Dealing with girlfriend's sexual history

[dietzcoi]

Some people think it is fine but I personally would not want a GF who has fukked a bunch of guys I know, and who are still in the area.

Think about it, you walk down the street with her and a bunch of guys snicker behind your back...

Talk about being AFC, taking other men's rejects as your GF!

Now, if she had a few LTRs in her past, that would not be so bad, but still......

Dietzcoi

 

[CLOONEY]

I personally would not date a girl who had slept with so many people.

Although I know a girl who has slept with over 30, she is only 22, but has now had a boyfriend for years and years, she is a great girlfriend to him, and totally faithful. Some people just go through things in life, (even if that be growing up and immaturity) and cant deal with it. Everyone has their reasons for the way they act, so its hard to judge and automatically call her a hor.

Knowing people who had pounded her would also get to me.

However all this is irrelevant. If the relationship is good, then u got to try get over this.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Clooney, what does your relation to a girl have to do with her 'hor' status? Hors are mothers, daughters, sisters, friends, some are shy and quiet, some are boisterous, and some are kind and unselfish (rarely) and yes, some are loyal to one pimp - but only for a season!!!

Regardless, a 'hor' status is based on what a hor does and not based on what or how you think of her! And it doesn't matter if you know the guys that pimped her - your knowing their names doesn't make her condition what it is - a hor! You have just personalized it because it makes you think of what and who she really is on a 'personal' level!!

 

[CLOONEY]

Yes, I know what you mean. I am not saying the girl I know is NOT a hor. Infact I think what she has done sexually is repulsive. However, I am simply stating that some things do change. Sometimes the girl was young and then grows up and realises what she really wants in life. His girlfriend, if the relationship is good, could make him a happy man for a long time if he moves past this bump, no matter how many guys she has slept with.

However, I am gathering they are both young and the relationship is pretty new.

 

[Oxide]

wow puerto, did u move in the ghetto since last time we talked?


A girl's past is a girl's past. Your past is your past.. simple.. I've had ons with girls who i know been active... they would tell me how great i am and try to get the number out.. well my answer always was "dont worry about it".. i dont give a fukk who slept with her.. neither do i really wanna know, all that matters is that im fukking her brains out right now!

 

[dietzcoi]

Oxide, it seems there are two different issues here

1. Does it bother you if the girl you are currently fukking had a lot of sexual partners... obviously not

2. Would it bother you if your LTR GF or WIFE had fukked a lot of guys, specifically all the guys who live on your block... now that should be a different story.

I cannot imagine being the last guy on the block to fukk her, and being the chump that keeps her after all the others rejected her. Don't you see how that would make you a chump in everybodies eyes? If you don't care if you are a chump or not, that is your business, but then you wouldn't be coming to this site, would you?

Dietzcoi

 

[squirrels]

I wonder if "why" would be a valid question here.

As in "WHY is she banging all these men?" Is she doing it because she's a sexually liberated female who's not afraid to act on her desires (like a lot of the DJs here)? Is she doing it for validation, to make herself feel like she's worthwhile to guys? Is she doing it because she's reckless and rebellious and using it as a form of life-suicide, like other people use drugs? Is she just a dirt-stupid bimbo who's an easy lay?

If she's clean, and she's not getting around for the wrong reasons, I don't know if it should really be an issue.

 

[entropy]

The Liberated Women is a myth.

I guess the definition of a liberated women, is one who spreads her legs often?

The sexes are not equal.

Does this justify males going around screwing their brains out?
Certainly not. It's just males are acting on biologicial impulse, and I would argue, over the last 30 years because women have become "liberated" have been able to indulge in this behavior more than ever before.

Go look at your local internet dating service. From my own experience, it contains lots of liberated women.

For example.......

Heathercutiepie

2 kids

"I just want a nice guy who doesn't play head games!!"

 

[Oxide]

Cmon, really, you are acting like EVERYONE fukked her and you got in line last... it seems like just because she got around..or reached a certain number, she is a hoe, or not good anymore? so what is this number? i know 12 is high, so 3? 2? 0?

We live in a sexually active world... the girl im seeing had sex with another guy a night before she met me.. i know him.. i certanly dont think of him when she is riding me..

wife? long term? it seems you guys arent as worried about her ****ing around before, as with other GUYS chucklin at you... well, what the fvck, that's a different issue alltogether..

keep your head up, and enjoy the moment, instead of worrying some other guys who are probably ****ing their hands at the moment.

 

[Dirtheart]

Well, promiscuity is a big turn off for me personally and I don't go for women who sleep around. Sure, it narrows the field, but I believe that I deserve better.

I would never date a girl if I knew she had slept with people I know, because that would just make me feel like name in a list or another meaningless "john" in a long line. That can be very degrading, so if it was me, I'd next her in an instant and look for someone with more value and more deserving of my time.

You cannot expect every girl you date to be a virgin, but at the same time, your own self-worth and value should be more important to you than any girl. But that's just my opinion and I would guess that I speak for a minority. It really depends on how high you set your standards and how much you value yourself.

 

[Spike_the_cowboy]

Any of you ever hear of STD's !?



Really now, stay away from ho's!

 

[entropy]

exactly

Who cares how many guys she's slept with?

At least your not f**king your hand right?

Your getting some and thats all that matters.
Who cares that this girl has seen more penises than a public urinal???

And to highlight my "GETTING SOME" point....



http://story.news.yahoo.com/news?tmpl=story&cid=541&e=2&u=/ap/syphilis_resistance

http://www.threesixes.com/fox.jpg

 

[Spike_the_cowboy]

Your getting some and thats all that matters.

No offence or anything, but thats lame.

 

[entropy]

spike I know your not that dense.

My post oozed sarcasm. Did you follow my link partner?

 

[Oxide]

that's one helluva picture, i think ill make it my desktop background...


Alright, i thought about it a bit more.. for ONS, it doesnt matter really, as long as u are using condoms...

As for LTR.. ever hear of STD checking? if she ****ed around, but is clean, i dont see a problem.. as long as you are the only one she dreams about now.

 

[Spike_the_cowboy]

Originally posted by entropy
My post oozed sarcasm.

Ditto, entropy. Hense the rolleyes (sarcasm) smilie on my last post. I didn't read all of the links, but I got your point nontheless. You'll have to excuse my dry sense of humor today - I'm tired.




Back on topic -->

 

[adude]

I personally don't want to have a long term relationship with these American sluts, yes SLUTS, a girl sleeping with one man or 30 before marriage is a slut doesn't make a difference at the end of the day shes a *****, fukable by any guy before someone marries that slut. I feel sorry for u peeps cos u will never get a pure girl, just those sluts and *****s spreading there legs.

Thats why i specifically search out those American sluts to have one night stands with i **** as many of them as i can, before i go off to my native country and marry a virgin (cultural difference), see girls in my country don't sleep around with anybody there they have morals and values, (ah now thats a real girl) and they are damn hot. In a way i am damn lucky and in a win win situation i know i can **** those American sluts here who bare all and spread there legs for anyone, i am taking care of my sexual desires by using these girls before i find a virgin girl in my country and marry her.

By the way some of u peeps will marry oneday and have a wife whos been fuked by a dozen guys before she married u, and who live in the area, so in other words all of those guys really fuked and slept with ur wife, and who will boast about it Now how does that feel??

 

[Oxide]

wow adude, just wow.. did you even read what you were writing?


Ok, so if purity is so great and honored in your 'awesome' country (wherever the fukk that is) , then what the fukk are you doing whoring around in USA? Stay in your country and play with yourself untill you get married.. you are no better than a girl who is sleeping around.. just because society isnt as strict about guy's fuking around doesnt mean you are better...

yeah, i feel really bad about myself now that i read your post.. you know what i will do? go to your counrty, and fukk every hot girl, that way you are gonna shut the fukk up.. thanks.

 

[adude]

ur a fuking **** sucker.....

and i will fuk all the sluts in America,ur sisters,mothers are all *****s i am sure one of my friend would be fuking ur mother or ur sister right now, fuking sluts only good for fuking and giving head, the women in this country are a disgrace.

 

[adude]

if u have a mother or a sister Oxide i will take her with me to my country cos we need *****s and prostitutes over there and i will pay good money for her services, call me.