What should I do. I'm black and I try to hang out with everyone I tend to hang out with the kids I play sports with who are mainly white more then I do my black friends. Now people are starting to say damn you mite as well paint your self white cause I'm going to prom with some of the white kids. What can I do? I don't want to look like a sellout but wtf.
Dealing with Biggots/Racist
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neonlimited
Don Juan
yeah that is a tough situation man, i know kids like that at my school, and when i see someone do that to ANY minority it makes me pissed
Don't hang out with the black kids just because everyone else doesn't approve of it. I see that happen everyday. If they piss you off enough, hell just say something. But if you know it's just joking around, shake it off. People are going to be racist.
At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.
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You'll be fine as long as you hang around your friends.
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That has got to be one of the most stupid things I've ever read on this site...congrats.
On to the person that started the thread...
Man I can relate to you, all my friends are white. Mainly because the highschool I went to was 97% white out of 1200 students. I have one black friend. It doesn't matter what race someone is you can still be their friend. Don't let stupid superficial people choose your friends for you.
You're your own boss.
You want a secret? Your black friends are racists, and I can gurantee their parents are too. It's the biggest kept secret in the US. Blacks are just as racist as Whites. Who are just as racist as Hispanics (ok, just Cubans). They're mad because they try to keep the blacks together like black pride. Black people got each others back. That's how they see it. When you hung out with White people, to them, you're saying you don't want to be black. Guess what? **** THE FAKERS. Plus, hanging out with other races does make you like a rare gem to chicks. They might look at white, white, white, ooooo, black dude. Let's see if I can get him in the sac.
If you ditch your friends to hang out with more black kids based on nothing but them being black, then you're stepping into the stereotype that causes these problems in the first place.
I'm not saying not to hang out with black people, some of my best friends are black, but don't ditch good friends because of some immature pricks who still see races as having "roles".
I'm not saying not to hang out with black people, some of my best friends are black, but don't ditch good friends because of some immature pricks who still see races as having "roles".
Beatflux
Don Juan
When there wasn't racial diversity, who could you possible hate because of race?
I agree with Bling.
It seems that the lower the concentration of a particular race in school or in america, the more pride there is. I honestly don't care that I am white, plus that would be consider heinous because it would appear that I was part of the KKK or at least shared their values.
It just goes to show that like attract likes and dislikes move apart.
I agree with Bling.
It seems that the lower the concentration of a particular race in school or in america, the more pride there is. I honestly don't care that I am white, plus that would be consider heinous because it would appear that I was part of the KKK or at least shared their values.
It just goes to show that like attract likes and dislikes move apart.
Just tell them!
DA KID: What you need to do is simple... If you have a problem with something a white kid says to or infront of you, then point it out to him that u do not appreciate him saying that suff and that you wold like him to stop. He will respect you more for that, than when u would just laugh it off. By u laughing it off shows them that u are ok with it, when u are really NOT ok with it.
Laterz...
DA KID: What you need to do is simple... If you have a problem with something a white kid says to or infront of you, then point it out to him that u do not appreciate him saying that suff and that you wold like him to stop. He will respect you more for that, than when u would just laugh it off. By u laughing it off shows them that u are ok with it, when u are really NOT ok with it.
Laterz...
DA KID:
Well in reference to the above post:
It is excellent advice. However, if they are so immature to propose such a ludacris idea (rasist comments) what makes you think they can possibly fathom and "respect" ~equita~s advice.
It is possible, and it is worth a try. Do it. I am not against it.
My two cents:
The first cent --
Racists are practically impossible to deal with. They are narrow-minded people, thus throwing reason and logic at them is akin to throwing a pebble at a building. The building won't break. Seriously.
Move on. Spend time with your true friends. Doesn't it strike you as odd. African-American students calling you racist. When you, yourself are African-American, hanging out with ANOTHER race. In my humble opinion, they are NOT worth your time. Just fvck it, and move on. (Excuse my french). Would a FRIEND do what your African-American "friends" did?
hell, no... Your friends are the racist. After all, why don't they JOIN you and play with your white friends...
Your options:
- Hang out with both groups, together
- Or "Just Fvck it and move on."
Now, ask yourself: Are they really worth it?
Thanks I'll just keep doing me and all those other faggots can **** off. No one even likes that group so I didn't even know why I even bothered listen to them or care what they say. Their were a bunch of cornballs freshman year and know they think their hot **** while I've been popular and growing 3 years strong
thanks everyone for yall help really helped me out
thanks everyone for yall help really helped me outYou want a story?
I hang out with a couple of black kids (most of which are Haitian living in Miami, 1 is only Jamaican). 4 really. 2 freshman guys, and 2 sophomore girls. Well, there's this malatto, albino, I don't know what that's all about black pride that hangs out with my 4 friends. He's got white ass skin, but he's got that wide nose and hair. He thinks he's black, and everyone thinks he's an idiot. So one day I'm hanging out with one of the freshman guys, and he has the nerve to come up to him and say "Why you be hanging out with this white dude? You should be hanging out with black people, and treating him the same way they treated us in the 60s." I should have beat the living **** out of him (I couldn't though, he's 6'1 and everyone would cry racism). This is even more bizarre, the freshman guy actually defends him saying it was a joke. WTF?
Please DA KID, whatever you do, never ever go that far. It's a huge turn off.
I hang out with a couple of black kids (most of which are Haitian living in Miami, 1 is only Jamaican). 4 really. 2 freshman guys, and 2 sophomore girls. Well, there's this malatto, albino, I don't know what that's all about black pride that hangs out with my 4 friends. He's got white ass skin, but he's got that wide nose and hair. He thinks he's black, and everyone thinks he's an idiot. So one day I'm hanging out with one of the freshman guys, and he has the nerve to come up to him and say "Why you be hanging out with this white dude? You should be hanging out with black people, and treating him the same way they treated us in the 60s." I should have beat the living **** out of him (I couldn't though, he's 6'1 and everyone would cry racism). This is even more bizarre, the freshman guy actually defends him saying it was a joke. WTF?
Please DA KID, whatever you do, never ever go that far. It's a huge turn off.