dead fish in bed

[derby1]

Whats peoples opinions on this?

out of my last 10 lays

1 has put some serious effort in but sadly i wasnt hugely attracted to her
1 is already a prostitute but we make out for free /FB's/ she knows exactly what shes doing

As for the other 8 total dead fish having to keep advising them to simply W4nk me off or guide them ontop of me becomes a bit of an erection killer, when there being took to the promise land

is this something we Next on ? im getting a bit fed up as time goes on how selfish these women are becoming

 

[marmel75]

It means you havent done a good enough job to go let them turned on. Its up to you to not allow them to be dead fish. You are in charge in the bedroom. Act like it.

Grab her hair, spank her ass, talk **** in her ear, tell her the more she lays there the worse the punishment is going to get.

 

[Glassguy]

Honestly, I have never had a chick that was bad in bed if I had done the right things to get her worked up.

Women get physically stimulated, but more so emotionally stimulated for sex. Of the 2 women I am currently sleeping with, both of them have geysers in their pants when I get to the point of peeling them off.

Its the anticipation, the attraction and the build up that does it. Good foreplay and sensual kissing will send a woman with a boiling interest level over the top, unless she has physical issues that dont allow her to really get wet (far and few between).

Out of the 2 woman I am seeing sexually right now, I first slept with the one who has most of my interest last Saturday night and again yesterday. Both long sex marathons. On Saturday night, as we were making out and hands were roaming, I whispered in her ear "I want you" and she couldnt get my pants off and me inside her fast enough. There were several weeks of build up leading up to Saturday, but when she came over yesterday she was yet again dripping wet not long after she got to my place. And she rides me like a champ.

I am dominant in the bedroom but I also like the woman to "let go" and do what she needs to get hers too. Both of these 2 current ones love dirty talk and they love talking dirty. Heck I figured out that the one goes into a climatic shock when she is on top of me and I put my thumb into her mouth to suck on while I spank her with my other hand and talk shyte to her.

If all of your lays suck that bad, look at what you're doing in the build up, the attraction, the anticipation. Fvck them good and trust me, they will be ready to go the next time. I have a hard time believe that many women are not getting all worked up and ready to fvck like champs if you are laying the groundwork and fvkcing them right.

 

[derby1]

Grab her hair, spank her ass, talk **** in her ear, tell her the more she lays there the worse the punishment is going to get.

i already do all this i airborn 69 em the lot if there petite enough.....its nothing to do with me i just think the female generation is becoming more selfish and arent as good in the sack as they make out

 

[derby1]

Fvck them good and trust me, they will be ready to go the next time

they all come bk within 10 days i must be doing something right ...

the point of my post is there pretty boring themselves and have little to no imagination that explains mp op better

perhaps ive answered my own thoughts again, if there sitting there cumming there life away why reciprocate

 

[The Duke]

Find crazier girls, they are never boring in bed!

 

[Macaframalama]

Whats peoples opinions on this?

out of my last 10 lays

1 has put some serious effort in but sadly i wasnt hugely attracted to her
1 is already a prostitute but we make out for free /FB's/ she knows exactly what shes doing

As for the other 8 total dead fish having to keep advising them to simply W4nk me off or guide them ontop of me becomes a bit of an erection killer, when there being took to the promise land

is this something we Next on ? im getting a bit fed up as time goes on how selfish these women are becoming

Most chics don't know how to throw the pvssy. Considering, you are handling the foreplay dept and taking time in getting them aroused, you are just going to have to embrace cracking the whip and train these chics. When, one runs along, that's already been trained for the most part, count yourself lucky. Then, you can just tweak her skills to your liking. It's shocking how many don't know how to fvck. It's not something to next over. Imo, if you're going to take on this role, it's your obligation to train her. Most of them want to be dominated and told what to do anyways and get off on it. She can save that lazy sex for the squares, but she's going to do work with me. Check out some of Wesley Pipes work if you need some ideas.

 

[derby1]

Find crazier girls, they are never boring in bed!

this is true old plate used to reverse cowgirl me and basically do back flips on my dk

 

[Trainwreck]

oh look another dumb PUA guru post blaming men for the actions of **** quality women. Waittt!! I bet his next post will be some anti feminist topic.

 

[derby1]

Most chics don't know how to throw the pvssy. Considering, you are handling the foreplay dept and taking time in getting them aroused, you are just going to have to embrace cracking the whip and train these chics.

thank you someone who gets me

 

[derby1]

oh look another dumb PUA guru post blaming men for the actions of **** quality women. Waittt!! I bet his next post will be some anti feminist topic.

didnt you post on one of my posts before as if im supposed to be telepathic about the women i come across? cause we all meet 10's like you do

 

[Bingo-Player]

some chicks just dont get it

you could be laying the best d1ck since d1ck began and some chicks still wouldn't know what to do or how to act when receiving it

chick i was fvcking last year that was so useless in bed she could of turned quagmire from family guy off

however she insisted she was good in bed throughout the whole ordeal

this went on for about 3 weeks in the hope she would loosen up abit ......she didnt and i broke it off after a month

she went completely crazy for a good 6 months

 

[Macaframalama]

thank you someone who gets me

There's a freak in just about every woman. It just has to be coaxed out. When, you consider how much of their time and energy is spent on their image and how they will be percieved, you can see why. Your bed is the last place for all of that. Your bed is for pleasure and comfort. You will hear in the community allot how you shouldn't throw around physical compliments. This is the one place you should. Associate sex with reward from the jump. Another thing is, allot of chics are out of shape or downright lazy. You mentioned reverse cowgirl, that's one of my favs, as well as them squatting on the D. Find chics that are into yoga or CrossFit, etc. Chics that have the stamina, flexibility and dexterity for the type of sex you like is a big plus.

 

[Glassguy]

There's a freak in just about every woman. It just has to be coaxed out. When, you consider how much of their time and energy is spent on their image and how they will be percieved, you can see why. Your bed is the last place for all of that. Your bed is for pleasure and comfort. You will hear in the community allot how you shouldn't throw around physical compliments. This is the one place you should. Associate sex with reward from the jump. Another thing is, allot of chics are out of shape or downright lazy. You mentioned reverse cowgirl, that's one of my favs, as well as them squatting on the D. Find chics that are into yoga or CrossFit, etc. Chics that have the stamina, flexibility and dexterity for the type of sex you like is a big plus.

Agree with all of this.

ANY woman.....IDK how "old fashioned" she is......is just begging you to bring her freak out. In order to do this she must be completely comfortable with you (so she knows that you like her in this regard and are NOT judging her).

Simple things to do (in the bedroom) to get there:

-give her compliments (you feel soooooo good...you taste so good.....keep talking dirty because you have me so turned on right now.....I love fvcking you and how you feel....etc etc). Trust me when I say that a woman will like hearing validation from you and she will be much more comfortable in bed with you which will lead to her being more free and open during sex

-lead her into being naughtier by showing her its ok to do so. Let your hand wonder a little lower when rubbing her pvssy and let one finger start to tease her @ass. Youll be surprised how many will moan instead of stopping you. Grab her hair and pull a little....or a little more.......see how she reacts. Talk dirty. Tell her that she is NOT allowed to *** yet because it feels too fvcking good to stop (and they will *** like clockwork). With her on top of you, grab the back of her hair and pull her mouth towards yours and stop before kissing her, telling her you want her closer when she cums.

-Dont try to fvck her like a porn star the first time. You are planting emotional seeds in her regarding sex with you....not being all about 100% physical pump and dump signs of wanting to give her a facial and all of a sudden her uber is waiting outside lol. Slowly bring these things to the bedroom as you continue sleeping with her. You have to warm her up.

 

[derby1]

Dont try to fvck her like a porn star the first time.

laughing hard at this.............................this is clearly my problem, cause they start investigating or looking into if im banging other chicks

 

[marmel75]

Honestly, I have never had a chick that was bad in bed if I had done the right things to get her worked up.

Women get physically stimulated, but more so emotionally stimulated for sex. Of the 2 women I am currently sleeping with, both of them have geysers in their pants when I get to the point of peeling them off.

Its the anticipation, the attraction and the build up that does it. Good foreplay and sensual kissing will send a woman with a boiling interest level over the top, unless she has physical issues that dont allow her to really get wet (far and few between).

Out of the 2 woman I am seeing sexually right now, I first slept with the one who has most of my interest last Saturday night and again yesterday. Both long sex marathons. On Saturday night, as we were making out and hands were roaming, I whispered in her ear "I want you" and she couldnt get my pants off and me inside her fast enough. There were several weeks of build up leading up to Saturday, but when she came over yesterday she was yet again dripping wet not long after she got to my place. And she rides me like a champ.

I am dominant in the bedroom but I also like the woman to "let go" and do what she needs to get hers too. Both of these 2 current ones love dirty talk and they love talking dirty. Heck I figured out that the one goes into a climatic shock when she is on top of me and I put my thumb into her mouth to suck on while I spank her with my other hand and talk shyte to her.

If all of your lays suck that bad, look at what you're doing in the build up, the attraction, the anticipation. Fvck them good and trust me, they will be ready to go the next time. I have a hard time believe that many women are not getting all worked up and ready to fvck like champs if you are laying the groundwork and fvkcing them right.

Agreed...in my opinion in these situations its almost always the guys fault...he either isn't getting them hot and bothered enough or he isnt quite as good in the bedroom as he thinks he is.

There is no way if you are making a woman squirt or have mind numbing orgasms she is going to be laying there like a dead fish.

 

[Glassguy]

laughing hard at this.............................this is clearly my problem, cause they start investigating or looking into if im banging other chicks

You can rail a chick all day. Unless she is just a complete wh0re, she wants mental/emotional stimulation and validation that you are enjoying HER not just the sex act. That is the point I would bet you are missing with these women to get them worked up.

 

[Roober]

8 of 10 dead fish? Wow! Sounds like your not as good in bed as you think! Every woman is a freak, just takes the right man to help her find it

@Macaframalama and @Glassguy both have quality stuff in here, so I won't repeat that.

If you have fvcked these women already, time start being a man and taking charge. Do what you want and ask questions later. Be creative. For example...
1. If she's in the kitchen, go pull her pants down, pick her up, and wrap her legs around your shoulders, then eat her out.
2. Or when your fvcking her, slide your finger around her a$$hole.
3. Try changing positions without taking your d1ck out. I will do her doggystyle, then turn her on the side, then towards me, weird to explain but try it
4. My lady goes crazy for this one...while in missionary, scoot off the bed, stand up, put each of her legs on your shoulders and pound away. If you have decent size, she won't be able to handle this for long, but often makes women splooge all over the floor. Last time I did this, when I pulled out, she literally had a stream gush out. I was feeling nasty, so I laid her down in it and we went to town.
5. While in doggystyle, I will slide a thick pillow under her pelvis, then push firmly on her back, pinning her to the bed. Something about this angle hits the right spot
6. While standing doggystyle, grab her hips and pick her up. I will then rotate her hips in a circular motion, or just up and down while gyrating my hips
7. Add a change on a normal position. My lady will be on top. I will shift her around while fvcking to get her feet next to my belly. I will then grab her ankles and fold her in a V with her hands on my calves. Then creative circular motions

Now this is stuff I just tried experimenting and mostly works. This is from a woman with very few sexual partners, willing to do anything with me, who hasn't tried anything in the past. My ex-wife turned into a freak too once I figured out how to bring it out.

And last thing... when you ***... you do it hard, every single time. Easiest way to explain, put your whole body into her *****, lol. But don't be pathetic!

 

[derby1]

perhaps ive worded my Original Post not so perfect here men....
i know exactly what im doing...
i am just stating that i find women in general selfish and unimaginative considering its 2018 and half of them reckon they ride the carousel full time, they aint very good at it

 

[derby1]

go pull her pants down, pick her up, and wrap her legs around your shoulders, then eat her out.

i appreciate the advice....ive stated further up the thread i airborn 69 women the lot

i think my point is when i bang a woman i take everything ive learnt into the next FCK

so youd think how open things are in 2018 youd think they had a bit of artillery in between the sck