trojanman88 said:
So how do I get started? I don't know how to touch a girl during the day with out akwardness and a girl turning around like :nono:
Well first you'd have to look at yourself and think do you want to be the type of guy, because for some people touching women just met right off the opener isn't there style.
For me personally I just do it because I really love messing with women and touch is anyone way for me to offer value to them. So say if I teased her right off my opener I'd put my arm around her and mess with her. Then maybe I'd push her away.
If she said something that really impressed me I'd probably hi five her or say something like "OMG I love you" *hug*. If its a group and they said something that impressed me I'd yell "Group Hug". Mess with them some more tell them about how there like my new family and run with that.
When I'm not just straight up kinoing I tend to show little BS things that involves touching. So I might as to see her hand and do something and maybe even make a cold read about it, or just tease her, or even do some push/pull.
Ultimately its up to the person, like I said some guys don't want to be the guy who is already escalating the interaction, some like to hold back for a bit and maybe 5mins in the want to start kinoing, for me personally thats my first attempt to go for the kiss majority of the time.
I say this because if your incongruent it won't fly at all. Not that certain things you do won't start off incongruent but if you know 100% that you would never want to be a guy who does that then no matter what your still going to be incongruent becuase you know deep down you don't want to come off like that.