Dealing with girls that THINK its okay to hit..

[Chev.Chelios]

Weird topic right.. recap on this whole year so far, Iv been hit by 4 cvnts..
thats right, 4 different nights iv been assaulted by FOUR goddamn woman.
Not so much as other guys, I respect guys that are out at the bars even if
they try to tool me, obviously avoid dudes that are ignorent enough to go
out looking for fights rather then get girls, tons in my city...

Some woman on the other hand just dont give a fvck, serously..
They know they can act however they want and the law will always back them up.
REALLLY PISSES ME THE FVCK OFF. You can see it in there eyes as well.
The i get to do whatever i want and if you touch me there will be 100 of my
chode orbtirs after you..

My fault or theirs?
I have big pride and ego, sort of a sticking point im trying to sort out, when to be humble, when to not coward down.. Im part mexican so that probably doesnt help, the worst cases iv seen of blind reactiveness are these cholo idiots that swirm eastern LA, they turn to cowardly violence at a whim and always end up in jail, super chodelike, super f@ggot, i sort of have those tendencies im trying to rise above LOL

whenever someone talks cvnty sh!t i have a habit of getting butthurt quick and like to get in there face..
and troll, provoke them to violence, kind of like that scene on fightclub where
tyler durden gets that fat guy in the basement to beat the **** out of him while
he laughs hystericaly ROFL

okay so first time.. around january
Brutal breakup with the ex, spent the whole night yelling and screaming at
each other and she starts punching me in the face, just like durden, i egg her
on MORE MORE MORE HAHAHHH DO IT AGAIN PLZ LOL that didnt even hurt!
hahahaah you suck!!! and it made her quit, she just stared at me like omg chev ur crazy,
Scratch marks all over my face, bleeding, bruised up, i DID NOT hit her back.
If i did i would be in ****ing jail, the neighbors could of heard the commotion and
again the cops would come, probably blame me anyway and go to jail..

2nd time.. around june
my wing opens these fat chicks in front luckys, bar here in downtown spokane..
just as a simple warmup, Im standing behind this moutherfcker not saying anything
not interested at all in these cvnts, and the short fat girls points at me and starts
getting pissed, wtf are you standing there looking at us like that!!!!! WOLY SHT
Mind=blown, start flipping her some sh!t back, shut your mouth b!tch
(im really not proud of this one) dur dur dur ugly fatty leave me alone,

B!tch starts getting in my face and again, i do the tyler durden thing,
hit me lololol do it i dont give a f!ck hit me cvnt do it lol, and usaully
they back down but this time the fatty starts swinging hahahaha
ended up with a bloody nose, her friend was trying to shove me in the
street with cars driving by fast as ****, almost got killed!!
to this day i havnt met any other ev!l cvnts as those, this
year iv approached hundreds of girls and those take the cake.
All the dudes where just standing around starring at this whole
sh!t show not doing sh!t, and i knew if i would have done anything
back, shove, kick, or punch i wouldve got my ass beaten.
EVEN THOUGH THESE B1TCHS WERE COMING AT ME LIKE
FRIGGIN MEN. they kept telling me, dude just leave, gtfo, even
id i did these phychos wouldve followed me,

(I KNOW TROLLING PEOPLE LIKE THAT ISNT COOL AND I PROBABLY
DESERVED IT BE ACTING LIKE A DOUCHE BUT GUYS YOU HAVE TO KNOW)

We men live in a society were if a woman attacks you, theyres really nothing you
can do about it? And sure yea, call the cops, (Heyyyy umm officers, im in front of this
bar and these fattys are attacking me, ummm any halp? Plz?) they LOL THEIR AZZ OFF.
Then i would have to punch one out, self defence and my azz still probably goes to jail..

3rd time.. around december
ME and wing in seattle, hit up the bar before we go back to spokane, the first approach
i do is again, fat chick sitting at the bar all tipsy with her hot friend, i open, start vibing and
trying to get a nut before i head home, the girl gets jealous im hitting on her friend and
shoves me full force with her strong fat arms into a group of people behind me,
DUDE... WHAT THE FVCK.. sometimes these chicks just need to be laid out on there ass.
treating anyone like that, again, the vulture look in her eye, (omg, im a girl i do whatever i want, touch me and you go to jail, f!ggot) "PILNEFKJA<WKHEF:ILAEF: IUGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

4th TIIMEEE
WING and me in spokane again, happened a couple weeks ago at the globe(sort of
a club bar place that gets super packed) HOT AZZ blonde at bar, again with ugly friend..
I roll up, YOU!.. the **** are you? Pick her up off the ground and gave her the helicopter,
trying to go for the instant make out, she's laughing and like omg chev, weeeee
and who comes in to fvck **** up.. asain cvnt, GET YOUR HANDS OFF HER WTF
ARE YOU DOING, i start yelling HEY GET THE FVCK BACK THIS IS MY GIRL B!TCH
shes clawing at my arms to let go of her, blonde is just laughing
obviously into me, i yell quick give me your number before she drags you away!
she says is verbally but ended forgot and asain cvnt drags her away, IM P!SSED
Really was pathetic how desperate this fatty is to be so attached at ruining her hot friends fun,
b!tch hit me in the side of the head because i was trying to cut her out of our interaction...

The jest of what im asking is how the hell do you be an alpha guy in society, when
woman can openly assault you like and get away with it, I know the answer that
everybody will say over and over again,

"just be a cool guy, dont provoke people like that."
Well dip sh!t if being a cool guy that doesnt speak up or
cause trouble with pathetic stupid people.. who acts like that?
The masses of submissive, scared sh!tless wallflowers and chodes
that hang out in the bars here on the weekend, hundreds of dudes
that stand just stand there with a blank look on there face, maybe say one or two words
the whole n!ght. and they never will get laid, because they are f@ggots.

Im aware of my own pride/ego issues antagonizing and trolling people and im just trying to find a happy medium of when to stick up for yourself, and when to not care. Iv seen so much disrespect from
woman treating men like little boy bags of sh!t..
you guys can see im clearly bitter, are very angry
at the situation we are going through these days.

PS: Im still pretty new to game still, lots of things to learn so dont judge lol
My goal is to just go out and not being scared of confrontation and people
tooling me, Been a big sticking point my whole life, always been bullied..
picked out by adults and ruthlessly thrashed on for no reason, basicley
just got my ass kicked a whole lot growing up, so alot of pain bodys
and issues emotionaly im trying to get sorted out, game is friggin tough to learn.
anyways kind of wacky thread, would appreciate any advice thanks!
_chev

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Bro, you have to know how to talk. I can kill someone and convince the cops that it was self defense even if I threw the first punch (I don't though). Those chicks who tried to push you in the street? I'd have socked them in the face. Cops come? They were gonna kill me, officer. I don't want to die. But the difference between me and you is that I'd have self control and discipline to not egg them on. All I would have told them was "I'm not above beating a woman who tries to hurt me. You want to act like a man, I'll treat you like one". The time where your ex was hitting you, I prolly would have grabbed her arms and pinned her to a wall and remained calm or put my foot behind her knee and lowered her to the ground and pinned her arms above her head (while calm). Then told her that this was her one and only warning and that if she hits me again I'm divorcing her. The third chick I'd have been like "lose some weight fatty, maybe then you'll get more attention" then just start making fat jokes or some ****, I hate fat people. The last chick I'd have been like "woah no need to get jealous of your friend, she's enjoying it why would you want to ruin that?" Then prolly continued spinning and making out with her and ignored the fat chick. The best way too piss a girl off is to blatantly ignore them. But you said she tried hitting you on the head, I'd have probably shoved her and taken the **** that people would have given me. But then again I wouldn't have let go of the hotty.

 

[marmel75]

They hit you because they don't fear the consequences. If you were a big, muscular dude who looked like he could snap them like a twig, they would never even think of trying that.

So the answer to the question is to not come across as a guy who they can do that to.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Bro, idc if it's a girl or boy. You gotta defend yourself. I'm not telling you to punch them in the face but stand your ground as a man.

 

[sazc]

wow..... you need a serious change of venue. seems like the places you go contain very aggressive females!

 

[Chev.Chelios]

Yup venues here are garbage.. small town, most the chicks that go out every weekend are regulars whove been ran through pretty good by sh!t loads of dudes.. tons of people know my ex.. have to hear about her all the time and moutherfckers even send her snapchats of me its that pathetic and small, very few HOT GIRLS, just making the best out of my situation.

Also another side note, been going out as much i can while its busy out throwing myself back into the game after a 3 year ltr engagement ended so pretty much state is always at 2/10.. gotten so good at gaming with crushed state i go home most of the nights feeling awesome.
(BRRRUUTTAALLL BREAKUP)

Left me with no confidence, anger, bitterness, and of course people sense that. No back bone, i let people tool me and shy away very easy,

Dude fck yeah writing this out already makes me feel better, rarely write posts or journal, have had TONS of adventures being back in the game already, using the negative energy as motivation to bust my azz learning this stuff its very difficult learning game, VERY DIFFICULT.

Anyone having ex issues needs to hit the ground running with this sh!t and go full on gangster..

Things to work on..

Cultivate a nice zen state of mind becoming unreactive to peoples bullsht negativity, it sure is abundant when your out trying to.pull hot ch!cks does anyone else experience th!s sht? I cant be the only one, going out to the bars at night time is fcking stressful!! So many chodes its unbelievable.. every hot girl has hordes of orbitors trailing there every foot step, approaching them in a club is a mortal sin, of course im still learning but getting pretty. Frustrated lol

 

[Chev.Chelios]

Bro, you have to know how to talk. I can kill someone and convince the cops that it was self defense even if I threw the first punch (I don't though). Those chicks who tried to push you in the street? I'd have socked them in the face. Cops come? They were gonna kill me, officer. I don't want to die. But the difference between me and you is that I'd have self control and discipline to not egg them on. All I would have told them was "I'm not above beating a woman who tries to hurt me. You want to act like a man, I'll treat you like one". The time where your ex was hitting you, I prolly would have grabbed her arms and pinned her to a wall and remained calm or put my foot behind her knee and lowered her to the ground and pinned her arms above her head (while calm). Then told her that this was her one and only warning and that if she hits me again I'm divorcing her. The third chick I'd have been like "lose some weight fatty, maybe then you'll get more attention" then just start making fat jokes or some ****, I hate fat people. The last chick I'd have been like "woah no need to get jealous of your friend, she's enjoying it why would you want to ruin that?" Then prolly continued spinning and making out with her and ignored the fat chick. The best way too piss a girl off is to blatantly ignore them. But you said she tried hitting you on the head, I'd have probably shoved her and taken the **** that people would have given me. But then again I wouldn't have let go of the hotty.

Hahaha woly sht, yeah i know bro, smacking a girl in front of a crowded bar would of gotten my ass punmeled by the hordes of chodes that wallflower these places, fatty or not.. even the bouncer just sat there like a dumb fck, i learned the lesson of not letting your ego get involved and stop trolling needlessly, fatty gives you **** simply ignore and DONT LET THE SHT EMOTIONS RUIN YOUR NIGHT,

... the principle is what im wondering about, i.know i was being a douche, but for a fatty to get angry and start punching some random person and getting away with it just makes me wonder how bad society has really gotten.. if i would have blasted the fatty accords the jaw out of self defence i know i sure would of been in deep sh!t, these btches stand behind the law and do whatever the fck they want, not trying to rant butthurt just want solutions lol(bring masculinity back into society.. all men are pvssys cough cough**)

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Cultivate a nice zen state of mind becoming unreactive to peoples bullsht negativity, it sure is abundant when your out trying to.pull hot ch!cks does anyone else experience th!s sht? I cant be the only one, going out to the bars at night time is fcking stressful!! So many chodes its unbelievable.. every hot girl has hordes of orbitors trailing there every foot step, approaching them in a club is a mortal sin, of course im still learning but getting pretty. Frustrated lol

I've taken to standing with dudes who aren't doing circles round the club like vultures.


There's always a spot or two where there are guys, usually bigger dudes just standing off to one side or by a bar and just surveying the landscape. I'll grab myself a beer and do the same. Do this and there will always be females who come over and dance by you and try to get your attention (and get away from the thirsty orbiters). You're not going to offend anyone by doing this and you're not chasing women round like nearly every other schmuck in the joint. It's real easy to dominate in a club - basically by doing nothing; because every other t0sser in there is acting like it's fcking prom night or something.

I might make the odd excursion on the dancefloor, but again, largely mind my own business and get down to the tunes until some cheeky tries to get my attention. Otherwise I'll just bop along in my own little spot. Somewhere between the bar and dancefloor is usually optimum, I find.

And always remember, 'gangsters don't dance, we boogie'....

 

[ThisNThat]

They hit you because they don't fear the consequences. If you were a big, muscular dude who looked like he could snap them like a twig, they would never even think of trying that.

So the answer to the question is to not come across as a guy who they can do that to.

Or, just stay away from those venues altogether.

 

[backseatjuan]

I never had such an experience. I don't know what the fak is happening to you, either you acting wrong, look offensive, talk offensive, or less likely something is seriously faked up with your venue.

 

[Chev.Chelios]

Li

I never had such an experience. I don't know what the fak is happening to you, either you acting wrong, look offensive, talk offensive, or less likely something is seriously faked up with your venue.

Little bit of both.. hahahaha

I don't care what anyone says, if your not hustling meeting new people, sticking your ****ing face in sets and leading good luck getting any results.