Day game, Social circle, or online?

[rocco]

In your opinion what do you think is the best way to picking up women:

Day game, Social Circle game, or Online game?

 

[hithard]

For me as I get older, social circle game works best. They can be harder to establish at the start and you have to be careful not to become that guy but it yields the most results.

 

[VladPatton]

Always in real life. Day game, night game, social circle, friend of a friend, even a blind hookup as a last resort. Never fall for the online lies, you'll be a saner person.

 

[RangerMIke]

Day game works best for me.... I really don't need anything else. I have the best results just approaching women I see out and about. But sometime social circle.

 

[Tenacity]

Use all of them, but online works great for me but that's not to say it will work the same for others.

I always say that the same chicks you are going to meet at the nightclub or the local (insert whatever store or spot here) are also online in social media somewhere, whether that's FB, Instagram, Match, OKC, POF, etc.

I don't really know if the PLACE where you meet women matters anymore, I think if you have the attraction game down pat (looks, personality, financial, etc) then you can meet women anywhere.

For me, online is faster, more efficient and I can meet more women in a short period of time.

 

[zekko]

The thing about any kind of cold approaching that bugs me, whether it be day game, night game, clubs, whatever, is that you never know who you are approaching. She could be a single mother of six, she could be a hardcore BPD b!tch, she could be married, she could be diehard lesbian, she could be the cheating wife of an mafia boss, anything. Online profiles are full of lies.

So the nice thing about social circle is that you have a pretty good idea of who you are hooking up with, and whether or not there might be some attraction. The downside is that if you have a small social circle, there may not be much variety there. When you think of social circle as "everyone you know" though, it's probably a lot bigger than you might think. That's admittedly not a very "PUA" way of looking at things, though.

 

[Wilko]

Was just writing about this in another thread. I can think of two overlooked advantadges of OLD.

Filtering - with a bit of experience you can get very, very, very good at filtering online. My buddies and I have made some staggeringly good calls based on some tiny bits of data. Scary good - Am I a wizard?!

Blowback - with OLD you can keep your dating life entirely separate from the rest of your life - great for damage control. It's a bigger risk with social circle game, but I guess day/night game can keep you relatively insulated if things blow up in your face.

Rock-paper-scissors?

 

[rocco]

What's the best place online to meet women? I started using Tinder the other day, but it's too early to tell if it's any good.

I'm inclined to give day game a try in combination with online game. Maybe someday I will give social circle game a try.

 

[evan12]

@rocco: keep us updated , I am almost in your age and want to know what is working , because honestly I start finding day game becoming awkward (also before 2 years I almost stopped night game ) .

 

[rocco]

I think day game is like the ultimate game to learn. Because if you get good at day game, it really expands your pool of potentiol women to date--you're not just limited to people you know. Same with online game.

having a good social circle game can also enhance your day game and online game.

I know day game can be awkward but i think im ok looking, and i can get decently good at it if i put in the time.

 

[Cloudtopsun2100]

social circle provides the best results by far, online is good for notches, daygame is decent (some of the girls are still trash though, closed many a girl that really was personalitywise no better than an OKC girl).. however social circle isnt really game not that it matters if you are plowing a HB9 that you met at a bowling event or whatever

 

[sodbuster]

Whatever version of in person floats your boat.... online, women are MORE likely to blow you off looking for their version of Brad Pitt. AND they can post 10 year old pictures.

 

[Julian]

In my experience day game has the best results but also takes the most balls/effort.

Social circle game can work for the extraverted types out there...for those of us more solo types its not the best way sometimes...however it can be done. I have many friends/acquaintances ive come to know over the years...if I wanted I could have FB page with 500 people i know and im sure that would lead to connections with women (it has in the past). I dont like being out there like that though. and 500 is a small number compared to alot of people.


Finally...online game. This is the laziest route/easiest...but not the best method or the one leading the best results for me at least. Lots of single mommys out there.

 

[atlantadawg]

d) all of the above