Dash Riprock
Master Don Juan
Interesting post:
These are the best two answers in this thread:
1- @DidIDoThat Quick and simple: "if you can take her that easily, shes not worth my time, enjoy" make sure she's listening which will probably make her question herself and rejecting the guy to save looking like a hoe, and you've kept your pride and walked away. You win
2- @Masculinity The other dude started trying to put me down making comments about how he was "better looking" than me, etc. I told him "step back from my girl, dude" I'm a firm tone. He became aggressive and I gave him a final warning to back up, as I stood face to face with him. I then whispered into my plate's ear "tell me you're not attracted to me and I'll walk away from you right now." She smiled and stayed quiet. She left with me and later in the night, confessed to how much she liked that I stood my ground and how "masculine" it was.
1- This is the answer/plan to go with if you had causal interest in someone you just started chatting up. Basically, IDGAF. Take her if she's that easy and the key is she needs to hear it. It creates a lot of discomfort for both of them and you walk away smiling or/and laughing.
2- It's not in my DNA to give up easily or back down from a competition especially if some douche is trying to c*ockblock me or "take" my quarry. I would employ #2 if I had significant interest in the girl and this event occurred. Keep in mind, even if you're smaller, an assertive tone and body language can scare away most pursuers, as most guys don't know how to fight. I do, and I'm not the biggest of guys (5'9/175#). BTW, If you cannot throw hands (fight), at any age, I would learn how to. It could save your life and maybe some embarrassment at some point too. But, I do have confidence and presence and know when/how to use it. I would also ask her if she wanted me to leave and stay with the "new" guy loud enough so all could hear. Her answer will tell you everything you need to know and will be a good message for the new guy. If she says, you both can stay or something similar, simply say, "I'm sorry, I just don't share well. Plus, you two seem good for each other. Nice meeting you though." and casually walk away. She may chase. Always IDGAF and Abundance Mentality.
A couple thoughts on OPs situation:
I would bet lots of $$$ that this guy, despite some posts here claiming he's alpha, DJ, whatever, bats well below .200 on this strategy: Walking up to a girl he doesn't know and asks for her number, despite how "tall" and "good looking" he is. Look, I've been around the block and this a poor strategy. Rapport, communication, and especially connection are simply more important to women than just "looks." Looks are a good start but not the be-all-end-all.
I'd be 90% sure he goes in that casino a lot and has chatted her up before and finally got up the ballz to ask her out.
IF SHE is the type to immediately give out her number to every pretty boy she sees and who asks for it in the first 15 seconds, you dodged a HUGE bullet and waste of time.
Generally, the best strategy is always to lead with your best self, and try to build a connection (but don't linger or over stay your welcome!!). When you see the opening, go for the number close and get the f*uck out.
Good luck.
~Dash
These are the best two answers in this thread:
1- @DidIDoThat Quick and simple: "if you can take her that easily, shes not worth my time, enjoy" make sure she's listening which will probably make her question herself and rejecting the guy to save looking like a hoe, and you've kept your pride and walked away. You win
2- @Masculinity The other dude started trying to put me down making comments about how he was "better looking" than me, etc. I told him "step back from my girl, dude" I'm a firm tone. He became aggressive and I gave him a final warning to back up, as I stood face to face with him. I then whispered into my plate's ear "tell me you're not attracted to me and I'll walk away from you right now." She smiled and stayed quiet. She left with me and later in the night, confessed to how much she liked that I stood my ground and how "masculine" it was.
1- This is the answer/plan to go with if you had causal interest in someone you just started chatting up. Basically, IDGAF. Take her if she's that easy and the key is she needs to hear it. It creates a lot of discomfort for both of them and you walk away smiling or/and laughing.
2- It's not in my DNA to give up easily or back down from a competition especially if some douche is trying to c*ockblock me or "take" my quarry. I would employ #2 if I had significant interest in the girl and this event occurred. Keep in mind, even if you're smaller, an assertive tone and body language can scare away most pursuers, as most guys don't know how to fight. I do, and I'm not the biggest of guys (5'9/175#). BTW, If you cannot throw hands (fight), at any age, I would learn how to. It could save your life and maybe some embarrassment at some point too. But, I do have confidence and presence and know when/how to use it. I would also ask her if she wanted me to leave and stay with the "new" guy loud enough so all could hear. Her answer will tell you everything you need to know and will be a good message for the new guy. If she says, you both can stay or something similar, simply say, "I'm sorry, I just don't share well. Plus, you two seem good for each other. Nice meeting you though." and casually walk away. She may chase. Always IDGAF and Abundance Mentality.
A couple thoughts on OPs situation:
I would bet lots of $$$ that this guy, despite some posts here claiming he's alpha, DJ, whatever, bats well below .200 on this strategy: Walking up to a girl he doesn't know and asks for her number, despite how "tall" and "good looking" he is. Look, I've been around the block and this a poor strategy. Rapport, communication, and especially connection are simply more important to women than just "looks." Looks are a good start but not the be-all-end-all.
I'd be 90% sure he goes in that casino a lot and has chatted her up before and finally got up the ballz to ask her out.
IF SHE is the type to immediately give out her number to every pretty boy she sees and who asks for it in the first 15 seconds, you dodged a HUGE bullet and waste of time.
Generally, the best strategy is always to lead with your best self, and try to build a connection (but don't linger or over stay your welcome!!). When you see the opening, go for the number close and get the f*uck out.
Good luck.
~Dash
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