Day Game: dealing with the security guys

[Nutz]

LOL. Let's see. I diss everyone in this thread for telling this guy he's doing it wrong. Then I turn around say he must be doing it wrong! LOLOLOLOLOL:crackup: Gotta love these nuckleheads around here!

Nice try, but you're conflating issues. This thread has diverged into two separate issues:

1) Thinking you cannot day-game in the UK. That's just not true and thinking as much is a limiting belief, nothing more.

2) How the OP is day-gaming could be what's causing him to have problems, not that the UK is ungamable outside social circle and night-game.

 

[Warrior74]

semantics.

 

[Smack]

Nice try, but you're conflating issues. This thread has diverged into two separate issues:

1) Thinking you cannot day-game in the UK. That's just not true and thinking as much is a limiting belief, nothing more.

2) How the OP is day-gaming could be what's causing him to have problems, not that the UK is ungamable outside social circle and night-game.

No one's saying any of the above, because: you can "day game" here but just not walk up to random girls in shops who are trying to get through their day to day lives. The fair, pubs, food places in shopping centres and parks are all places where people don't mind talking to people because they are not busy doing their own thing. But most Americans seem to think that 'day gaming' is hitting up the mall and approaching random girls, it seems.

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

Clubs, bars, flat parties, house parties, a college class, a university class

No one's saying any of the above, because: you can "day game" here but just not walk up to random girls in shops who are trying to get through their day to day lives. The fair, pubs, food places in shopping centres and parks are all places where people don't mind talking to people because they are not busy doing their own thing. But most Americans seem to think that 'day gaming' is hitting up the mall and approaching random girls, it seems.

C'mon dude, seriously. What if he's in the real world and done with college? Thats four of them gone. Real world parties don't happen as often as college. Bars and Clubs is all he's got left. As Nutz said(Hey Nutz, this is TheWolfHowls at MetroDCPua...just another another alias)...i agree, it's a limiting belief. You don't know if the woman is so dead sent on doing her daily errands. Most are bored with whatever they're doing.

Now you mentioned, get through their day to day lives. Over time something is routine and ordinary. How often does a woman get swept off her feet while she's doing day to day things that are normal and typical? Barely ever. Now if you go in and sweep her off her feet, it'll change her day. It'll be exciting. "A few days ago, as i was at the mall...this charming guy went up to me, wanting to meet me "

Now will a few women say your bothering them or try to get back to what they are doing? Sure, but it rarely happens. Its only happened to me twice. There are so many more. Sure, you don't want to go up to them if they look VERY occupied(only cuz they're prolly on a rush and can't talk), but at the same time...if they're looking at something OR walking and don't seem to be on a rush, why let that stop you? So if you see those hot women at a mall, who are just looking at something, what's stopping you?

 

[Smack]

C'mon dude, seriously. What if he's in the real world and done with college? Thats four of them gone. Real world parties don't happen as often as college. Bars and Clubs is all he's got left. As Nutz said(Hey Nutz, this is TheWolfHowls at MetroDCPua...just another another alias)...i agree, it's a limiting belief. You don't know if the woman is so dead sent on doing her daily errands. Most are bored with whatever they're doing.

Now you mentioned, get through their day to day lives. Over time something is routine and ordinary. How often does a woman get swept off her feet while she's doing day to day things that are normal and typical? Barely ever. Now if you go in and sweep her off her feet, it'll change her day. It'll be exciting. "A few days ago, as i was at the mall...this charming guy went up to me, wanting to meet me "

Now will a few women say your bothering them or try to get back to what they are doing? Sure, but it rarely happens. Its only happened to me twice. There are so many more. Sure, you don't want to go up to them if they look VERY occupied(only cuz they're prolly on a rush and can't talk), but at the same time...if they're looking at something OR walking and don't seem to be on a rush, why let that stop you? So if you see those hot women at a mall, who are just looking at something, what's stopping you?

Bars and clubs isn't all he's got left; he should still have a wide and interesting social circle with which he meets women through (friends of friends etc). That's how most people get laid, find partners etc.

 

[Matt Rogers]

Thanks for the feedback. I'll stick to approaches on the subway, on the streets, the park and fairs until I build up more experience so I can approach smoothly. If Im creeping them out it would only be because I still have a little bit of anxiety when I approach which will disappear as I do more approaches.

Of course there are other ways of meeting women but Im an introverted guy and building a huge social circle is just not what Im about and when you are working long hours there is only scope to go to a bar/club once a week. Day game seemed like a time efficient way of meeting girls.

I also had a huge success once where I met an ex fashion model on the street, got her number, a date the next day and dated her for a little while. Im an average looking guy and a girl like that wouldn't give me the time of day in a club. So I still think that day game can work

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

Bars and clubs isn't all he's got left; he should still have a wide and interesting social circle with which he meets women through (friends of friends etc). That's how most people get laid, find partners etc.

Social Circles I admit are a usual way, but doesn't mean u'll get the women u most desire. Thats the problem with it. Ur just limited to the girls ur introduced to(Hoping they'll be super hot)...PLUS social circles aren't for everyone. There are guys who don't really got the time to have one or don't care to waste the effort in making one and still get laid plenty.

Thanks for the feedback. I'll stick to approaches on the subway, on the streets, the park and fairs until I build up more experience so I can approach smoothly. If Im creeping them out it would only be because I still have a little bit of anxiety when I approach which will disappear as I do more approaches.

Good plan man. Definitely stick with what will be easier for you.

Of course there are other ways of meeting women but Im an introverted guy and building a huge social circle is just not what Im about and when you are working long hours there is only scope to go to a bar/club once a week. Day game seemed like a time efficient way of meeting girls.

Yea, it doesn't take really effort at all besides just going up to women. Thats all.

I also had a huge success once where I met an ex fashion model on the street, got her number, a date the next day and dated her for a little while. Im an average looking guy and a girl like that wouldn't give me the time of day in a club. So I still think that day game can work

Nice man! But about her not giving u the time of day in a club, i seriously doubt that if get experience at night. Very hot women are usually pretty receptive, if ur very attracted to them, even if its at night. Its the not as super hot ones that are iffy.