Dealing with a Nervous/Jittery Girl

[Jason88]

I will try to keep this short...

I've been talking to this girl for the past week and a half after getting her number. Last night she wanted to go see a movie, I tried to get her to go somewhere else, but I folded like a little *****.

We met up she was really jittery, nervous, didn't make alot of eye contact (she said she doesn't like to), and continuously played with her hair while looking around. I didn't think she was into me.

During the movie she was wrapping her legs around mine, locking arms....ect After the movie, its the same nervous ****.

We hung out afterwards, I did alot of c/f and she loved it, I would compliment her she would blush and look away. I told her I was leaving b/c she was being a ***** and she would pull me back. We ended up making out... Am I reading too much into her nervous/jittery actions?

Anyone have experience with girls like this? Her mannerism seem like she's not interested in me, but I don't know if thats just how she is. I'm usually good at reading women, but this one is over my head.

 

[KontrollerX]

Sounds like she's absolutely into you bro.

Might as well take her somewhere next time where you can try for the old f-close.

 

[The Sperminator]

Nah man shes totally into shes just shy. It will probably be a few more dates before she gets comfortable around you.

 

[Dongfu]

If you notice, when you are watching the movie, she wraps her legs around you. But after the movie she is nervous. Why? Because in the movie you guys both have an alternate focal point aside from each other. She needs the other distraction to feel comfortable.

So, keep her in a situation where she has something besides you to focus on, and then she will focus on you.

To close her, I would rent a movie to watch at your house. Basically the movie provides her a distraction and comfort zone, and you are free to move it along.

What you have to decide is whether to close her on the couch, or risk moving her to the bedroom. In there it will be just you and her again. Possibly not the greatest scenario.

 

[MagnuM]

Give her some xanax.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Don't worry she's into you. She is just nervous to be in your presence!

 

[Last Man Standing]

During the movie she was wrapping her legs around mine, locking arms....ect After the movie, its the same nervous shyt.

Wrapped her legs around yours? HUH?? She must have "Restless Leg Syndrome" - either that or she likes you!!!

She is not shy and this isn't a sign of nervousness!! When was the last time you were nervous and wrapped your legs around someone?? It doesn't happen!!!

She is putting on a "front" trying to act innocent - don't fall for it!!!

 

[Dongfu]

Wrapped her legs around yours? HUH?? She must have "Restless Leg Syndrome" - either that or she likes you!!!

She is not shy and this isn't a sign of nervousness!! When was the last time you were nervous and wrapped your legs around someone?? It doesn't happen!!!

She is putting on front trying to act innocent - don't fall for it!!!

I dont think so - I think it's more along the lines of what I said. In my experience, nervous girls act like this often.

 

[Last Man Standing]

If you notice, when you are watching the movie, she wraps her legs around you. But after the movie she is nervous. Why? Because in the movie you guys both have an alternate focal point aside from each other. She needs the other distraction to feel comfortable.

So, keep her in a situation where she has something besides you to focus on, and then she will focus on you.

To close her, I would rent a movie to watch at your house. Basically the movie provides her a distraction and comfort zone, and you are free to move it along.

What you have to decide is whether to close her on the couch, or risk moving her to the bedroom. In there it will be just you and her again. Possibly not the greatest scenario.

Yes, you have a valid point - under the cover of darkness inhibitions are done away with!!

 

[Jason88]

If you notice, when you are watching the movie, she wraps her legs around you. But after the movie she is nervous. Why? Because in the movie you guys both have an alternate focal point aside from each other. She needs the other distraction to feel comfortable.

So, keep her in a situation where she has something besides you to focus on, and then she will focus on you.

To close her, I would rent a movie to watch at your house. Basically the movie provides her a distraction and comfort zone, and you are free to move it along.

What you have to decide is whether to close her on the couch, or risk moving her to the bedroom. In there it will be just you and her again. Possibly not the greatest scenario.

Yeah you make some really good points. I'm mostly experienced with more outgoing girls and after reading everything and thinking about it some more I can see her being into me. We talked today and are going out later this week so we will see what happens.

 

[KnockoutJM]

She wants you bad, she just doesn't feel like you are moving along as fast as she would like..

 

[penkitten]

so do you think she is so into you that she is nervous around you OR do you think she is neurotic?

 

[Jason88]

so do you think she is so into you that she is nervous around you OR do you think she is neurotic?

lol I thought maybe she was anxious yeah...thats why I'm alittle confused about all this. Maybe she has alittle panic disorder or something that is giving off the wrong signs.

If I take her phone conservations + the affection she has shown I would definitely say she likes me. But, Her mannerisms have me thinking differently sometimes