.

What are you really saving her from?

She is just going to be attracted to the next 'player' who treats her poorly. Why do you need to rescue damaged girls? I'll bet that if you look into your past, you have tried to 'save' many girls. You are only attracted to girls who push you away and go for the abusive guy. (I am not trying to be mean, but I know SOOOO many guys like this) This isn't a problem with the 'players' of the world, but with you.

That's a good argument, I hadn't thought of it that way...

However, that doesn't make her any less stupid or less slutty...

and it doesn't make you any less dead...

so watch your ****'n mouth.

 

[Blackdragon5095]

WHAT IN THE WORLD !!!!!! this is about HATERS not about PLAYERS !!!!
First I have men who are jealous because they are AFC and are confused about getting girls. I been in this career school for 2 months and a half and have some girls talking to me and they really don't got girls talking to them and they don't understand women.
Second I feel great about who I'm and what I look like, the problem with this world is everyone wants to be someone else when they should just be their selfs,
Third I read alot, I read books on women , (soon Emotional Intelligence), Leadership, Conversation, How to be funny and many many more. I'm gonna take your advice guys and ignore these idoits. Carlos is a wuss. To sacred to face me and fix his problems like a man. Just another stupid kid you will see on the street trying to act like a thug and as soon as your ready to kick some ass he starts saying " I'm joking I'm joking dude". Why was I so worried about this kid in the first place I don't know.

Now as to this player crap. MAKE A NEW TOPIC AND TALK ABOUT PLAYERS THEIR AND YOUR STUPID FLAME WAR. DON"T HAVE YOUR STUPID LITTLE FLAME WAR ABOUT PLAYERS IN THIS TREAD. I COME HERE TO LEARN AND BE A BETTER PERSON AND TO BECOME MORE OF A MAN. NOT TO BE SOME LOSER WHO RUNS AROUND ON FORUMS TALKING TRASH LIKE I'M THE BADDEST THUG AROUND AND ACTING TOUGH. IF YOU LIKE TO TALK TRASH BE MY GUSSE AND DO IT SOME WHERE ELSE.

I will give a update if these stupid kids still wanna try to start something thank you for the advice and for this flame war. TAKE IT SOMEWHERE ELSE !!!!!!!

 

[Blackdragon5095]

"Iamnotacrook

Sometimes, a wannabe thug(like myself) will come into contact with a player who's dating a girl he cares about. Regardless of how thugged out he is, he still might grow to care about a girl. This is the substance for turning your life around. Before I was a player-hater, I was a wanna-be player. It was the hate for that particular player that I realized... hey dude, you're a piece of trash who deserves to be killed.

Well, I've toned it down a bit, but I will never lie to a girl about exclusivity and use her, lest my throat be cut by the just.

and yes, I will still break bones and just generally beat the **** out of you for being a player. I will make you ****ing suffer."


DId I ever say I was a player. No ?? I have people who are jealous of me because they have nothing else to do in their life.

"Bradshaw

Captain-save-a-ho to the rescue!"

LMAO funny funny man.


"Iamnotacrook

That's a good argument, I hadn't thought of it that way...

However, that doesn't make her any less stupid or less slutty...

and it doesn't make you any less dead...

so watch your ****'n mouth"

Look man news flash. I don't know why the player thing is in here. Me personally I hope all this stuff I do with women will help me find a good g/f or even wife ( I'm not sure about marriage cause I don't like how the divorce is rising ).
Now if you can't stand pimps, macks, players, thugs or Whatever then make a topic like this

IF ANYBODY HURTS A GIRL L"LL GOTTA HURT YOU

Then you can fight all those players. They sure give you a priece of thier mind. Even tell you how you can't stop them because you don't live near them. But in this topic do you notice how we are talking about messed up people with no lifes Or people who are 20 or even 30 years old and still act like their 14 running around acting hard ??? So next time you post something please please read the topic and the post before you come running in like superman trying to save the day. Thank you

 

[Bloke]

Originally posted by Iamnotacrook
That's a good argument, I hadn't thought of it that way...

so watch your ****'n mouth.

Or you'll do what *****?

 

[Blue Phoenix]

Originally posted by Blackdragon5095
Seems like since I been putting my game up is bringing some haters along. Alot of these young guys are just stupid and immature. I'm in this career school with some little brat ( a guy ) trying to start stuff with me with his 2 friends. Lucky for me I have a nice big ring that will bust his skull wide open if he dares to fight me.

" A clever person turns great troubles into little ones and little ones into none at all "
Chinese Proverb

Any Help ??

Yeah. I went to a club and I saw a guy trying to game a girl. She was pretty disgusting! She was making some gestures for him to go away and she was looking to the opposite side of this guy. Her B!tch shield was 100% up. Funny thing, she was dressed all sexy with a mini skirt.